I just told my friend that I stay at my college dorm all day, don't have close friends and i'm fine with it

[roadtochang123]

This dude is gonna think im the most aspie bitchass ever

I realy need to level up my social skills. I had a really bad childhood growing up so my social skills were absolute destructed and that shit transferred into my later life

Found out about exposure therapy like a year ago and i'm doing pretty ok right now. I don't really feel socially anxious from just the thought of stepping outside of my house and being schizo about how others perceive me now

The thing is that i cannot bruteforce the conversation into something enjoyable unless the other dude has to somewhat participate in the conversation. Most of the time i deadass have to ask the most lamest and boring shit ever (where you from blah blah shits). It's really over for my ass

 

[Kurdishcoper]

become friends with the nerds or extroverts they usually do the most talking so i just hang around with em

 

[roadtochang123]

become friends with the nerds or extroverts they usually do the most talking so i just hang around with em

That's what im doing, this dude is quite extroverted though

Thing is that i can talk for long enough if that dude leverages his energy yo