I have to go to prom tonight.

If thats you and your not trolling your not ugly at all. The fact you got approached at all is tell tell

You likely just lack social intelligence (nonnt).

This means you presence socially is probably low. Preselection is how you get girls and stuff. Extrovertness implies attractive.

Dont get any surgery and fuck your face up. Your going to regret it. Your face is not bad at all. Most forms of looksmax that determines ascention is minor things like teeth whitening, braces, hair, and style.

Also dont follow the surgery paths here too much. inceldom because of looks is fake shit. Its way deeper than that.
It's me, and it is a mixture of a few things. Firstly, I have social anxiety and an irrational fear of women my age due to being bullied by them in school, so I instantly believe that every woman my age is bullying me or is out to get me. Secondly, while I am extroverted and can easily talk to people, I purposefully keep myself from doing so, because of my social anxiety. I would consider myself extroverted because I can do things that no introverted person can do, I just have massive anxiety. Thirdly, I purposefully ruin chances that I have, because I hate myself.

Right now, for example, I'm legitimately ignoring my female co-worker who might have interest in me, because of multiple reasons. One, my fear of women bullying me has led me to believe her staring at me and talking about me with my supervisor is her bullying me. Two, my self hatred makes me genuinely believe that I am the ugliest person in the universe, a borderline subhuman entity. Three, I purposefully stop myself from talking to her, because I don't feel like I deserve to do so. And finally, four, which is my fear of approaching, but that isn't that significant, as I have approached people in real life just fine, even after being really scared. I am very non-NT.

OK, I will not get surgery. To be honest, it's not like I'm ever gonna have the money for it anyways, lol. Right now, I'm just sticking to what I can control, like getting my weight up, getting healthy, and focusing on what I have now.
 
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It's me, and it is a mixture of a few things. Firstly, I have social anxiety and an irrational fear of women my age due to being bullied by them in school, so I instantly believe that every woman my age is bullying me or is out to get me. Secondly, while I am extroverted and can easily talk to people, I purposefully keep myself from doing so, because of my social anxiety. I would consider myself extroverted because I can do things that no introverted person can do, I just have massive anxiety. Thirdly, I purposefully ruin chances that I have, because I hate myself.

Right now, for example, I'm legitimately ignoring my female co-worker who might have interest in me, because of multiple reasons. One, my fear of women bullying me has led me to believe her staring at me and talking about me with my supervisor is her bullying me. Two, my self hatred makes me genuinely believe that I am the ugliest person in the universe, a borderline subhuman entity. Three, I purposefully stop myself from talking to her, because I don't feel like I deserve to do so. And finally, four, which is my fear of approaching, but that isn't that significant, as I have approached people in real life just fine, even after being really scared. I am very non-NT.

OK, I will not get surgery. To be honest, it's not like I'm ever gonna have the money for it anyways, lol. Right now, I'm just sticking to what I can control, like getting my weight up, getting healthy, and focusing on what I have now.
Id say your on the right path. Self analysis. Sometimes your not wrong, maybe they are just trying to play with you. Either way, just keep anylyzing. Shit, run tests and see if your right or wrong about your theory.

And yea, surgery wont fix anything but probably create an extra layer of pain, insecurity and insatiably. No point. Starting to change your face with surgery its like getting sucked in a black hole. It will also just take away your money which is way more valuable. Not like that surgery will fix the anxiety, nor will it do anything softmaxxing couldnt. In matter of fact it will just make you even more insecure and worry others will know.

Your not ugly though. But im sure your aware this issue is beyond looks
 
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i was supposed to go to prom too last but i skipped it JFL...
 
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i was supposed to go to prom too last but i skipped it JFL...
it's kind of boring tbh unless you're going with a date

i suppose if you went with friends too, but you'd still feel mogged by dudes with dates
 
Rhino for bulbous nose tip in turkey
and lateral commisuroplasty (mouth widening surgery)
would ascend you

you probably will not have enough money for other weird obscure psl surgeries but those two are fairly bluepilled and relatively cheap surgeries and would benefit you greatly. Maintain your hair at that length, get a skincare routine and dress like a hippie and wear cool bracelets (don't go overboard), and use an eyelash serum like this. If you nichemaxx as a hippie or a liberal type dude you will ascend ez. Plus you're white with a good pheno 6'1 and have a monster cock if you give up it's such a waste. u got this, just give it a try
 
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Rhino for bulbous nose tip in turkey
and lateral commisuroplasty (mouth widening surgery)
would ascend you

you probably will not have enough money for other weird obscure psl surgeries but those two are fairly bluepilled and relatively cheap surgeries and would benefit you greatly. Maintain your hair at that length, get a skincare routine and dress like a hippie and wear cool bracelets (don't go overboard), and use an eyelash serum like this. If you nichemaxx as a hippie or a liberal type dude you will ascend ez. Plus you're white with a good pheno 6'1 and have a monster cock if you give up it's such a waste. u got this, just give it a try
I can actually do a rhinoplasty very cheap in my area, similar to the prices in Turkey. I was contacting places in September and got a lot of referrals. And yeah, I need mouth widening, my lips look really bad. It’s weird, because when I brought that up on Reddit, it was primarily females getting super angry at me for saying I was gonna get lip surgery (I got downvoted).

I won’t ascend, though, because I’m extremely mentalcel. I legitimately have a cute girl super interested in me at my job right now, but I overthink it too much and give up and loose hope so easily. Even if I was good looking, my brain is really messed up. My autism does not help, either.
 
I can actually do a rhinoplasty very cheap in my area, similar to the prices in Turkey. I was contacting places in September and got a lot of referrals. And yeah, I need mouth widening, my lips look really bad. It’s weird, because when I brought that up on Reddit, it was primarily females getting super angry at me for saying I was gonna get lip surgery (I got downvoted).

I won’t ascend, though, because I’m extremely mentalcel. I legitimately have a cute girl super interested in me at my job right now, but I overthink it too much and give up and loose hope so easily. Even if I was good looking, my brain is really messed up. My autism does not help, either.
That's great! Both surgeries are cheap compared to the shit a lot of people on here think they're gonna get. If ur gonna get rhino make sure to specify exactly what type of nose u want w pictures to the surgeon, I would recommend these for u. If u don't specify he probably wont change much

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And u should watch NT shows that everybody else watches like Euphoria and shit like that, or u can watch recaps. Or u can look at shows that u think she watches keeping her personality in mind. Even though it may be torturous to do you might bring it up during a convo, and, it's good to see how other people talk to each other, even if it's actors. That's actually what I did when I had to go back to school when virtual school stopped because I had bad social anxiety from the lockdown, watched a shit ton of tv and shit I knew my peers liked and I became social again.

And if she's really into you then try not to stress and overthink shit because she actually likes you and there's just 0 reason to overthink. Once u get into a conversation remember that you're both just human beings, don't think like "omg she's a girl i suck at talking to girls". At the end of the day that's what it is, human beings communicating with each other about random shit. If you think like that it's gonna come naturally to you. U can even pretend she's a dude or your friend if that helps alleviate some anxiety
 
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