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Title. I need advice from someone who has experience with trans girls. So when it comes to regular girls, I know the game perfectly. I know exactly what to do with regular foids, how to attract and keep them, and so on. But is the game for trans foids any different from the game for default foids? I don't fucking know, and I'm confused.
Right now, I'm in a situationship with that one trans girl, and I don't fucking know what to do...
Backstory: I met her on a regular dating app. I didn't know she is trans, because she looks way too passable that you can't even fucking tell she's trans. But she admitted being trans after few messages anyway. I couldn't believe it. We had a spark tho, complimented each other, and I asked her out. She agreed, but then got really flakey and cold. And then, I broke all redpill "game rules" and some other BS like dont double text and chase and exactly did that. For some reason it worked, I chased her really hard, told her how much I liker her and we would be a great couple. I couldn't imagine this would work with REGULAR foid. The date went smoothly, we got to my place, fucked, and fell asleep cuddling. She was very affectionate and cute even online, after date. It looked like she fell for me completely, so did I. I fell for her hard, and it made me curious, so I decided to stalk her social. And it turned out that she is, or in fact was a sex worker, and it crushed me completely. I was really upset and felt like a complete CUCK. But I couldn't do anything about it anyway. I only kept reassuring myself that it was her past, not present. I never asked her about that topic directly, and she kept concealing that from me.
We had second date after week, and it was perfect too, we had passionate sex and stayed in my house for 2 days.
Third date after another week, it looked like everything was going good as always, we were chilling at my place again, but for some reason, she withhold intimacy. She was ready to blow me, but I really wanted to fuck her, but she said no. She said that she isnt feeling it rn, and my dick is too big for her, so she doesn't wanna go through pain again (I have 7 inches). I got frustrated a little, but nothing too dramatic. After that date, I noticed her pulling away.
She didn't text me for almost 3 days, which was unusual. She was always needy on text and wanted to talk, but not now. I reached out to her, she was still warm, but not as warm as used to be. I started worrying, and stalked her again, more thoroughly, and yeah, it turned she is still sex worker. It was a second, unbearable punch. The thought that other man can have his way with her got me in so much crazy pain. I know that I am a fucking idiot that fell for a prostitute, but it was too LATE. I was in too deep. I stayed silent and still didnt say shit. Even tho she became colder online, we still got to fourth date. But it wasn't any different, we stayed inside. But this time, she completely withdrew sex. Not even blowing me, but online she said she would. She again said that she wasn't in right mood. This time I really got upset even visible, because I knew, later she will fuck some motherfucker for money. She at least tried started to comforting and hugging me/ I wanted to confront her and spill out the truth, that I know everything, but I couldn't. Internally, I was both mad and sad, and couldn't muster up the words in the moment. I got so emotional, that when we were saying goodbye, i teared up and almost cried like a bitch in front of her.
After that i almost immediately texted her that we needed to talk and i dont see any more good things coming between us. She said that she loves me. I said that too, and she left it on read.
During all our online conversations we also acted like a couple in love, and said "ily" to each other many times. Sometimes she was upset about something, or I got her upset, and I reassured her. It wasn't always lovey dovey 100%, she even told me that once she cried because of me. But it was still sweet. Sometimes i chased her, sometimes she chased me. It was mutual, and never one sided like it is RIGHT NOW. I am deeply in love with her at this point, even if she's whore. She has good personality, she genuinely very attractive, we have common interests. I never felt love like this to any other girl. And because she's trans, I thought maybe she would be different from other girls, so I commited fully, without a doubt. Something that I WOULD NEVER do with a cisgirl. I loved her unconditionally, buying her stuff and gifts. I wanted to show her true love. But still, she pulled away and acted like cisfoid. That's why im confused and need advice what to do. Im not sure chasing her now would work, she is already cold and giving me short replies. But when i chased her after we just met, it worked way too good.
I am so obsessed with her that she's on my mind 24/7 now. I even texted her as her "new client" but it's me undercover. Just to surprise meet her, and finally confront her about everything. Because I feel like i will not get chance to see her IRL anymore. It was also painful to see how she is warmer with a random client than with me rn. But IDK, i might ruin everything completely, cause it's really enterting crazy stalker territory now. Her job is not my bussiness, we never even admitted dating, but still, i can't help myself. If she hasnt told me... there might be a reason? She is not ready to tell me? But can't keep hiding this forever. I feel like in order for our relationship to grow and get on new, genuine level, we need to talk about it.
I still feel like i need to confront her, but maybe over call or text, at least. But not in agressive, accusing way. In a loving, understanding way.
