I know this is water, but attractive people never struggle in life

[disillusioned]

This is actually the part that pisses me off the most. It's one thing that being physically attractive opens more doors, but what really makes my blood boil is that those doors will open automatically. Once you're 7+/10 you don't need to do anything. Everything just falls into place by itself like destiny. The idea of 'earning' your friends, girlfriends, social acceptance and recognition, etc, is just a normie cope.

It just makes me rage so fucking hard. Imagine being some shy faggot playing video games in the corner all day, and then suddenly some beautiful girl comes to you and starts chatting you up, wanting to fuck you, etc, for absolutely no reason. The scenarios that most guys secretly masturbate to, the attractive guys actually have happen to them without even trying it. And none of it is earned.

And this goes beyond sexual success; marketing yourself, getting noticed, etc, is 5 million times easier when you're attractive. There are nearly zero successful social media personalities, tiktokers, youtubers, etc, that are not at least okay looking.

'Meritocracy' is just such absolute bullshit and I can't believe anybody takes the idea seriously once they have any actual lived experience. Frankly, I'm unconvinced 'social skills' even matter at all beyond the bare minimum.

The only 'upside' is that it makes you realize that your failures in life were never truly the result of anything you did so there's not any reason to feel ashamed. You didn't choose to not be born genetically fit. Things would never have been different.

 

[Vermilioncore]

The main reason I know I’m ugly is because I’ve never had a friend or any spectacular experience. I’ve been a ghost my whole life. No ill words toward my appearance are necessary. It’s unspoken spite from the universe to me.

 

[AustrianOak47]

not true,look at vasily for example

 

[gimmedatacc]

The only 'upside' is that it makes you realize that your failures in life were never truly the result of anything you did

 

[disillusioned]

The main reason I know I’m ugly is because I’ve never had a friend or any spectacular experience. I’ve been a ghost my whole life. No ill words toward my appearance are necessary. It’s unspoken spite from the universe to me.

I did have 'friends' but they treated me like a second class citizens within the friend group and they weren't even subtle about it. Shit like this is actually the reason I'm convinced that most human beings have inherently horrible moral character. Nobody legitimately gives a shit about other people and only use them.

EDIT: Btw, this is why Vtubers are now such a big thing. They let you hide your subpar face.

 

[STAMPEDE]

Not really true, attractive people still need to work hard and go after the opportunities which of course present themselves easier because they’re attractive but still, they still have to work hard and go after those opportunities otherwise theyd be the same as other people. There’s many cases of attractive people wasting their genetics and many out of choice, because theyve been born in a bad location(third world slums for example) bad environment, or around bad people who only envy them. Looks aren’t everything in life, that’s why all the top people in the most powerful positions are all ugly sub5s.

 

[Vermilioncore]

I did have 'friends' but they treated me like a second class citizens within the friend group and they weren't even subtle about it. Shit like this is actually the reason I'm convinced that most human beings have inherently horrible moral character. Nobody legitimately gives a shit about other people and only use them.

But sometimes normies love to have the group “punching bag” it shows that you at least have some type of trait that they see as desirable to want to be friends with you.

In my case, no one sees anything of value in me. And I can’t see it as well. So the world is in agreement with me. I’m garbage

 

[disillusioned]

Not really true, attractive people still need to work hard and go after the opportunities which of course present themselves easier because they’re attractive but still, they still have to work hard and go after those opportunities otherwise theyd be the same as other people. There’s many cases of attractive people wasting their genetics and many out of choice, because theyve been born in a bad location(third world slums for example) bad environment, or around bad people who only envy them. Looks aren’t everything in life, that’s why all the top people in the most powerful positions are all ugly sub5s.

This is pure cope. You'd be stunned by how many 'successful' people are just generic normies who happen to be attractive. Yes they need to 'work' in the sense that they need to 'go through the motions' but it's only 'work' in the same sense that walking to the store to pick up what you need is 'work'.

 

[pope]

Yeah I agree, things just fall into place for them. People include them, they get invited out, teachers love them for no reason, bosses are friendly with them. Everywhere they go they are loved for the most part, even at their worst they will still have someone to have their back. But no even at ur best as a subhuman ur only gonna get treated like ur second class

 

[TrueNateJacobs]

This is why you’ll often find that super attractive people have no personality.
It’s because they havent had the need to develop one.
There’s no need to try and learn social cues/comedy/when to say the right thing, when everyone will just listen no matter what, because you’re beautiful.

I feel your anger 100%

It’s like bro I have to be gymmaxxed, dress nice, be charismatic, neurotypical, outgoing, funny, have hobbies, be nice, just for people to even notice me.

just for my chadlite friends who have never been in the gym, are dumb as rocks, have the personality of a 8 year old, and play fortnite everyday, to get any girl they want.

