wstn28994
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Hey i just wanna talk to people about this. Im gonna start of by saying that im going to try and be as unbiased and truthful as i can but this is me telling my side so of course there is some subconscious bias. So to start my parents got divorced when i was 1, my mom cheated on my dad multiple times and he finally broke. I resent her alot for it but she is a good mom and i love her alot. When they got divorced it was 6 months each a year until I started school and i did school year with my mom and went to my dads winter and summer so i didn’t get to see my dad a whole lot( he lives in quebec my mom lived in Georgia, texas and Colorado since then). So up until i was probably around 3 it was just me and my dad when i went to him, but when i turned 3 around i think his gf moved in but honestly i dont remember i was 3 yk, but it was no longer just me and him. So i think i got jealous of the attention he gave her and i wasnt super warm to her, i remember that but dont remember ever being horrible to her or go out of my way to be mean just not warm . But i was like that up until around 10 then i started making an effort to be nice and try and talk to her more. I am 16 now and she is pretty chill when i just talk to her like that but it feels like every single little thing she trys to blow it up in me, like recently i got caught out in the rain walking back from a friends i put my clothes up to dry on the shower and when i came back from work they were on the trashcan. I got irritated and asked why she did that and she said it because she didn’t know where to put them, another thing i was with a friend and we were using those little like gelette like spray things and lighers to make a make shift flamethrower which was stupid and me and my dad talked abt it but she said i was a bad influence on my half siblings her kids and my dad doesn’t know how to discipline me so she will by not letting me come see my dad if she needs to. Things like that i feel like she just does not like me and like seeing my dad give me attention, but my dad never stands up for me, always justifies it by saying i wasnt good to her so shes distant, says that she needs to adjust. And we argue about that stuff me and my dad, shes the main reason our relationship isnt good. And it just makes me really sad bc shes driving a wesge in between us and at the rate its going id be surprised if im still in contact with him at 18( im 16) im pretty emotional writing this can u guys just lmk and please ask questions ill answer any u have.
