i keep pushing away the people closest to me

[Vantablack]

idk why but every time someone starts to care about me, i eithed cut them off or if i cant i start arguments with them and find the smallest flaws about them. eventually when they get sick of my shit and leave i use it as proof that it was all a show and they never cared about me in the first place

why am i like this? and does anyone else relate?

 

[Deleted member 122761]

yeah

 

[Vantablack]

yeah

how do you cope with it?

 

[Deleted member 122761]

how do you cope with it?

i went deep into the rabbit hole, very long story.

 

[Vantablack]

i went deep into the rabbit hole, very long story.

what do you mean? what rabbit hole? elaborate please

 

[Clqs]

The Jews call it avoidant personality disorder

 

[Vantablack]

The Jews call it avoidant personality disorder

i dont like psychiatry but holy shit does this describe me tf

 

[Deleted member 122761]

how do you cope with it?

i went deep into the rabbit hole, very long story.

what do you mean? what rabbit hole? elaborate please

the easiest way to start this is to make an IG and then look up the hashtag #avoidantattachment and then the algorithm will recommend you more short clips with a ton of info.

Eventually one of those videos will describe you perfectly and you go on checking the hashtags under those videos that click for your. Keep discovering yourself, best of luck.

 

[Vantablack]

i went deep into the rabbit hole, very long story.


the easiest way to start this is to make an IG and then look up the hashtag #avoidantattachment and then the algorithm will recommend you more short clips with a ton of info.

Eventually one of those videos will describe you perfectly and you go on checking the hashtags under those videos that click for your. Keep discovering yourself, best of luck.

insane high IQ method im gonna try this thanks

 

[Phxx]

do u have past trauma with people

 

[Jaynoyn523]

i don’t relate i have the opposite thing people like me, because im a nice guy

 

[sigma boii]

We are fucked up