I either can pull back and be silent, try to talk to her about everything, or meet her as "client"
And I really dont know what to do... but i dont want to lose her...
Right now, I'm in a situationship with that one trans girl, and I don't fucking know what to do...
Backstory: I met her on a regular dating app. I didn't know she is trans, because she looks way too passable that you can't even fucking tell she's trans. But she admitted being trans after few messages anyway. I couldn't believe it. We had a spark tho, complimented each other, and I asked her out. She agreed, but then got really flakey and cold. And then, I broke all redpill "game rules" and some other BS like dont double text and chase and exactly did that. For some reason it worked, I chased her really hard, told her how much I liker her and we would be a great couple. I couldn't imagine this would work with REGULAR foid. The date went smoothly, we got to my place, fucked, and fell asleep cuddling. She was very affectionate and cute even online, after date. It looked like she fell for me completely, so did I. I fell for her hard, and it made me curious, so I decided to stalk her social. And it turned out that she is, or in fact was a sex worker, and it crushed me completely. I was really upset and felt like a complete CUCK. But I couldn't do anything about it anyway. I only kept reassuring myself that it was her past, not present. I never asked her about that topic directly, and she kept concealing that from me.
We had second date after week, and it was perfect too, we had passionate sex and stayed in my house for 2 days.
Third date after another week, it looked like everything was going good as always, we were chilling at my place again, but for some reason, she withhold intimacy. She was ready to blow me, but I really wanted to fuck her, but she said no. She said that she isnt feeling it rn, and my dick is too big for her, so she doesn't wanna go through pain again (I have 7 inches). I got frustrated a little, but nothing too dramatic. After that date, I noticed her pulling away.
She didn't text me for almost 3 days, which was unusual. She was always needy on text and wanted to talk, but not now. I reached out to her, she was still warm, but not as warm as used to be. I started worrying, and stalked her again, more thoroughly, and yeah, it turned she is still sex worker. It was a second, unbearable punch. The thought that other man can have his way with her got me in so much crazy pain. I know that I am a fucking idiot that fell for a prostitute, but it was too LATE. I was in too deep. I stayed silent and still didnt say shit. Even tho she became colder online, we still got to fourth date. But it wasn't any different, we stayed inside. But this time, she completely withdrew sex. Not even blowing me, but online she said she would. She again said that she wasn't in right mood. This time I really got upset even visible, because I knew, later she will fuck some motherfucker for money. She at least tried started to comforting and hugging me/ I wanted to confront her and spill out the truth, that I know everything, but I couldn't. Internally, I was both mad and sad, and couldn't muster up the words in the moment. I got so emotional, that when we were saying goodbye, i teared up and almost cried like a bitch in front of her.
After that i almost immediately texted her that we needed to talk and i dont see any more good things coming between us. She said that she loves me. I said that too, and she left it on read.
During all our online conversations we also acted like a couple in love, and said "ily" to each other many times. Sometimes she was upset about something, or I got her upset, and I reassured her. It wasn't always lovey dovey 100%, she even told me that once she cried because of me. But it was still sweet. Sometimes i chased her, sometimes she chased me. It was mutual, and never one sided like it is RIGHT NOW. I am deeply in love with her at this point, even if she's whore. She has good personality, she genuinely very attractive, we have common interests. I never felt love like this to any other girl. And because she's trans, I thought maybe she would be different from other girls, so I commited fully, without a doubt. Something that I WOULD NEVER do with a cisgirl. I loved her unconditionally, buying her stuff and gifts. I wanted to show her true love. But still, she pulled away and acted like cisfoid. That's why im confused and need advice what to do. Im not sure chasing her now would work, she is already cold and giving me short replies. But when i chased her after we just met, it worked way too good.
I am so obsessed with her that she's on my mind 24/7 now. I even texted her as her "new client" but it's me undercover. Just to surprise meet her, and finally confront her about everything. Because I feel like i will not get chance to see her IRL anymore. It was also painful to see how she is warmer with a random client than with me rn. But IDK, i might ruin everything completely, cause it's really enterting crazy stalker territory now. Her job is not my bussiness, we never even admitted dating, but still, i can't help myself. If she hasnt told me... there might be a reason? She is not ready to tell me? But can't keep hiding this forever. I feel like in order for our relationship to grow and get on new, genuine level, we need to talk about it.
I still feel like i need to confront her, but maybe over call or text, at least. But not in agressive, accusing way. In a loving, understanding way.
I either can pull back and be silent, try to talk to her about everything, or meet her as "client"
And I really dont know what to do... but i dont want to lose her...
