i need help with this girl

[Lauren de Graaf]

i have liked this girl for so long, she is literally my type in every way, 2 weeks ago i slayed for the first time and ever since then we have been seeing eachother and hooking up/ doing dating stuff, holding hands cuddling and those like dating kisses, in person she acts like she loves me but over text she is a foid, e.g. delivered but not opened. every time i ask to hang out she most of the time makes an excuse about her parents not letting her or whatever, (we are both 17) it always ends up being her asking me if i can do stuff, i just really hate this dynamic atm as it feels like its a 1 way street. i was an idiot and asked her what are we after the first slay and she said i need to focus on year 12, i feel like things are coming around everytime i see her but then my hopes just get crushed when she is active and im on delivered, i'm like 2nd of her bsfl so there is no way she doesnt see me, we are also lockers next to each other at school so i see her almost everyday.

i just don't understand if she admitted to liking me alot but she wont date nor make much effort to see me

i might be overthinking it rn and making the situation worse then it is but i'm so confused and lost right now and i think it is fucking me up and making me feel shit most of the time

Tren properly isn't helping this rn

dont need some gay niggas saying DNR i lowkey just need advice on what i should do or stop doing

 

[Lamskiiii]

What made u ask that bhai?

 

[hatе]

Drop discord I’ll coach you

 

[Vrowding]

"pregablin"

 

[WhateverItTakes1]

shes probably fucking other dudes

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

What made u ask that bhai?

impulsiveness and the need for answers, i'm just insecure and weird like that

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

"pregablin"

on it already grey

 

[Vrowding]

on it already grey

okay habibi

 

[h1amz]

shes probably fucking other dudes

She probably is, but ur a dooshbag if you say this shit to someone who wants a relationship with someone.

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

Drop discord I’ll coach you

@POPEMOGS

 

[h1amz]

okay habibi

habibti*

 

[WhateverItTakes1]

She probably is, but ur a dooshbag if you say this shit to someone who wants a relationship with someone.

soycuck comment

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Just pull back for a bit and see if she reaches out at all.

It's a decent shit-test to see if she's genuinely interested or not.

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

Just pull back for a bit and see if she reaches out at all.

It's a decent shit-test to see if she's genuinely interested or not.

like stop texting and talking in person or just less frequent?

 

[Vrowding]

habibti*

he literally said he was talking to a girl, ion think this nigga is a lesbian

 

[mohito]

Try giving her less attention and see how that goes. It may help if she feels she could be losing you (considering she genuinely likes u)

 

[Lamskiiii]

impulsiveness and the need for answers, i'm just insecure and weird like that

stop seeing her everyday and trying to make place take a step back let her push up

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

Try giving her less attention and see how that goes. It may help if she feels she could be losing you (considering she genuinely likes u)

thanks x, can always trust you

 

[h1amz]

soycuck comment

nigga you are a fucking incel, you fuck no bitches, and no bitch even wants to look at your ugly ass. Someone asks a question about how to bag a bitch, and your incel brain immediately goes to "oh she's fucking other niggas" yeah nigga suck my dick you pussyless faggot.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

like stop texting and talking in person or just less frequent?

I'd say stopping entirely for a bit and coming up with an convincing excuse is good.

I've used it a few times myself on friends.

I just don't text them. If they still text me then they're decent people. If I see them online and they don't bother to reach out, fuck them.

As for an 'excuse' I've never had to come up with one myself, but you could say something about studies.

 

[Vrowding]

he literally said he was talking to a girl, ion think this nigga is a lesbian

also why would a girl do tren, virilization would deadssa be the death of the bloodline

 

[mohito]

thanks x, can always trust you

Mirin u as always, bro

 

[WhateverItTakes1]

nigga you are a fucking incel, you fuck no bitches, and no bitch even wants to look at your ugly ass. Someone asks a question about how to bag a bitch, and your incel brain immediately goes to "oh she's fucking other niggas" yeah nigga suck my dick you pussyless faggot.

I came in a JB raw stfu soycuck retard. you probably never will

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

I'd say stopping entirely for a bit and coming up with an convincing excuse is good.

I've used it a few times myself on friends.

I just don't text them. If they still text me then they're decent people. If I see them online and they don't bother to reach out, fuck them.

