I need help starting a conversation with a girl at school.

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I need some tips, almost like a script, I need things to bring up.

For context, she is a different class and we never talk, she kinda knows who I am from seeing me at school and because I talked to her classmate (female) once. We live in Serbia so they are a minority here.

I find it very hard to make myself go up to talk to a girl because I have moderate social anxiety. I was on the edge of doing it a few times but I never did it (after that one time I talked to her classmate).

How do I make myself go up to her and start a conversation instead of chickening out?
 
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I need some tips, almost like a script, I need things to bring up.

For context, she is a different class and we never talk, she kinda knows who I am from seeing me at school and because I talked to her classmate (female) once. We live in Serbia so they are a minority here.

I find it very hard to make myself go up to talk to a girl because I have moderate social anxiety. I was on the edge of doing it a few times but I never did it (after that one time I talked to her classmate).

How do I make myself go up to her and start a conversation instead of chickening out?
if you have her instagram then try texting her first, or if you're kinda close with this mutual friend ask them to introduce you in a non awkward way(you and them could be having a convo and just roping this girl u like in)
 
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wrong website for that
 
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drink beforehand
 
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I need some tips, almost like a script, I need things to bring up.

For context, she is a different class and we never talk, she kinda knows who I am from seeing me at school and because I talked to her classmate (female) once. We live in Serbia so they are a minority here.

I find it very hard to make myself go up to talk to a girl because I have moderate social anxiety. I was on the edge of doing it a few times but I never did it (after that one time I talked to her classmate).

How do I make myself go up to her and start a conversation instead of chickening out?
Don’t stress bhai, maybe try talking to other strangers and get comfortable with talking to randoms
 
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if you have her instagram then try texting her first, or if you're kinda close with this mutual friend ask them to introduce you in a non awkward way(you and them could be having a convo and just roping this girl u like in)
We have no mutuals. Also, I forgot to mention I am an average guy probably.
 
We have no mutuals. Also, I forgot to mention I am an average guy probably.
it doesnt matter as much as you may think. I've flirted with/pulled girls way out of my league. the initial attraction is pretty easy to develop as long as youre chill and kinda cool and not straight up ugly(subhuman)/fat or have any major failos(deviated septum, major asymmetry, etc.)
 
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