Manchild_v2
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"Why would anyone be with someone they are not attracted to?
**A man that is 2 or 10 in looks are still attracted to same women**."
And this literally opened my eyes. Another redditor responded:
"**What it really boils down to is ugly men are angry they can't get hot women**\- and look, of course they want them. But it's common sense- of course they, an ugly person, can't get a hot person in all likelihood. No different than the reverse- ugly women can't pull hot men. The choice is either accept being alone, work on improving your attractiveness, or seek other qualities in people/pursue people in your league. That being said, if ugly guys want to shoot their shot with hot women over and over they certainly can, just don't get angry when it doesn't work out. It's like buying a lottery ticket and being in a rage you don't win."
My brother who is in incel complains about loneliness and not being able to get women and complains only "whales" message him on dating app. **It is not that men who are lonely can't get women, they can't get the women they want lookswise.**
From a male redditor:
"**I think women should choose to not be shallow. But they wont so the only recourse is revenge.** Thats why I became an oil lobbyist. This world should burn and I have no incentive not to pursue that."
Response:
"This is only something someone shallow would say. If you yourself were not shallow, why would it matter if women were shallow? Why not pick an ugly chick with a 10/10 personality? Because **you are unattractive and you want hot women to not be shallow and choose you, while you MAINTAIN YOUR SHALLOW standards for your partner**... *why don't YOU choose to NOT BE SHALLOW?"*
**This is the other reason:**
I think this misses a rather **problematic fact about humans in general**. Almost invariably **they think that they're better than they are**. So a guy who is a 2 thinks he a 6 or a 7. He's asking out women who are equivalent in his mind that think they're 9s and 10s. ... \[I\] mean a little while back there was a post on here where a huge number of people seemed to legitimately believe they could win a fight with a bear.
**A man that is 2 or 10 in looks are still attracted to same women**."
And this literally opened my eyes. Another redditor responded:
"**What it really boils down to is ugly men are angry they can't get hot women**\- and look, of course they want them. But it's common sense- of course they, an ugly person, can't get a hot person in all likelihood. No different than the reverse- ugly women can't pull hot men. The choice is either accept being alone, work on improving your attractiveness, or seek other qualities in people/pursue people in your league. That being said, if ugly guys want to shoot their shot with hot women over and over they certainly can, just don't get angry when it doesn't work out. It's like buying a lottery ticket and being in a rage you don't win."
My brother who is in incel complains about loneliness and not being able to get women and complains only "whales" message him on dating app. **It is not that men who are lonely can't get women, they can't get the women they want lookswise.**
From a male redditor:
"**I think women should choose to not be shallow. But they wont so the only recourse is revenge.** Thats why I became an oil lobbyist. This world should burn and I have no incentive not to pursue that."
Response:
"This is only something someone shallow would say. If you yourself were not shallow, why would it matter if women were shallow? Why not pick an ugly chick with a 10/10 personality? Because **you are unattractive and you want hot women to not be shallow and choose you, while you MAINTAIN YOUR SHALLOW standards for your partner**... *why don't YOU choose to NOT BE SHALLOW?"*
**This is the other reason:**
I think this misses a rather **problematic fact about humans in general**. Almost invariably **they think that they're better than they are**. So a guy who is a 2 thinks he a 6 or a 7. He's asking out women who are equivalent in his mind that think they're 9s and 10s. ... \[I\] mean a little while back there was a post on here where a huge number of people seemed to legitimately believe they could win a fight with a bear.
