Iamspace
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Something I think a lot of people struggle to understand is that love isn’t something you can earn by giving more. You can treat someone perfectly be there for them through everything make them feel special and genuinely love them with your entire heart but at the end of the day you can’t force someone to feel something they don’t feel.
A lot of people think if they just become better try harder or prove themselves enough that person will eventually realize their worth. But attraction and love don’t work like a reward system. Someone doesn’t fall in love because you checked every box or because you sacrificed the most for them. They fall in love because something about that person naturally pulls them in.
You can’t outwork someone else’s place in their heart. You can’t convince someone to look at you the way they look at someone else. The moment you start trying to prove why you deserve to be loved you’re already fighting a battle you can’t win.
