I just watched Amateur porn and feel suicidally depressed now

[gymceltard]

In biology sex is not the purpose, its there because it assures your existence at all, like its just a necessary step in your life, get children. Its not about getting a wife, or being loved its about having a kid. But is it really that for humans? Because lot of childless people live fine, weve grown past this, and we still want sex as its a biological need to have sexual pleasure.

Read "The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. From an evolutionary perspective, the purpose of life is reproduction because it ensures the survival and continuation of an organism's genes. Ultimately, organisms are vehicles for their genes, and their purpose is to ensure those genes live on. We are just fleshy robotic vehicles for our genes to propagate, nothing else matters.

 

[longjohnmong]

Isn't sex the purpose of life for all animals though? If you don't breed can you truly be fulfilled?

I think humans are animals, as much as we pretend to be civilized and above that stuff (ie redditors on r/childfree) our only true purpose is reproduction.

No, there is no purpose. Yeah, things that have sex tend to survive and reproduce while things that don't don't pass on their genes, which is why evolution makes you want sex really badly, but it (or your animal drives) doesn't care about your fulfillment, all it wants to do is make you have sex, and it does that by making it seem like something that will solve all your problems and you're just going to blast off into a universe of bliss.

 

[Lebgfinal]

Read "The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. From an evolutionary perspective, the purpose of life is reproduction because it ensures the survival and continuation of an organism's genes. Ultimately, organisms are vehicles for their genes, and their purpose is to ensure those genes live on. We are just fleshy robotic vehicles for our genes to propagate, nothing else matters.

Purpose is not a thing, we need to reproduce because thats the only way we can exist, but is purpose really all about whats necesaey. Breathing is necessary, is it your only purpose, to breath, to eat, etc.. In current human society is it really achieving your purpose having a kid ? You think a childless engineer like tesla who died a virgin but invented electricity didnt achieve his life but a random homeless indian who made a 15yo pregnant and gave birth to a retarded baby did achieve his life ? Like truth is, humans are too smart to define our purpose in the same way as other animals, as our lives are much more complex and our purpose and happiness is based on more things

 

[gymceltard]

No, there is no purpose. Yeah, things that have sex tend to survive and reproduce while things that don't don't pass on their genes, which is why evolution makes you want sex really badly, but it (or your animal drives) doesn't care about your fulfillment, all it wants to do is make you have sex, and it does that by making it seem like something that will solve all your problems and you're just going to blast off into a universe of bliss.

I mean yes, my animal brain is trying to make me obsessed with sex because my genes want to survive.

As a reward for sex my brain will give me a MASSIVE dopamine spike as a reward. I have severely low dopamine right now from zero sex.

I'm a slave to my genes and my brain.

 

[gymceltard]

Purpose is not a thing, we need to reproduce because thats the only way we can exist, but is purpose really all about whats necesaey. Breathing is necessary, is it your only purpose, to breath, to eat, etc.. In current human society is it really achieving your purpose having a kid ? You think a childless engineer like tesla who died a virgin but invented electricity didnt achieve his life but a random homeless indian who made a 15yo pregnant and gave birth to a retarded baby did achieve his life ? Like truth is, humans are too smart to define our purpose in the same way as other animals, as our lives are much more complex and our purpose and happiness is based on more things

Dude, Tesla's genes have died out. He said himself that he regretted making inventions because the world never did shit for him but beat him down.

He died a poor autist alone in a hotel room. An Indian who has 10 kids is objectively happier than Tesla, lived a better life than Tesla who was a KHHV, and passed on his genes successfully unlike Tesla. Life is about pleasure and happiness, Tesla died unhappy and never experienced sex.

 

[longjohnmong]

Dude, Tesla's genes have died out.

No they haven't. All his genes still exist. 60% of human genes exist in strawberries. If you have any unique genes it's probably a code for liver cancer or something like that. Also, who gives a fuck? Why do you want to pass on your genes? Evolution does not make you want to explicitly pass on your genes, as humans didn't even know what genes were up until two hundred years ago.

As a reward for sex my brain will give me a MASSIVE dopamine spike as a reward.

So what? It'll be short-lived and diminish every time after that, ultimately making no real difference in your life. If you want a big "dopamine spike" do some MDMA.

I'm not saying that being in a healthy romantic relationship will change nothing for you. It's just that porn (or just super sexy naked women) creates a distilled fantasy that makes you believe you're missing out on something absolutely incredible, when really nothing will ever be that fulfilling. The Buddhists have figured all this out, which is why they try to rid themselves of all desire.

 

[gymceltard]

No they haven't. All his genes still exist. 60% of human genes exist in strawberries. If you have any unique genes it's probably a code for liver cancer or something like that. Also, who gives a fuck? Why do you want to pass on your genes? Evolution does not make you want to explicitly pass on your genes, as humans didn't even know what genes were up until two hundred years ago.

Yes, but they wanted sex and they wanted children. Parents are willing to die for their children, they call it "love" but it's just instinct to keep their genes (children) alive. There is nothing more satisfying to an animal than to have offspring.

I'm not saying that being in a healthy romantic relationship will change nothing for you. It's just that porn (or just super sexy naked women) creates a distilled fantasy that makes you believe you're missing out on something absolutely incredible, when really nothing will ever be that fulfilling. The Buddhists have figured all this out, which is why they try to rid themselves of all desire.

Interesting theory I've always thought Buddhism was a little bit cope, like it's usually peasants or poor people who can't have the opportunity to breed who become celibate monks. Same with STOICISM which was created by a literal Roman slave to cope with being born a slave.

 

[wollet2]

Porn is equal to being a cuck, you just masturbating to another man having sex. While watching his penis you masturbate your with your own hand. Pretty pathetic.

who cares. its not pathetic

 

[gymceltard]

who cares. its not pathetic

Based porn enjoyer

 

[lightskinniggga]

I fuck escorts but that doesn’t count. I’m still incel.

I fucked 23 escort mostly latinas. The Ls hands down were the best fucks, them bitches know how to make you cum and those bbls booties jiggle soo much