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I met this girl at a house party. We actually got along pretty well right from the start. She compared me to her best friend back then and said that I was short and that I also looked trained, like him. After that, we ran into each other a few more times at different events. Eventually, I texted her and asked if she wanted to meet up. She said yes, but then later cancelled. After that, I told her that I had developed a crush on her. She said we could meet sometime and that she wanted to take things slowly.
I have now found out through one of her friends that she doesn’t actually want anything to do with me because I’m simply too short. I’m 177 cm (5’10”), while she is 175 cm (5’9”).
I live in Austria, and the height inflation here is absolutely brutal. It is probably the most brutal thing I’ve experienced when it comes to dating. I want to make this post because I genuinely believe height is one of the biggest and most important factors to looksmax. In my experience, there is almost nothing more important than height.
My second major failo is my IPD 0.52. I also get clowned for it quite a lot, including by foids, but it’s nowhere near as bad as my height. I’m planning to get limb-lengthening surgery in Turkey, either next year or the year after. My goal would be to reach around 184–185 cm (6’0.5”–6’1”). With height boosters, I should be able to reach around 6’3”.
I’m fully aware that I’m probably not going to get this girl back, especially if we don’t have any contact for a long time. But I still believe being taller could improve my life in the future. I also want to make it clear that I don’t actually have a problem dating or meeting women. I approach plenty of women I find attractive, and has success. I just genuinely liked this particular girl a lot.
I wasn’t even really interested in dating before this because I find dating exhausting and expensive, and I wanted to focus on other areas of my life. But obviously it hurts when you actually fall for someone, especially when you have so many things in common, and then you find out something that you already suspected from the beginning.
I have now found out through one of her friends that she doesn’t actually want anything to do with me because I’m simply too short. I’m 177 cm (5’10”), while she is 175 cm (5’9”).
I live in Austria, and the height inflation here is absolutely brutal. It is probably the most brutal thing I’ve experienced when it comes to dating. I want to make this post because I genuinely believe height is one of the biggest and most important factors to looksmax. In my experience, there is almost nothing more important than height.
My second major failo is my IPD 0.52. I also get clowned for it quite a lot, including by foids, but it’s nowhere near as bad as my height. I’m planning to get limb-lengthening surgery in Turkey, either next year or the year after. My goal would be to reach around 184–185 cm (6’0.5”–6’1”). With height boosters, I should be able to reach around 6’3”.
I’m fully aware that I’m probably not going to get this girl back, especially if we don’t have any contact for a long time. But I still believe being taller could improve my life in the future. I also want to make it clear that I don’t actually have a problem dating or meeting women. I approach plenty of women I find attractive, and has success. I just genuinely liked this particular girl a lot.
I wasn’t even really interested in dating before this because I find dating exhausting and expensive, and I wanted to focus on other areas of my life. But obviously it hurts when you actually fall for someone, especially when you have so many things in common, and then you find out something that you already suspected from the beginning.