idk who needs to hear this but people do not approach you just for being attractive

[fishinthesee]

bro???

 

[Deleted member 242536]

greycel disproved his own thread

@202

the whole thread is just cope im barely scraping mtn and still get approached by average looking girls in my age range both irl and on social media frequently

 

[Deleted member 242536]

i think my point still stands tho you have to be a little nt and talk to women to get any real success, can’t rely on passive foids

ive never approached a girl and have had 7 gfs from the moment i turned 13 to now

 

[fishinthesee]

the whole thread is just cope im barely scraping mtn and still get approached by average looking girls in my age range both irl and on social media frequently

social media for me is a diffent story, i have a tiktok and i just post myself to songs i like and there’s at least some women in the comments

 

[FiendFiend]

ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care

they do. maybe not you but trust me they do

 

[Deleted member 242536]

social media for me is a diffent story, i have a tiktok and i just post myself to songs i like and there’s at least some women in the comments

im referring to apps that consider irl social connections such as Instagram and snap

 

[fishinthesee]

ive never approached a girl and have had 7 gfs from the moment i turned 13 to now

i didn’t mean approach i meant talk to them in general, i meet them mostly through my nt friends or bumping into people downtown, but i rely on snapchat a fuck ton too, friends are the method i’ve made a lot and am continuing to make them even tho im a senior

also the only times i approach girls is when im drunk, other times i have but im high inhib asf

 

[fishinthesee]

im referring to apps that consider irl social connections such as Instagram and snap

snap the og method for high inhib ndcels, instagram too low inhib for me

 

[fishinthesee]

they do. maybe not you but trust me they do

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thats from when i was 15

 

[fishinthesee]

thats from when i was 15

not even side profile

 

[Deleted member 249636]

if ur not hhtn by uni then ur girl is chads property