I need help with my crush

[AscendDaily]

I know i kinda blurted out and ur gonna have to decipher, but i need help (i have time as she doent have her phone till sunday afternoon)

• Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
• • Lily
    
    Me
    • Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
    Awhh no worries Sam I like talking to you aswell
• • Me
    
    It’s just I feel like when I talk to you it feels like I’m annoying you and bringing up stuff you don’t want to talk about, I also feel like I make fun of you too much - I don’t mean any of it, just how I engage with people.
• • Lily
    
    Yeah yeah I get that dww
  • It’s only banter
    • 
• • Me
    
    I just wanted to let you know that your one of the best people to be around and no matter what you said I will always be grateful for everything you’ve done for me and I’m sorry I haven’t done enough for you
• • Lily
    
    No no you have dw
    • 
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU DELETED A SNAP
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• May 2
• • Me
    
    Idk what happened with the chat changes lwk
  • Bro ur gonna hate me for this but idc I spent ages writing this in notes and I know I already said all that earlier but my brain is just thinking about stuff so you’re getting a part 2 (start writing this at 1:00 so you better agree with me)I feel like I didn’t even say everything properly before, because it’s not just about you being there for me during a tough time—you’re just genuinely one of the most kind, caring and understanding people I know in general. Like it’s in the way you talk to people, how you actually listen, and how you make everyone feel included without even trying.Even just being around you normally, like in everyday situations, makes things better. You’ve got this really calm, positive energy that just makes people feel comfortable and a bit happier, and I don’t think you even realise you do it. It’s such a natural thing about you and it’s honestly one of the reasons I value having you as a friend so much.I also really respect you as a person. The way you carry yourself and treat others says a lot, and it’s something I notice. You’re just properly genuine, and that’s rare.and honestly I really value what we have as friends, like properly. It just feels easy and real, and I wouldn’t want it to be anything else. It’s one of those friendships I genuinely want to keep for a long time because it actually means something to me.anyway yeah this is such a random late night message but I just felt like you should know that our friendship means a lot to me, more than I probably say out loud. I’m really glad we’re friends
• • Lily
    
    awhh (my name) that’s so sweet
  • I love that
  • Thank you

 

[nobodylovesme]

you're way too invested/obsessed on her. it's asymmetrical. for your own benefit - calm down

 

[Ruinedbyfaceshape]

Bro wrote a whole paragraph for her to say thank you
She don’t like u nigga

 

[AscendDaily]

you're way too invested/obsessed on her. it's asymmetrical. for your own benefit - calm down

Thanks bro. js she was the only one there for me when i tried to kms

 

[vuki]

Dnr nigga

 

[AscendDaily]

Dnr nigga

Nigga whats the point of responding

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

Just send her a selfie of yourself brooo, works for me

 

[AscendDaily]

Bro wrote a whole paragraph for her to say thank you
She don’t like u nigga

I wrote two

 

[vuki]

Nigga whats the point of responding

Cus i want reps nigga

 

[User_1293]

Just send her a selfie of yourself brooo, works for me

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Yeah bro typ shit

 

[AscendDaily]

Just send her a selfie of yourself brooo, works for me

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i would but im sub 5

 

[vazOkay]

I know i kinda blurted out and ur gonna have to decipher, but i need help (i have time as she doent have her phone till sunday afternoon)

• Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
• • Lily
    
    Me
    • Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. You’re honestly such a kind and genuine person, and it really means a lot to me. When I was going through a tough time, you were always there for me, whether it was listening or just being someone I could talk to.It made such a difference having you there, especially when things felt overwhelming. You’ve always been someone I can rely on, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope you know how much you helped me
    Awhh no worries Sam I like talking to you aswell
• • Me
    
    It’s just I feel like when I talk to you it feels like I’m annoying you and bringing up stuff you don’t want to talk about, I also feel like I make fun of you too much - I don’t mean any of it, just how I engage with people.
• • Lily
    
    Yeah yeah I get that dww
  • It’s only banter
    • 
• • Me
    
    I just wanted to let you know that your one of the best people to be around and no matter what you said I will always be grateful for everything you’ve done for me and I’m sorry I haven’t done enough for you
• • Lily
    
    No no you have dw
    • 
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE IMMEDIATELY
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• YOU CHANGED CHATS TO DELETE AFTER 24 HOURS
• YOU DELETED A SNAP
• YOU DELETED A CHAT
• May 2
• • Me
    
    Idk what happened with the chat changes lwk
  • Bro ur gonna hate me for this but idc I spent ages writing this in notes and I know I already said all that earlier but my brain is just thinking about stuff so you’re getting a part 2 (start writing this at 1:00 so you better agree with me)I feel like I didn’t even say everything properly before, because it’s not just about you being there for me during a tough time—you’re just genuinely one of the most kind, caring and understanding people I know in general. Like it’s in the way you talk to people, how you actually listen, and how you make everyone feel included without even trying.Even just being around you normally, like in everyday situations, makes things better. You’ve got this really calm, positive energy that just makes people feel comfortable and a bit happier, and I don’t think you even realise you do it. It’s such a natural thing about you and it’s honestly one of the reasons I value having you as a friend so much.I also really respect you as a person. The way you carry yourself and treat others says a lot, and it’s something I notice. You’re just properly genuine, and that’s rare.and honestly I really value what we have as friends, like properly. It just feels easy and real, and I wouldn’t want it to be anything else. It’s one of those friendships I genuinely want to keep for a long time because it actually means something to me.anyway yeah this is such a random late night message but I just felt like you should know that our friendship means a lot to me, more than I probably say out loud. I’m really glad we’re friends
• • Lily
    
    awhh (my name) that’s so sweet
  • I love that
  • Thank you

my last relatinoship literally ended because i was like this, trust me, dont be obssessive even if it feels like she'll stop talking to you

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

i would but im sub 5

And there lies your problem. How about you go about fixing that first before you even think of having "crushes"? I mean you clearly have an idea that you should be doing that considering you are on LOOKSMAX dot org so why are you using this forum as a personal diary instead of looksmaxxing?

 

[AscendDaily]

my last relatinoship literally ended because i was like this, trust me, dont be obssessive even if it feels like she'll stop talking to you

yeah i think im just gonna give up as i start every conversation

 

[julde]

yeah i think im just gonna give up as i start every conversation

Hey bro. I have had similar experiences in the past with girls: I send a paragraph or whatever or I compliment them and call them pretty and its always a "awww tysmmm". That just means they dont like you bro. When they respond like that, asymmetrically as another guy said, so with less energy than your messages, it means they dont like you because youre not attractive enough / youre not their type. If they thought you were attractive but you had a bad personality, then they would either not message you at all or all the time. Right now, it looks like your crush is trying to let you down easy by just giving the standard minimum response of gratitude.

Bottom line - She doesn't like you. I was in your exact position and bro, Im telling you, just move on and use it as motivation. I'd say that even just being around her in general (as she is also your friend) will give you motivation to improve yourself because you feel like you want to self improve for her. Don't pursue her romantically to the extent that she knows you have a crush on her. Just keep it in your mind, and that annoyance / anger that you have from not being able to BE with her and just being her friend will drive your self improvement journey. I've been rejected / not reciprocated every single time I went for a girl, and every time I am more improved than the last, so in the future it is bound to happen that I will succeed. Best of luck bro!