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I met a girl of a similar ethnicity at my job, I initiated conversation and it seemed to be going decently. I find her attractive and she seems to be responding well and talking back. She at first asks how old I am and how tall I am and like what kind of movies and hobbies I like etc during our lunch breaks (we work at a cellphone warehouse for context). Unfortunately, later on she switches lunch breaks. Even after this, we meet in between, she gave me a lot of compliments about my clothes and then once complemented my eyelashes, she asks for my TikTok randomly while scrolling before she switched and whenever I had a class day at my job for the pallet training bullshit, we had the same lunch again where we went on a walk around the building and she once again gave me some candy and I learned more about her background. She came to America when she was 17 or 18, few years ago. She’s 20 almost 21 now and I’m 19 which may also be hurting me. Here’s the issue, I have yet to ask for her phone number and over text, whenever I bring the idea of hanging out or rescheduling hangout after asking in person and her saying yes, she always ignores it or leaves it on delivered. I don’t like the way she texts but she is reciprocative and talkative to me in person when I barely get a chance to talk to her at my job especially with new management and our breaks being different now. She even showed me her car the other day after I asked for her Snapchat and asked to hangout. I’m trying to learn my own native language for this girl cause she seems like actually trad somewhat while still speaking and understanding English and some American culture. I also find her accent cute as she is Ethiopian like me but from the motherland, way better than these slut whore bbc college foids Ik . I just don’t know why she never wants to hangout outside of work but she literally compliments me, gives me candy, leftover food she cooks in large amounts even after she switched breaks, and stared into eyes smiling while saying she liked how my eyelashes curl up. She even waited after work everytime I told her to after she switched lunch breaks even though she gets out 5-10 minutes earlier than my department. I don’t what to go back to liking and getting lead on and cucked by my thick hmtb Indian hg. I’m actually getting over her now because of this work girl but she is not wanting to hangout watch a movie or get some food outside of work and I’m already being watched heavily by my work supervisor for being nd and talking a lot naturally being myself I might get fired soon jfl.

TLDR: I started working weekend shifts a few weeks ago because of college, and that’s when I met this Ethiopian girl at work. I noticed we were the same ethnicity and found her attractive, so I randomly started talking to her. She’s been really friendly/flirty—compliments me, gives me food/candy, asks personal questions, got my socials, walks with me, and waits for me after work. But whenever I try to make plans outside work over text, she leaves me on delivered despite saying yes in person. I’m confused because she seems interested in person but doesn’t actually follow through on hanging out.
 
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I met a girl of a similar ethnicity at my job, I initiated conversation and it seemed to be going decently. I find her attractive and she seems to be responding well and talking back. She at first asks how old I am and how tall I am and like what kind of movies and hobbies I like etc during our lunch breaks (we work at a cellphone warehouse for context). Unfortunately, later on she switches lunch breaks. Even after this, we meet in between, she gave me a lot of compliments about my clothes and then once complemented my eyelashes, she asks for my TikTok randomly while scrolling before she switched and whenever I had a class day at my job for the pallet training bullshit, we had the same lunch again where we went on a walk around the building and she once again gave me some candy and I learned more about her background. She came to America when she was 17 or 18, few years ago. She’s 20 almost 21 now and I’m 19 which may also be hurting me. Here’s the issue, I have yet to ask for her phone number and over text, whenever I bring the idea of hanging out or rescheduling hangout after asking in person and her saying yes, she always ignores it or leaves it on delivered. I don’t like the way she texts but she is reciprocative and talkative to me in person when I barely get a chance to talk to her at my job especially with new management and our breaks being different now. She even showed me her car the other day after I asked for her Snapchat and asked to hangout. I’m trying to learn my own native language for this girl cause she seems like actually trad somewhat while still speaking and understanding English and some American culture. I also find her accent cute as she is Ethiopian like me but from the motherland, way better than these slut whore bbc college foids Ik . I just don’t know why she never wants to hangout outside of work but she literally compliments me, gives me candy, leftover food she cooks in large amounts even after she switched breaks, and stared into eyes smiling while saying she liked how my eyelashes curl up. She even waited after work everytime I told her to after she switched lunch breaks even though she gets out 5-10 minutes earlier than my department. I don’t what to go back to liking and getting lead on and cucked by my thick hmtb Indian hg. I’m actually getting over her now because of this work girl but she is not wanting to hangout watch a movie or get some food outside of work and I’m already being watched heavily by my work supervisor for being nd and talking a lot naturally being myself I might get fired soon jfl.

