I just want to feel Unconditional Love

[Deleted member 25715]

My mom loves me. My Dad loved me. My family and friends love me. But it doesn't feel like love.

I know it's conditional. I know they love me for who they see or, or for the person they imagine in their head when they look at me.

I know they would get uncomfortable if I cried in front of them, if I showed weakness, if I was anything less than they expect me to be.

I know they can't hug me and I mean truly hug and kiss me; not hugging me because I'm their friend, or related, but simply because I am a human worthy of respect.

I want someone in my life who would love me unconditionally, even if I killed someone, was evil, was ugly, was a loser, was gay, was a tranny, was insane, a pervert, anything.

Someone who I can feel comfortable being not only myself but feel safe knowing any version of me possible, regardless if it occurs or not, is loved.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

No such thing as unconditional love.

Biggest lie created by humans.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Other than your family, no one will show you this.

 

[Deleted member 25715]

Other than your family, no one will show you this.

Even family doesn't, they like to act like they do but it's all virtue signaling

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Even family doesn't, they like to act like they do but it's all virtue signaling

That's your family jfl mine is perfect.

 

[Deleted member 25715]

That's your family jfl mine is perfect.

Jfl, maybe the love they "show" is unconditional, but don't be so quick to assume what they feel in heart is the same.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Jfl, maybe the love they "show" is unconditional, but don't be so quick to assume what they feel in heart is the same.

They do, they would die for me and vice versa, sorry for you your family is not like that.

 

[Deleted member 25715]

They do, they would die for me and vice versa, sorry for you your family is not like that.

I'm not saying mine wouldn't die for me.

What I mean is love without judgement, without guilt or regret.

Sure they will die for me, but if I was a mass shooter (just an example, never gonna be a mass shooter @ fbi) they would "love me no matter what".

But that love deep down, where you are viewed as an angel, such as love a baby or puppy would receive, is forever broken. And I think that is the most important love.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

I'm not saying mine wouldn't die for me.

What I mean is love without judgement, without guilt or regret.

Sure they will die for me, but if I was a mass shooter (just an example, never gonna be a mass shooter @ fbi) they would "love me no matter what".

But that love deep down, where you are viewed as an angel, such as love a baby or puppy would receive, is forever broken. And I think that is the most important love.

My mother said she will love me no matter what I do, even if I end up killing someone jfl.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

No such thing as unconditional love.

Biggest lie created by humans.

This. All human relationships are transactional.

 

[Deleted member 17872]

This. All human relationships are transactional.

Yes. That's why relationship with God is important.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Yes. That's why relationship with God is important.

There is no God

 

[Deleted member 24278]

That's impossible, as a man you'll only be loved if you make something of yourself, if you're a bum no one will love u only dogs tbh

 

[Sanguinius]

Best you might potentially get with this is a dog