I just caught the girl I've been talking to for months flirting into someone's comments.

[Sub3overforme]

I'm just speechless because I don't know why so many women do this. The guy she's talking to is from UK so I already made an image of him, recessed chin and skinny asf. The thing is I've been nice and didn't talk to any woman other than her and I even left hints for that, but apparently it doesn't matter. Anyways who cares, I need to ascend and maybe then waste time finding someone.

 

[jockidc120610]

Just personalitymax in Turkey or some shit

 

[ketamin]

If you weren't dating her, she can do whatever she wants. Might hurt, but it is what it is. Talking != Dating

 

[julioo27_]

most women just want attention and to get validated, they work like that, if you can still make her, do it, but dont be desperate and have multiple fronts (talking to other women) as well, they dont care (they say they do but its a lie) about you being so in love with them that you “respect her” by not talking or flirting with other women

 

[julioo27_]

If you weren't dating her, she can do whatever she wants. Might hurt, but it is what it is. Talking != Dating

i completely agree, but for example if she was talking to him in a way that it might look like its something more long term or serious and then does this shit, shame on her

 

[ketamin]

i completely agree, but for example if she was talking to him in a way that it might look like its something more long term or serious and then does this shit, shame on her

But it also may be his fault. He mentioned that he has been talking to her for a longer period of time and probably didn't do anything, so she probably got bored and just moved on.

 

[Zeekie]

Honestly, flirting with someone through comments is corny af. But what she's doing is not wrong, in fact, you should do it too. You should see other people in the talking stages of a relationship, it's until you're actually dating, and it's more high stakes where it becomes less acceptable. You want to keep your options wide and not get attached to someone when you can find someone better. When you're dating always consider many options, a talking stage means absolutely nothing.

 

[Sub3overforme]

most women just want attention and to get validated, they work like that, if you can still make her, do it, but dont be desperate and have multiple fronts (talking to other women) as well, they dont care (they say they do but its a lie) about you being so in love with them that you “respect her” by not talking or flirting with other women

I agree with the first statement, but the thing is she gives fake hope yk bro. If she talks like that to me imagine what she's talking with that guy...

 

[Sub3overforme]

i completely agree, but for example if she was talking to him in a way that it might look like its something more long term or serious and then does this shit, shame on her

Yeah that's pretty much what's happening, like idk what she's trying to do rn.

 

[Sub3overforme]

But it also may be his fault. He mentioned that he has been talking to her for a longer period of time and probably didn't do anything, so she probably got bored and just moved on.

Yeah some months, might be my fault, thought it was normal speaking with 1 Girl at a Time

 

[Sub3overforme]

Honestly, flirting with someone through comments is corny af. But what she's doing is not wrong, in fact, you should do it too. You should see other people in the talking stages of a relationship, it's until you're actually dating, and it's more high stakes where it becomes less acceptable. You want to keep your options wide and not get attached to someone when you can find someone better. When you're dating always consider many options, a talking stage means absolutely nothing.

I guess you're right. I'll try my luck until It's over and the move on. But keep in mind that I gotta get a looksmatch too. People didn't rate me too good looking here so idk bro. All im trying to say is that it has to be a looksmatch

 

[Sub3overforme]

Just personalitymax in Turkey or some shit

Might do if I keep getting called ugly

 

[julioo27_]

I agree with the first statement, but the thing is she gives fake hope yk bro. If she talks like that to me imagine what she's talking with that guy...

yeah, try not to be desperate and choose and think coldly if you think you got some chances with her, if not, fuck that bitch off

 

[julioo27_]

Yeah that's pretty much what's happening, like idk what she's trying to do rn.

look, dont play her game if you thought about something more long term, its clear shes like a little girl, dont feed her ego anymore

 

[Sub3overforme]

yeah, try not to be desperate and choose and think coldly if you think you got some chances with her, if not, fuck that bitch off

Nah I'm not desperate just never been into these things so idk how I'm supposed to act

 

[Sub3overforme]

look, dont play her game if you thought about something more long term, its clear shes like a little girl, dont feed her ego anymore

You're on point brah, I was complimenting her a lot, I'm really lost now.