TLDR: I started working weekend shifts a few weeks ago because of college, and that’s when I met this Ethiopian girl at work. I noticed we were the same ethnicity and found her attractive, so I randomly started talking to her. She’s been really friendly/flirty—compliments me, gives me food/candy, asks personal questions, got my socials, walks with me, and waits for me after work. But whenever I try to make plans outside work over text, she leaves me on delivered despite saying yes in person. I’m confused because she seems interested in person but doesn’t actually follow through on hanging out.
DNR!!!!!
 
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Send face pic I’ll tell you if it’s worth dating
 
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DNR + TFD + JBG
 
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Send face pic I’ll tell you if it’s worth dating
I don’t wanna send her face that’s an invasion of privacy but she is around high mtb in my opinion maybe low htb with no body halo jfl she seems rlly virgin and in culture ngl
 
i have it the same
 
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I don’t wanna send her face that’s an invasion of privacy but she is around high mtb in my opinion maybe low htb with no body halo jfl she seems rlly virgin and in culture ngl
No I’m saying you
 
I met a girl of a similar ethnicity at my job, I initiated conversation and it seemed to be going decently. I find her attractive and she seems to be responding well and talking back. She at first asks how old I am and how tall I am and like what kind of movies and hobbies I like etc during our lunch breaks (we work at a cellphone warehouse for context). Unfortunately, later on she switches lunch breaks. Even after this, we meet in between, she gave me a lot of compliments about my clothes and then once complemented my eyelashes, she asks for my TikTok randomly while scrolling before she switched and whenever I had a class day at my job for the pallet training bullshit, we had the same lunch again where we went on a walk around the building and she once again gave me some candy and I learned more about her background. She came to America when she was 17 or 18, few years ago. She’s 20 almost 21 now and I’m 19 which may also be hurting me. Here’s the issue, I have yet to ask for her phone number and over text, whenever I bring the idea of hanging out or rescheduling hangout after asking in person and her saying yes, she always ignores it or leaves it on delivered. I don’t like the way she texts but she is reciprocative and talkative to me in person when I barely get a chance to talk to her at my job especially with new management and our breaks being different now. She even showed me her car the other day after I asked for her Snapchat and asked to hangout. I’m trying to learn my own native language for this girl cause she seems like actually trad somewhat while still speaking and understanding English and some American culture. I also find her accent cute as she is Ethiopian like me but from the motherland, way better than these slut whore bbc college foids Ik . I just don’t know why she never wants to hangout outside of work but she literally compliments me, gives me candy, leftover food she cooks in large amounts even after she switched breaks, and stared into eyes smiling while saying she liked how my eyelashes curl up. She even waited after work everytime I told her to after she switched lunch breaks even though she gets out 5-10 minutes earlier than my department. I don’t what to go back to liking and getting lead on and cucked by my thick hmtb Indian hg. I’m actually getting over her now because of this work girl but she is not wanting to hangout watch a movie or get some food outside of work and I’m already being watched heavily by my work supervisor for being nd and talking a lot naturally being myself I might get fired soon jfl.

