i might be lithromantic. (high effort)

[fallen442]

about 2 years ago i liked this girl right, i liked her for some time etc etc then one day she actually confessed that she liked me i was super surprised and excited but after 15 minutes i realised that i dont actually want a relationship with her. even now i think of cuddling a cute girl amazing right? if i genuinely imput myself in that situation even with a girl i "like" I'd still be uncomfortable like i like chasing but not keeping.and honestly it's kinda confusing because i do want affection. like the idea of cuddling with a cute girl sounds amazing, but if i actually put myself in that situation i feel like i'd get uncomfortable pretty quickly. i think i just like the feeling of chasing someone and wondering if they like me back, but once i actually have them, the feeling disappears. it's like i want the excitement of getting close to someone, just not actually being close.
please dont tell me im alone on this

first high effort thread

 

[fallen442]

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[fallen442]

@Tesarossa @hitmancrewzz @Yuqwi

 

[BigBallsLarry]

about 2 years ago i liked this girl right, i liked her for some time etc etc then one day she actually confessed that she liked me i was super surprised and excited but after 15 minutes i realised that i dont actually want a relationship with her. even now i think of cuddling a cute girl amazing right? if i genuinely imput myself in that situation even with a girl i "like" I'd still be uncomfortable like i like chasing but not keeping.and honestly it's kinda confusing because i do want affection. like the idea of cuddling with a cute girl sounds amazing, but if i actually put myself in that situation i feel like i'd get uncomfortable pretty quickly. i think i just like the feeling of chasing someone and wondering if they like me back, but once i actually have them, the feeling disappears. it's like i want the excitement of getting close to someone, just not actually being close.
please dont tell me im alone on this

first high effort thread

i agree, the chase and feeling wanted is the best feeling, after that fleets away during a relationship it becomes dull.

 

[Yuqwi]

about 2 years ago i liked this girl right, i liked her for some time etc etc then one day she actually confessed that she liked me i was super surprised and excited but after 15 minutes i realised that i dont actually want a relationship with her. even now i think of cuddling a cute girl amazing right? if i genuinely imput myself in that situation even with a girl i "like" I'd still be uncomfortable like i like chasing but not keeping.and honestly it's kinda confusing because i do want affection. like the idea of cuddling with a cute girl sounds amazing, but if i actually put myself in that situation i feel like i'd get uncomfortable pretty quickly. i think i just like the feeling of chasing someone and wondering if they like me back, but once i actually have them, the feeling disappears. it's like i want the excitement of getting close to someone, just not actually being close.
please dont tell me im alone on this

first high effort thread

Totally feel you man, in some cases it’s the same for me. I’ve had this crush on a girl for a while and I also think she likes me. But imagining myself with her knowing she’s so much better or different than me in general makes me uncomfortable and not wanting to peruse her

 

[Yuqwi]

about 2 years ago i liked this girl right, i liked her for some time etc etc then one day she actually confessed that she liked me i was super surprised and excited but after 15 minutes i realised that i dont actually want a relationship with her. even now i think of cuddling a cute girl amazing right? if i genuinely imput myself in that situation even with a girl i "like" I'd still be uncomfortable like i like chasing but not keeping.and honestly it's kinda confusing because i do want affection. like the idea of cuddling with a cute girl sounds amazing, but if i actually put myself in that situation i feel like i'd get uncomfortable pretty quickly. i think i just like the feeling of chasing someone and wondering if they like me back, but once i actually have them, the feeling disappears. it's like i want the excitement of getting close to someone, just not actually being close.
please dont tell me im alone on this

first high effort thread

This feeling you get when everything is so fresh and exciting is something I also desire all the time but in the end I’m unable to persue a long term relationship. Can be many things but I’m just not build for this shit even though I want affection so bad

 

[Medullary_Ray]

about 2 years ago i liked this girl right, i liked her for some time etc etc then one day she actually confessed that she liked me i was super surprised and excited but after 15 minutes i realised that i dont actually want a relationship with her. even now i think of cuddling a cute girl amazing right? if i genuinely imput myself in that situation even with a girl i "like" I'd still be uncomfortable like i like chasing but not keeping.and honestly it's kinda confusing because i do want affection. like the idea of cuddling with a cute girl sounds amazing, but if i actually put myself in that situation i feel like i'd get uncomfortable pretty quickly. i think i just like the feeling of chasing someone and wondering if they like me back, but once i actually have them, the feeling disappears. it's like i want the excitement of getting close to someone, just not actually being close.
please dont tell me im alone on this

first high effort thread

Close off your emotions and treat her like a condom. They all leave one day, anyway. Might as well risk it and act shitty from the beginning — many like it that way.

 

[hitmancrewzz]

what the fuck is lithromantic

 

[fallen442]

what the fuck is lithromantic

 

[hitmancrewzz]

but you still gonna crack or nah

 

[fallen442]

but you still gonna crack or nah

i mean hopefully, but no keeping

 

[hitmancrewzz]

i mean hopefully, but no keeping

fuckfriends are law

 

[Absurdist]

fuckfriends are law

are they worth it?

I know a girl shes an ltb and would be down to fuck. I just don't want her to catch feelings or whatever.

 

[hitmancrewzz]

are they worth it?

I know a girl shes an ltb and would be down to fuck. I just don't want her to catch feelings or whatever.

just fuck her, tell her you want nothing but just a quick action. 'You scratch my back and i scratch yours.' if she starts having feelings towards you, get the fuck out of there

 

[Absurdist]

just fuck her, tell her you want nothing but just a quick action. 'You scratch my back and i scratch yours.' if she starts having feelings towards you, get the fuck out of there

Thats what I want to do. But shes always doing smth extra for me. Acting on some motherly type shit.

I just want to fuck.

 

[hitmancrewzz]

Thats what I want to do. But shes always doing smth extra for me. Acting on some motherly type shit.

I just want to fuck.

ou shii mommy