 

[julioo27_]

Nah I'm not desperate just never been into these things so idk how I'm supposed to act

if you need any further help feel free to write me a pm, after two narcissistic exes in roughly a year i think i know a thing or two about stuff like this

 

[julioo27_]

You're on point brah, I was complimenting her a lot, I'm really lost now.

i know its very cliche but you gotta play hard, girls say they like being complimented but that doesnt mean they want to hear good things about themselves 24/7, the more you compliment her, the less valuable your compliments become overtime, because its the usual business for her yk

 

[Sub3overforme]

if you need any further help feel free to write me a pm, after two narcissistic exes in roughly a year i think i know a thing or two about stuff like this

I followed you, might message you 1 day

 

[Sub3overforme]

i know its very cliche but you gotta play hard, girls say they like being complimented but that doesnt mean they want to hear good things about themselves 24/7, the more you compliment her, the less valuable your compliments become overtime, because its the usual business for her yk

I agree with you man.I was just wanted to be nice yk...

 

[julioo27_]

I followed you, might message you 1 day

no problem g, whenevee you want

also, dont feel bad because of this girl yk, look if i could only tell you half of the shit that has happened to me you wouldn’t believe it and crack yourself up hahah

 

[julioo27_]

I agree with you man.I was just wanted to be nice yk...

you actually gotta be nice, but never overly nice, that tires them

sounds crazy but i thought about it once and its generally true, girls emotions are like a piano, the one guy that plays the most notes (taking her through a roller coaster) is the one that gets the girl

 

[Sub3overforme]

no problem g, whenevee you want

also, dont feel bad because of this girl yk, look if i could only tell you half of the shit that has happened to me you wouldn’t believe it and crack yourself up hahah

Haha I believe you had many Girls, you seem so confident i never been into a relationship So yeah

 

[ZyzzEnthusiast]

Honestly, its your fault for believing you can get her.
Let her go brah

 

[Sub3overforme]

you actually gotta be nice, but never overly nice, that tires them

sounds crazy but i thought about it once and its generally true, girls emotions are like a piano, the one guy that plays the most notes (taking her through a roller coaster) is the one that gets the girl

I am being nice to some extent bro. Also I just noticed she talks Nice to both of us but like she talks way more nicer to him and like flirt yk. Do I have to mention that besides that guy there another 1, it s just that the competition with that 1 guy isnt that big

 

[Sub3overforme]

Honestly, its your fault for believing you can get her.
Let her go brah

I'm afraid there's not other way man. Tho she shows interest in me It's hard to understand what she truly wants

 

[ZyzzEnthusiast]

I'm afraid there's not other way man. Tho she shows interest in me It's hard to understand what she truly wants

Shot your shot or let her go

You will never know if you don't try

 

[julioo27_]

Haha I believe you had many Girls, you seem so confident i never been into a relationship So yeah

not that i had a crazy fuckboy final boss number, but i started making out with girls two years ago and i have got a lot of experience

regarding relationships, nowadays to get a normal, good looking girl without trauma or weird shit is a suicide mission, its crazy how bad the market is, literally hyperpriced temu jfl

you remind me of myself in late 2023, when i got my first gf, i understand you so much, but that confidence will grew up overtime, nobody is born with all qualities, most of them appear through raw experience (plenty of them, very unpleasant)

 

[julioo27_]

I am being nice to some extent bro. Also I just noticed she talks Nice to both of us but like she talks way more nicer to him and like flirt yk. Do I have to mention that besides that guy there another 1, it s just that the competition with that 1 guy isnt that big

if you feel like you are just an option to her (and not even the first option), just leave unless you think you got a chance to hit, and even if you hit, mission accomplished and gtfo there asap

bitches like that deserve nothing

 

[badexilw]

I'm just speechless because I don't know why so many women do this. The guy she's talking to is from UK so I already made an image of him, recessed chin and skinny asf. The thing is I've been nice and didn't talk to any woman other than her and I even left hints for that, but apparently it doesn't matter. Anyways who cares, I need to ascend and maybe then waste time finding someone.

welcome to the world bro

 

[julioo27_]

welcome to the world bro

dont be hard bhai he is probably 18 at best

we all gotta have some mini canon events

 

[badexilw]

dont be hard bhai he is probably 18 at best

we all gotta have some mini canon events

?nigga what I started at 14 to fuck sluts and I saw the worst things i think it’s to late at 18

 

[Sprinkles]