It feels like this constant mask that I put on, just to reach the social levels that a htn+/htb+
gain from doing nothing.

Once you’re htn+, everything is handed to you.

I feel like everyday I work so hard just to not be invisible.
I do skincare, I dont eat salt or carbs, I work out, I do a shit ton of cardio, I take supplements, I

I literally have a 6’3 htn friend who fucks a new girl every week and hes only 17.
He’s a fucking dumbass, and a weirdo.
He’s a fucking NPC who trys to act nonchalant all the time.
Girls still love him.

The craziest example of this and what really got me fuming happened a couple of weeks ago.

For some backround people say me and this friend look very similar, and that we could be brothers.
The thing is that im hltn and hes htn cause he has more harmony and his height makes his smv go way higher.

a couple weeks ago my friend and i went out with a couple of other friends.

The whole time, my friend just sat away from the group on his phone.
He didn’t say a word.
And whenever he did he was mumbling trying to be “nonchalant”

Afterwards, a girl from the group that ive known for years texted me and said

“Whats your friends instagram, does he have a girlfriend, and can you ask him what he thinks of me?”

I was so fucking mad.
This fucker literally didnt socialize at all.
he might as well have been a fucking brick wall.

Meanwhile i was cracking jokes the whole night making everyone laugh, being charismatic, not to mention im known as a “nice guy”
(not in the reddit way but just as a good person)
Yet this girl was thirsting over him hard as fuck..
Now she’s saying that she has a thing for him.

YOU DONT EVEN FUCKING KNOW HIM.
YOU’VE NEVER SPOKEN A WORD TO HIM BUT YOU WANT HIM SO BADLY?
ARE YOU THAT SHALLOW?
IT’S THE SAME THING AS BEING INTERESTED IN A PRETTY STONE
YOU JUST LIKE IT BECAUSE IT SPARKLES.

Everything that everyone says is cope.
It’s water, but looks are ALL that matters.
Every oneitis ive had, every rejection, every failed social interaction, it was because of my looks.
I have been the perfect guy.
Made the perfect jokes.
I have bought girls lunch,
given them presents, been the center of the room because of my charisma,
and yet I still get less attention
than your average htn.

hhtns+ don’t experience bad social interactions

It’s so fucking annoying and i have so many examples of this.

GODDAMN BRO.

Like I just wanted to be able to go outside in a tshirt and jeans and feel confident.

No more of this “dressing up” or looksmaxxing.

My attractive friends eat fucking ramen noodles and mcdonalds all day and fucking mog me its so annoying.
Fuck this shit bro.

 

[disillusioned]

This is why you’ll often find that super attractive people have no personality.
It’s because they havent had the need to develop one.
There’s no need to try and learn social cues/comedy/when to say the right thing, when everyone will just listen no matter what, because you’re beautiful.

There's no point in developing a personality regardless of looks; Chad doesn't need it, and sub-Chads don't benefit from it, so gives a shit? There's still a certain minimum floor (e.g. don't be extremely annoying/stupid) but that's it. Going above it has very severe diminishing returns.

EDIT: I'll also add that 'charisma' is often just having a lucky voice, which is how some 'ugly' guys can still have a presence despite their otherwise subpar genetics.

As for all that other shit you wrote (assuming you wrote it yourself and that it isn't a copy/paste) about that guy getting instant attention, how your personality didn't matter, etc, yes that is par for the course, sadly.

However, this rabbit hole goes much deeper than just sexual attraction/human socialization...

It applies to damn nearly everything. I'm a game dev and fiction writer, and I've successfully applied blackpill leasons/ideas to my content (this is one of the few upsides to being blackpilled), which has helped make it much more successful than it would've been otherwise. I paid a decent $ for a good book cover, high-quality illustrations (usually 3 per book, plus illustrations for all important characters), etc. And for the game dev stuff, I made sure that even though the graphics are 2D, it's 'realistic' e.g. good looking 2D, and not just garbage abstract pixel art slop. My social media accounts/user names also use attractive avatars (unlike this one). It works; I've got plenty of readers and consumers.

Interestingly, many of the copes in creative communities echo those of conventional bluepill tropes e.g. "graphics aren't everything" and "you can't judge a book by its cover", etc. It's all bullshit. Most people don't give af about your game if they dislike how it looks, and books are ignored by 99.9% of the population by default because there's no visuals usually.

And there's countless other examples; cars, buildings, food, etc, all are valued by looks.

Literally everything is looks to at least some degree.

 

[McSkziofren]

You can try to add some light adversity to their lives though.

 

[McSkziofren]

IF it will make you feel better.