As for an 'excuse' I've never had to come up with one myself, but you could say something about studies.

we are 'meant' to be studying on wednesday should i go with it or make up an excuse

 

[h1amz]

I came in a JB raw stfu soycuck retard. you probably never will

Bro, please go to .is with this bullshit and get off of org.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

we are 'meant' to be studying on wednesday should i go with it or make up an excuse

If you're actually supposed to be studying then I'd say go, but prioritize the studying over her.

If you're actually meeting her just to crack or go on a date, skip it

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Bro, please go to .is with this bullshit and get off of org.

leave the guy be, you're better than arguin with sm pedo online who brags about 'cumming in JBs'

 

[WhateverItTakes1]

Bro, please go to .is with this bullshit and get off of org.

you started it. im just telling you the truth. it turns out assholes can actually get bitches too isnt that crazy no need to be soycuck to get girls

 

[WhateverItTakes1]

leave the guy be, you're better than arguin with sm pedo online who brags about 'cumming in JBs'

JBs = pedo. so fucking braindead

 

[h1amz]

you started it. im just telling you the truth. it turns out assholes can actually get bitches too isnt that crazy no need to be soycuck to get girls

I guess you're right about what you said earlier about her getting fucked, but I only said that was a dooshbag move because that would just make him sad and overthink more. I was never trying to be a soycuck. The truth does hurt, but she probably is fucking other dudes.

 

[WhateverItTakes1]

I guess you're right about what you said earlier about her getting fucked, but I only said that was a dooshbag move because that would just make him sad and overthink more. I was never trying to be a soycuck. The truth does hurt, but she probably is fucking other dudes.

its not even a doosh move bro. he needs that info in his head so he can accurately assess the situation. I dont get why you came at me like that

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

If you're actually supposed to be studying then I'd say go, but prioritize the studying over her.

If you're actually meeting her just to crack or go on a date, skip it

amazing bro thanks so much, might sound gay but i dont see her in a lustful way and thats what im trying to avoid, yes we have done shit but the time was right and it felt natural.

i'm just going to step back like you said and assess the situation from there, if she reaches out and shows compassion should i tell her how im feeling, like what ive said in this post or what should i do?

 

[h1amz]

its not even a doosh move bro. he needs that info in his head so he can accurately assess the situation. I dont get why you came at me like that

I apologize bro, I'm sorry.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

i'm just going to step back like you said and assess the situation from there, if she reaches out and shows compassion should i tell her how im feeling, like what ive said in this post or what should i do?

If she reaches out and shows compassion, then you should go back to acting normally with her.

Just make sure to ease back into giving her attention rather than running back into her arms immediately.

Easing back in as in going from not texting her, to texting her back when she messages you, to reach out to her and planning things once a week, so on and so forth gradually.

This would be to make sure she doesn't just pretend to be into you to get you back and then goes back to leaving you on read and ghosting you all the time.

And I'd recommend not telling her about you being insecure regarding the relationship. It'd show you're too emotionally invested in her, which would not only make you seem lower status in her eyes, but also make you more open to being emotionally manipulated.

Keep in mind I have no experience with romantic relationships myself, so take what I say with a grain of salt

But I hope I managed to help somehow. I wish the best between you two

amazing bro thanks so much

no probs

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

If she reaches out and shows compassion, then you should go back to acting normally with her.

Just make sure to ease back into giving her attention rather than running back into her arms immediately.

Easing back in as in going from not texting her, to texting her back when she messages you, to reach out to her and planning things once a week, so on and so forth gradually.

This would be to make sure she doesn't just pretend to be into you to get you back and then goes back to leaving you on read and ghosting you all the time.

And I'd recommend not telling her about you being insecure regarding the relationship. It'd show you're too emotionally invested in her, which would not only make you seem lower status in her eyes, but also make you more open to being emotionally manipulated.

Keep in mind I have no experience with romantic relationships myself, so take what I say with a grain of salt

But I hope I managed to help somehow. I wish the best between you two


no probs

some of the best advice ive gotten from org bro

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

some of the best advice ive gotten from org bro

even if it's from a grey who's barely been on for a month ?

