user1728482728
zephir
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I looked through this guy's profile out of curiosity and it made me pretty sad. It's nothing I didn't expect but it honestly hit me harder than it should've. This guy's post history is filled with depressing details about his loneliness, self-hatred, desperation and insecurity, and then 2-3 posts about how he totally has sex and is totally able to live out his fantasies with a real live girl... it's pitiful. Just look at the contradictions in his post history and in his IT blog-post:
If I wasn't on mobile I would quote more but trust me, his account is littered with posts on FADating, toastme, R4R, and other places venting about how crushing his search for love has been for him and how desperate he is for a woman to connect to. If it weren't for his IT manifesto you would think this guy is in the worst state he will ever be in, but now suddenly he has "over years" been propositioned for casual sex and had positive romantic relationships with women? He's lying, that's obvious, but it's so sad that he feels the need to do so. That he has no evidence in support of his blue-pill lifestyle, but is still so hypnotized he thinking making some up is a valid substitute. That he's LARPing as an ugly Chad to convince himself that it's possible. He's a diehard leftist, so it's not like he was an incel and has only recently disavowed it. He's just delusional. And that's scary and sad.I don't think I'm an objectively terrible person. I try my best. I try to be as caring, compassionate, encouraging and uplifting as I can. I try to inspire happiness. I hold no real bigotries in my heart, am open minded, and understanding. Yet nothing.
I am achieving these things that incels consistently claim are not possible for someone like this and I'm not even putting a lot of effort into it. How? I make myself a person people want to be around. I am friendly, warm, inviting, and understanding. When people speak I listen attentively, I help people, I advocate for others. I invest the best parts of myself into another and in return they do the same for me.
IT, if you're reading this, think about what you are doing to this guy. He hates his life, he hates himself, he hates the only people he can relate to, and he's clearly nearing the end of his rope if he has to resort to full on LARPing for attention. He's played your game, he's followed your rules, and he's still an incel. But because of how hypnotized he is because of you, it's up to you to tell him the reality of his situation, not enable him. I mean, you're scared of the incels that shitpost and vent their frustrations on obscure forums? It's never the people that are most at terms with their situation that run amok, it's the people clenching onto a tiny bit of hope, putting all their eggs into that basket. Once that's gone, the resulting meltdown could be very violent. This guy needs to be let go, you are killing him otherwise. Let him go.