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Some of you remember that there was a girl waiting for me in a country that I previously was planning to go to. We agreed that she would wait until I come there and so on. But then I changed my phone number once I arrived and messaged her once, and she didn't respond. I thought "yep. Here we go." Then I messaged our mutual friend and he told me that she has another guy. That was about 10 days ago.
Yesterday he messages me again and says that she had messaged me (she told him that and she thought that I was ignoring her, because she texted me on my other phone number that I had no access to). I asked "well what about the other dude?" he said "I only suspected that. I asked her if she had anyone and she said no." So I went to the town where both her and my friend lived to see him and my best friend, I had no expectation of seeing her there because it was late. I brought a watermelon and we were eating outside. Then all of a sudden, at 10-11 pm the girl and one of her girl friends walked right next to us. It was dark but I immediately recognised her. Her blue eyes and eyeballs looked like they were about to leave her skull as she uttered in, I guess, awe "no way. No way!" She seemed shocked and really happy to see me, but I was pissed because I hadn't heard from her for over 2 weeks. I didn't even hug her I just gave her a handshake, then I said "what's going on why were you ignoring me?" (remember I didn't get a response to my message). There were about 8-10 people there all of them knew each other and her, and they had no idea that we had something going on between us. As you can imagine that was awkward as hell for her, she looked a bit shocked that I said something like that not giving a fuck that there are other people around. She didn't say a word. She turned to her girl friend, talked, giggled about something then left.
If you ask me I don't think that I did the right thing there or the smart thing, but I said what was on my mind and I said it loud and clear, which is masculine behaviour. If she has even a little bit of attraction left she will reach out. If not no.
I'm just curious what is going through her mind right now and what you guys think.
Yesterday he messages me again and says that she had messaged me (she told him that and she thought that I was ignoring her, because she texted me on my other phone number that I had no access to). I asked "well what about the other dude?" he said "I only suspected that. I asked her if she had anyone and she said no." So I went to the town where both her and my friend lived to see him and my best friend, I had no expectation of seeing her there because it was late. I brought a watermelon and we were eating outside. Then all of a sudden, at 10-11 pm the girl and one of her girl friends walked right next to us. It was dark but I immediately recognised her. Her blue eyes and eyeballs looked like they were about to leave her skull as she uttered in, I guess, awe "no way. No way!" She seemed shocked and really happy to see me, but I was pissed because I hadn't heard from her for over 2 weeks. I didn't even hug her I just gave her a handshake, then I said "what's going on why were you ignoring me?" (remember I didn't get a response to my message). There were about 8-10 people there all of them knew each other and her, and they had no idea that we had something going on between us. As you can imagine that was awkward as hell for her, she looked a bit shocked that I said something like that not giving a fuck that there are other people around. She didn't say a word. She turned to her girl friend, talked, giggled about something then left.
If you ask me I don't think that I did the right thing there or the smart thing, but I said what was on my mind and I said it loud and clear, which is masculine behaviour. If she has even a little bit of attraction left she will reach out. If not no.
I'm just curious what is going through her mind right now and what you guys think.
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