I'm just speechless because I don't know why so many women do this. The guy she's talking to is from UK so I already made an image of him, recessed chin and skinny asf. The thing is I've been nice and didn't talk to any woman other than her and I even left hints for that, but apparently it doesn't matter. Anyways who cares, I need to ascend and maybe then waste time finding someone.

she’s never yours, it’s just your turn

 

[julioo27_]

she’s never yours, it’s just your turn

so real

 

[julioo27_]

?nigga what I started at 14 to fuck sluts and I saw the worst things i think it’s to late at 18

i started at 17-18 myself lmao, i was severely non nt + ugly af when i was a teen so no wonder i didnt get no pussy (fumbled some girls back then but anyways they dont count), if 18 its too late for you then im late af bruh i started slaying at 20

 

[Sub3overforme]

not that i had a crazy fuckboy final boss number, but i started making out with girls two years ago and i have got a lot of experience

regarding relationships, nowadays to get a normal, good looking girl without trauma or weird shit is a suicide mission, its crazy how bad the market is, literally hyperpriced temu jfl

you remind me of myself in late 2023, when i got my first gf, i understand you so much, but that confidence will grew up overtime, nobody is born with all qualities, most of them appear through raw experience (plenty of them, very unpleasant)

You're lowkey right bro, most girls do have trauma and hate boys for some reason, but some just like all the attention they get from them

 

[Sub3overforme]

if you feel like you are just an option to her (and not even the first option), just leave unless you think you got a chance to hit, and even if you hit, mission accomplished and gtfo there asap

bitches like that deserve nothing

OK I can certainly tell you that I am not the first option, but I will not block her, I'l just stop being talkative. Maybe she'll change who knows

 

[Sub3overforme]

she’s never yours, it’s just your turn

This might be the brutal truth

 

[loLyric]

''talking to for months''

thats your issue, its not normal to talk and flirt w a girl for that long (without dating her), should be one week or a little more max. You should also be talking to multiple girls always bro, even if you were dating her.

get a roster ASAP!

 

[jockidc120610]

You should also be talking to multiple girls always bro, even if you were dating her.

bro wdym talking?should be fucking them all day long

 

[loLyric]

bro wdym talking?should be fucking them all day long

true

 

[badexilw]

i started at 17-18 myself lmao, i was severely non nt + ugly af when i was a teen so no wonder i didnt get no pussy (fumbled some girls back then but anyways they dont count), if 18 its too late for you then im late af bruh i started slaying at 20

It is late because girls start fucking from 13/14 years and see immediately if one has experience

 

[Sub3overforme]

It is late because girls start fucking from 13/14 years and see immediately if one has experience

Unfortunately

 

[Cyframe]

I'm just speechless because I don't know why so many women do this. The guy she's talking to is from UK so I already made an image of him, recessed chin and skinny asf. The thing is I've been nice and didn't talk to any woman other than her and I even left hints for that, but apparently it doesn't matter. Anyways who cares, I need to ascend and maybe then waste time finding someone.

Being nice, doesn't nescerially mean that your entitled to her attention. Leaving hints is simply wasting time, you should have asked her out straight up. Furthermore, the fact that she is flirting with somebody may indicate that she was never interested in you in the first place so It didn't even matter now did it?

 

[Sub3overforme]

Being nice, doesn't nescerially mean that your entitled to her attention. Leaving hints is simply wasting time, you should have asked her out straight up. Furthermore, the fact that she is flirting with somebody may indicate that she was never interested in you in the first place so It didn't even matter now did it?

You re right

 

[Sub3overforme]

bro wdym talking?should be fucking them all day long

True balkan

 

[Sub3overforme]

i started at 17-18 myself lmao, i was severely non nt + ugly af when i was a teen so no wonder i didnt get no pussy (fumbled some girls back then but anyways they dont count), if 18 its too late for you then im late af bruh i started slaying at 20

Brah you were so right

 

[julioo27_]

Brah you were so right

what happened bro?

 

[julioo27_]

But it also may be his fault. He mentioned that he has been talking to her for a longer period of time and probably didn't do anything, so she probably got bored and just moved on.

idk some girls just like to hang around and feed her ego just because, they dont want to have anything with you, we call them calientapollas in spanish, which literally means cockheaters jfl

 

[Sub3overforme]

what happened bro?

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