TLDR: I started working weekend shifts a few weeks ago because of college, and that’s when I met this Ethiopian girl at work. I noticed we were the same ethnicity and found her attractive, so I randomly started talking to her. She’s been really friendly/flirty—compliments me, gives me food/candy, asks personal questions, got my socials, walks with me, and waits for me after work. But whenever I try to make plans outside work over text, she leaves me on delivered despite saying yes in person. I’m confused because she seems interested in person but doesn’t actually follow through on hanging out.
its not luck bro
 
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its not luck bro
I agree she mogs me but she genuinely drops a lot of iois. If she had no interest why the staring and smiling and then complimenting? Or making me food and buying me candy that’s overpriced from the job and giving it to me or the waiting for me to come out and asking me for my TikTok? If she truly only saw me in a platonic way and she did this I would feel like I got lead on, especially because she even asked how tall I was and how old I was the first weekend we met and laughed and giggled when I said I was 5’11-5’10 and thought I was 5’9 jflz she just won’t reply to my texts about hanging out or anytjing and it’s making me feel like she thinks I’m ugly
 
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i have it the same
It’s hard out here man mentally when it comes to romance it’s one of the things in my life that makes me wanna kill myself and I wish I was better at it and not so awkward and better looking somewhat but I also could be dieting better and such.
 
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I agree she mogs me but she genuinely drops a lot of iois. If she had no interest why the staring and smiling and then complimenting? Or making me food and buying me candy that’s overpriced from the job and giving it to me or the waiting for me to come out and asking me for my TikTok? If she truly only saw me in a platonic way and she did this I would feel like I got lead on, especially because she even asked how tall I was and how old I was the first weekend we met and laughed and giggled when I said I was 5’11-5’10 and thought I was 5’9 jflz she just won’t reply to my texts about hanging out or anytjing and it’s making me feel like she thinks I’m ugly
i cant say whats happening exactly in your case,
but ive seen shit like this b4
youre gl enough to be in her social circle but not enough to date her
and dont think the foid dosent know what shes doing
 
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i cant say whats happening exactly in your case,
but ive seen shit like this b4
youre gl enough to be in her social circle but not enough to date her
and dont think the foid dosent know what shes doing
yea I could ascend though more I have yet to lean max at all tbh I’m quite bulky rn and I’ve yet to do some style and softmaxxes so maybe things will change but tbh I will get over it and move on if she doesn’t feel how she changes jfl. I got lead on but still made out drunk with my first year college crush and now we are “friends” and I only want to fuck her now but I find her annoying as hell now that I don’t actually have a crush on her ngl as a second yr now
 
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Ok

yea I could ascend though more I have yet to lean max at all tbh I’m quite bulky rn and I’ve yet to do some style and softmaxxes so maybe things will change but tbh I will get over it and move on if she doesn’t feel how she changes jfl. I got lead on but still made out drunk with my first year college crush and now we are “friends” and I only want to fuck her now but I find her annoying as hell now that I don’t actually have a crush on her ngl as a second yr now
I mentally have been through that shit show my first yr of college u can handle most stuff now I just want to end it even more though jf with every romantic failure in my life
 
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yea I could ascend though more I have yet to lean max at all tbh I’m quite bulky rn and I’ve yet to do some style and softmaxxes so maybe things will change but tbh I will get over it and move on if she doesn’t feel how she changes jfl. I got lead on but still made out drunk with my first year college crush and now we are “friends” and I only want to fuck her now but I find her annoying as hell now that I don’t actually have a crush on her ngl as a second yr now
I mentally have been through that shit show my first yr of college u can handle most stuff now I just want to end it even more though jf with every romantic failure in my life
its never over dont rope b4 you even do the bare minimum nigga
get lean asap
though i agree that by then when you do ascend(if at all)
itd probably be over with this girl that youre speaking of
 
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it’s .org bro we all have no luck with women
 
