I have noticed girls become insecure around me.

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So in these past 4 years I have grown up and become very different in the face also, I guess for the better. I didn’t always look the way I do. Back then girl used to treat me very differently than they do now. Back then, I got along with girls pretty good but in a friendly way. So basically I got freindzoned, but they seemed more likely to talk to me and aproach me, some girls even made fun of me and laughed at me. But I never experienced that now, girls treat me very differently than before and honestly it’s very wierd the behavior I get from them sometimes. I have had many talking stages and ofc they never made it, but also just like in daily life, when I talk to girls they seem almost scared to talk to me or say something stupid, like the answers seems so performative, almost to the point that they don’t wanna talk too much because it’s more likely that they’ll end up saying something stupid. I almost never get approached but I get so many stares. I mean when I go clubbing and stuff i get a few girls say something to me when I walk past them but almost never like a girl fully approaching me like how a man would aproach a girl they like. When girls look at me idk if they are admiring or what. Because sometimes I just overthink. But they also play games where they will try and see if I care and make me jaloux or get mad over the small things. I feel like it’s their ego that can’t handle a good looking guy taking the spotlight idk it’s wierd. Does this happend to you guys too and lmk what u guys think it is
 
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So in these past 4 years I have grown up and become very different in the face also, I guess for the better. I didn’t always look the way I do. Back then girl used to treat me very differently than they do now. Back then, I got along with girls pretty good but in a friendly way. So basically I got freindzoned, but they seemed more likely to talk to me and aproach me, some girls even made fun of me and laughed at me. But I never experienced that now, girls treat me very differently than before and honestly it’s very wierd the behavior I get from them sometimes. I have had many talking stages and ofc they never made it, but also just like in daily life, when I talk to girls they seem almost scared to talk to me or say something stupid, like the answers seems so performative, almost to the point that they don’t wanna talk too much because it’s more likely that they’ll end up saying something stupid. I almost never get approached but I get so many stares. I mean when I go clubbing and stuff i get a few girls say something to me when I walk past them but almost never like a girl fully approaching me like how a man would aproach a girl they like. When girls look at me idk if they are admiring or what. Because sometimes I just overthink. But they also play games where they will try and see if I care and make me jaloux or get mad over the small things. I feel like it’s their ego that can’t handle a good looking guy taking the spotlight idk it’s wierd. Does this happend to you guys too and lmk what u guys think it is
Okay arabsuperman 😂
 
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This is me now and before btw
 

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So in these past 4 years I have grown up and become very different in the face also, I guess for the better. I didn’t always look the way I do. Back then girl used to treat me very differently than they do now. Back then, I got along with girls pretty good but in a friendly way. So basically I got freindzoned, but they seemed more likely to talk to me and aproach me, some girls even made fun of me and laughed at me. But I never experienced that now, girls treat me very differently than before and honestly it’s very wierd the behavior I get from them sometimes. I have had many talking stages and ofc they never made it, but also just like in daily life, when I talk to girls they seem almost scared to talk to me or say something stupid, like the answers seems so performative, almost to the point that they don’t wanna talk too much because it’s more likely that they’ll end up saying something stupid. I almost never get approached but I get so many stares. I mean when I go clubbing and stuff i get a few girls say something to me when I walk past them but almost never like a girl fully approaching me like how a man would aproach a girl they like. When girls look at me idk if they are admiring or what. Because sometimes I just overthink. But they also play games where they will try and see if I care and make me jaloux or get mad over the small things. I feel like it’s their ego that can’t handle a good looking guy taking the spotlight idk it’s wierd. Does this happend to you guys too and lmk what u guys think it is
Post face or keep coping
 
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Girls get insecure around you because you looks like a fucking serial killer.
 
