I lose interest in literaly everything

[bleedinginfras]

Very few things interest me in the long run.
Whether it's video games, women, clothing styles, food, or anything else, I'm losing interest in absolutely everything in my life.

I've often been completely obsessed with girls, then a week or two later, nothing, no interest at all.
I've loved video games so much that I spent hundreds of euros after a week of playing, but I abandoned them all two or three weeks later.
The game that held my interest the longest lasted two months.
The same goes for my friends, I've never wanted to be around someone for more than a year, except for a few friendships who lasted a year and a half or two.

I'm not capable of being interested in something for very long, except in rare cases.

I admit that I'm afraid I'll never be able to have a happy marriage because I'll probably get tired of my wife quickly.

I feel a constant need to have new things in my life, new toys to entertain myself.
But I always end up throwing them in the trash and forgetting about them for months or years or even forever.

Anyone in the same case ?

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

You remind me of myself. I prefer doing nothing and being by myself. I don't know anyone else who's similar.

 

[FoidRaper29]

DNR

 

[Jimcel]

You remind me of myself. I prefer doing nothing and being by myself. I don't know anyone else who's similar.

i feel like this sometimes, but do you not get sick of being alone ever?

 

[Jimcel]

Very few things interest me in the long run.
Whether it's video games, women, clothing styles, food, or anything else, I'm losing interest in absolutely everything in my life.

I've often been completely obsessed with girls, then a week or two later, nothing, no interest at all.
I've loved video games so much that I spent hundreds of euros after a week of playing, but I abandoned them all two or three weeks later.
The game that held my interest the longest lasted two months.
The same goes for my friends, I've never wanted to be around someone for more than a year, except for a few friendships who lasted a year and a half or two.

I'm not capable of being interested in something for very long, except in rare cases.

I admit that I'm afraid I'll never be able to have a happy marriage because I'll probably get tired of my wife quickly.

I feel a constant need to have new things in my life, new toys to entertain myself.
But I always end up throwing them in the trash and forgetting about them for months or years or even forever.

Anyone in the same case ?

Would you say you get satisfied or complacent with what you currently have, then seek more?

 

[foidaddict]

Do you have ADHD?

 

[bleedinginfras]

Do you have ADHD?

never did any test for it, only iq test

 

[bleedinginfras]

Would you say you get satisfied or complacent with what you currently have, then seek more?

In a way, yes, when I have something new I feel that need less.

But it always comes back, as soon as I get bored.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

I can relate to this

 

[bleedinginfras]

You remind me of myself. I prefer doing nothing and being by myself. I don't know anyone else who's similar.

i'm alone, but not necessarily in a bad way.

i have "friends" and excellent social skills, but no one is truly close to me. No one really knows me, knows who I am deep down. Everyone only knows the mask I wear in public.

this solitude doesnt bother me, i enjoy being alone. i dont need to pretend, and i can act and do as I please

 

[xrend]

same, anhedonia is real

 

[Staddber]

Very few things interest me in the long run.
Whether it's video games, women, clothing styles, food, or anything else, I'm losing interest in absolutely everything in my life.

I've often been completely obsessed with girls, then a week or two later, nothing, no interest at all.
I've loved video games so much that I spent hundreds of euros after a week of playing, but I abandoned them all two or three weeks later.
The game that held my interest the longest lasted two months.
The same goes for my friends, I've never wanted to be around someone for more than a year, except for a few friendships who lasted a year and a half or two.

I'm not capable of being interested in something for very long, except in rare cases.

I admit that I'm afraid I'll never be able to have a happy marriage because I'll probably get tired of my wife quickly.

I feel a constant need to have new things in my life, new toys to entertain myself.
But I always end up throwing them in the trash and forgetting about them for months or years or even forever.

Anyone in the same case ?

I kinda relate to you

 

[Ascensionsoon]

i have "friends" and excellent social skills, but no one is truly close to me.

Heavily relate to this, I have "friends" at school and hang out with multiple different groups of people, yet for the last 5 years of my life I have not been out with anyone after school / weekends.

No one makes that effort to try and get close to me, so why should I make the effort to get close to them?

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i'm alone, but not necessarily in a bad way.

i have "friends" and excellent social skills, but no one is truly close to me. No one really knows me, knows who I am deep down. Everyone only knows the mask I wear in public.

this solitude doesnt bother me, i enjoy being alone. i dont need to pretend, and i can act and do as I please

I feel ya. Are you a NEET?

 

[bleedinginfras]

Heavily relate to this, I have "friends" at school and hang out with multiple different groups of people, yet for the last 5 years of my life I have not been out with anyone after school / weekends.

No one makes that effort to try and get close to me, so why should I make the effort to get close to them?

same for me

 

[bleedinginfras]

I feel ya. Are you a NEET?

what is it

 

[bleedinginfras]

@Basin thank you for reping all my messages

 

[bleedinginfras]

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