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I met a girl of a similar ethnicity at my job, I initiated conversation and it seemed to be going decently. I find her attractive and she seems to be responding well and talking back. She at first asks how old I am and how tall I am and like what kind of movies and hobbies I like etc during our lunch breaks (we work at a cellphone warehouse for context). Unfortunately, later on she switches lunch breaks. Even after this, we meet in between, she gave me a lot of compliments about my clothes and then once complemented my eyelashes, she asks for my TikTok randomly while scrolling before she switched and whenever I had a class day at my job for the pallet training bullshit, we had the same lunch again where we went on a walk around the building and she once again gave me some candy and I learned more about her background. She came to America when she was 17 or 18, few years ago. She’s 20 almost 21 now and I’m 19 which may also be hurting me. Here’s the issue, I have yet to ask for her phone number and over text, whenever I bring the idea of hanging out or rescheduling hangout after asking in person and her saying yes, she always ignores it or leaves it on delivered. I don’t like the way she texts but she is reciprocative and talkative to me in person when I barely get a chance to talk to her at my job especially with new management and our breaks being different now. She even showed me her car the other day after I asked for her Snapchat and asked to hangout. I’m trying to learn my own native language for this girl cause she seems like actually trad somewhat while still speaking and understanding English and some American culture. I also find her accent cute as she is Ethiopian like me but from the motherland, way better than these slut whore bbc college foids Ik . I just don’t know why she never wants to hangout outside of work but she literally compliments me, gives me candy, leftover food she cooks in large amounts even after she switched breaks, and stared into eyes smiling while saying she liked how my eyelashes curl up. She even waited after work everytime I told her to after she switched lunch breaks even though she gets out 5-10 minutes earlier than my department. I don’t what to go back to liking and getting lead on and cucked by my thick hmtb Indian hg. I’m actually getting over her now because of this work girl but she is not wanting to hangout watch a movie or get some food outside of work and I’m already being watched heavily by my work supervisor for being nd and talking a lot naturally being myself I might get fired soon jfl.

TLDR: I started working weekend shifts a few weeks ago because of college, and that’s when I met this Ethiopian girl at work. I noticed we were the same ethnicity and found her attractive, so I randomly started talking to her. She’s been really friendly/flirty—compliments me, gives me food/candy, asks personal questions, got my socials, walks with me, and waits for me after work. But whenever I try to make plans outside work over text, she leaves me on delivered despite saying yes in person. I’m confused because she seems interested in person but doesn’t actually follow through on hanging out.
do any of us have any luck probably not
 
its never over dont rope b4 you even do the bare minimum nigga
get lean asap
though i agree that by then when you do ascend(if at all)
itd probably be over with this girl that youre speaking of
Im not fat im just not lean at all ive been trying to gain muscle and bulk but I put on too much fat along side it im sitting at 185 -187 probably about at 5’11 which is not bad but still kinda overweight im trying to lean down to 160 and get abs and lose face fat see how I look then. But she does work my weekend job and will probably continue to go up to me so she will probably end up seeing the progress
 
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@SachaJaat it could be due to my age though she did comment on that cause I’m the younger one by anlmost 2 years and she did call me younger like one time, I said when I was a kid and she said “you still are a kid.” And laughed when I was talking about a childhood story. Shes 20 close to my age btw… I also don’t have a car at the moment due it to breaking down first yr and she does jfl.
 
do any of us have any luck probably not
maybe I am meant to be a truecel and die alone. No matter how many times people say I’m fine looking and I’m not short all it doesn’t matter, I’m pretty low iq and I do dumb things I really only haven’t roped due to my mom and sisters
 
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@SachaJaat it could be due to my age though she did comment on that cause I’m the younger one by anlmost 2 years and she did call me younger like one time, I said when I was a kid and she said “you still are a kid.” And laughed when I was talking about a childhood story. Shes 20 close to my age btw… I also don’t have a car at the moment due it to breaking down first yr and she does jfl.
i doubt it,
if she was genuinely attracted to you, she wouldnt have even brought that up
maybe with some heavy jestering you can get her but otherwise in your current situation as you described it,
i dont see it happening
 
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i doubt it,
if she was genuinely attracted to you, she wouldnt have even brought that up
maybe with some heavy jestering you can get her but otherwise in your current situation as you described it,
i dont see it happening
Yea most likely true I will continue to keep ascending and keep it pushing despite everything that’s happened crush wise
 
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I just don’t know why she never wants to hangout outside of work
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