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So in these past 4 years I have grown up and become very different in the face also, I guess for the better. I didn’t always look the way I do. Back then girl used to treat me very differently than they do now. Back then, I got along with girls pretty good but in a friendly way. So basically I got freindzoned, but they seemed more likely to talk to me and aproach me, some girls even made fun of me and laughed at me. But I never experienced that now, girls treat me very differently than before and honestly it’s very wierd the behavior I get from them sometimes. I have had many talking stages and ofc they never made it, but also just like in daily life, when I talk to girls they seem almost scared to talk to me or say something stupid, like the answers seems so performative, almost to the point that they don’t wanna talk too much because it’s more likely that they’ll end up saying something stupid. I almost never get approached but I get so many stares. I mean when I go clubbing and stuff i get a few girls say something to me when I walk past them but almost never like a girl fully approaching me like how a man would aproach a girl they like. When girls look at me idk if they are admiring or what. Because sometimes I just overthink. But they also play games where they will try and see if I care and make me jaloux or get mad over the small things. I feel like it’s their ego that can’t handle a good looking guy taking the spotlight idk it’s wierd. Does this happend to you guys too and lmk what u guys think it is
women tend to befriend ugly jesters or faggots thats why they apporached u and laughed at u. are u gay nigga? after ur glowup they get "insecure" because they usually get embarrased to make a move on a decent looking dude, something with their ego.
 
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women tend to befriend ugly jesters or faggots thats why they apporached u and laughed at u. are u gay nigga? after ur glowup they get "insecure" because they usually get embarrased to make a move on a decent looking dude, something with their ego.
Yeah. No I’m not fucking gay
 
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You are handsome and it’s more intimation what’s your height? If it’s tall then it makes even more since, samething happened with me but it’s more that they think they don’t have a chance with you etc
 
You are handsome and it’s more intimation what’s your height? If it’s tall then it makes even more since, samething happened with me but it’s more that they think they don’t have a chance with you etc
Im 6.0 not the tallest but taller than every girl unless they are giants
 
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Im 6.0 not the tallest but taller than every girl unless they are giants
Yeah that’s a good height I say try and come off more open it can be your personality the trick for me to get out of that spot was just to jestermax😭 and also go clubbing with female friends trust me the more girls you are friends with the more girls that will come to you
 
Yeah that’s a good height I say try and come off more open it can be your personality the trick for me to get out of that spot was just to jestermax😭 and also go clubbing with female friends trust me the more girls you are friends with the more girls that will come to you
That is very truth one time I went out with 2 girls and much more girls came up. But they thought one of them was my girlfreind so they didn’t try anything. And tbh my personality can come off very closed and nonchalant. Idk if its my face or something
 
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That is very truth one time I went out with 2 girls and much more girls came up. But they thought one of them was my girlfreind so they didn’t try anything. And tbh my personality can come off very closed and nonchalant. Idk if its my face or something
That’s the thing don’t come off nonchalant never do be a leader and very bold and confident, end story is be yourself there is always. Girl out there that will love you
 
That’s the thing don’t come off nonchalant never do be a leader and very bold and confident, end story is be yourself there is always. Girl out there that will love you
One day i will find that rn I’m just yeah yk. Not ready for anything bc I don’t trust woman these days. But yeah it’s hard when u have been so ugly before ure still a bit insecure from that time but im definitely more confident now I would say
 
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One day i will find that rn I’m just yeah yk. Not ready for anything bc I don’t trust woman these days. But yeah it’s hard when u have been so ugly before ure still a bit insecure from that time but im definitely more confident now I would say
I know what you mean I was super ugly before but the one thing about me is that I already came off confident etc the only save you have from being super ugly is PERSONALITYYYYY
 
I know what you mean I was super ugly before but the one thing about me is that I already came off confident etc the only save you have from being super ugly is PERSONALITYYYYY
That it true thats my flaw sometimes. But it does me more harm than good I think im terms of finding something serious bc im so bad at showing emotions and that stuff im kinda nonchalant and girls like that but only for a limited time. If its casual its fine but in terms of finding love i need to change that
 
That it true thats my flaw sometimes. But it does me more harm than good I think im terms of finding something serious bc im so bad at showing emotions and that stuff im kinda nonchalant and girls like that but only for a limited time. If its casual its fine but in terms of finding love i need to change that
I mean if you are truely scared express it I like to be bold and brave because that's how I am but if I'm scared and nervous say we are in a private place say it and be playful about it 2 things will happen she will take the lead or you to will grow and bond with the face you are both scared and just yolo it together make it a game like "see who taps out first" or "who's the most bold challenge" always by the end its we making out we I'm slaying
 
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