 

[Renophobeadoobe]

i have liked this girl for so long, she is literally my type in every way, 2 weeks ago i slayed for the first time and ever since then we have been seeing eachother and hooking up/ doing dating stuff, holding hands cuddling and those like dating kisses, in person she acts like she loves me but over text she is a foid, e.g. delivered but not opened. every time i ask to hang out she most of the time makes an excuse about her parents not letting her or whatever, (we are both 17) it always ends up being her asking me if i can do stuff, i just really hate this dynamic atm as it feels like its a 1 way street. i was an idiot and asked her what are we after the first slay and she said i need to focus on year 12, i feel like things are coming around everytime i see her but then my hopes just get crushed when she is active and im on delivered, i'm like 2nd of her bsfl so there is no way she doesnt see me, we are also lockers next to each other at school so i see her almost everyday.

i just don't understand if she admitted to liking me alot but she wont date nor make much effort to see me

i might be overthinking it rn and making the situation worse then it is but i'm so confused and lost right now and i think it is fucking me up and making me feel shit most of the time

Tren properly isn't helping this rn

dont need some gay niggas saying DNR i lowkey just need advice on what i should do or stop doing

It sucks you have to play games but unfortunately that's life my nigga, even chad has to play games

She sounds VERY "avoidant". You should look into attachment types and you'll notice how a lot of her behavior aligns with it. They very much value autonomy (friends, career, etc..) anyone being nice to them or trying to get close, it feels invasive and they just pull back.

This is not your fault at all, I understand why you feel it is, because she's the one PULLING back, so "SURELY I DID SOMETHING WRONG". You didn't nigga keep your self esteem in check

Let her come to you, these types of women are like CATS, they want to come and go as they please, without a LABEL. THAT'S how you treat them. You're not going to chase a stray cat to try and feed them, you let them COME to you. YOU let them initiate everything (even fucking hangouts nigga, calls, etc..)

She's only leaving you on delivered because SHE knows she can. IN her evil foid mind, she knows you're not going anywhere, so you get treated as such.

Next time you crack a girl please pull back a little, she should be chasing you at that point. The dynamic flips after she takes dick.

A relationship with this woman would be very unstable and would only work if you put on an ACT, acting like you don't care, mistreating her, and accepting her entertaining other niggas. I say you just reap the benefits of this situationship and that's it, i'm sorry nigga.

I want you to crack again so HARD advice moving forward, do not call text or anything, she needs SPACE and time to appreciate you and the time yall spent, let her COME to you then appreciate the moment you guys will have.

 

[Renophobeadoobe]

It sucks you have to play games but unfortunately that's life my nigga, even chad has to play games

She sounds VERY "avoidant". You should look into attachment types and you'll notice how a lot of her behavior aligns with it. They very much value autonomy (friends, career, etc..) anyone being nice to them or trying to get close, it feels invasive and they just pull back.

This is not your fault at all, I understand why you feel it is, because she's the one PULLING back, so "SURELY I DID SOMETHING WRONG". You didn't nigga keep your self esteem in check

Let her come to you, these types of women are like CATS, they want to come and go as they please, without a LABEL. THAT'S how you treat them. You're not going to chase a stray cat to try and feed them, you let them COME to you. YOU let them initiate everything (even fucking hangouts nigga, calls, etc..)

She's only leaving you on delivered because SHE knows she can. IN her evil foid mind, she knows you're not going anywhere, so you get treated as such.

Next time you crack a girl please pull back a little, she should be chasing you at that point. The dynamic flips after she takes dick.

A relationship with this woman would be very unstable and would only work if you put on an ACT, acting like you don't care, mistreating her, and accepting her entertaining other niggas. I say you just reap the benefits of this situationship and that's it, i'm sorry nigga.

I want you to crack again so HARD advice moving forward, do not call text or anything, she needs SPACE and time to appreciate you and the time yall spent, let her COME to you then appreciate the moment you guys will have.

I'm rambling off the Vyvanse RN but this is GOLD advice for you nigga

I dated multiple women JUST like the girl you're talking to now. I SWEAR 1:1 clones.

It always ended with the way you got treated, or ME winning (they roles were reversed hard)

THIS is coming from what WORKED for me

KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH LITTLE NIGGA, NOTHING IS YOURS, EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARY,

 

[RichardSpencel]

It sucks you have to play games but unfortunately that's life my nigga, even chad has to play games

She sounds VERY "avoidant". You should look into attachment types and you'll notice how a lot of her behavior aligns with it. They very much value autonomy (friends, career, etc..) anyone being nice to them or trying to get close, it feels invasive and they just pull back.

This is not your fault at all, I understand why you feel it is, because she's the one PULLING back, so "SURELY I DID SOMETHING WRONG". You didn't nigga keep your self esteem in check

Let her come to you, these types of women are like CATS, they want to come and go as they please, without a LABEL. THAT'S how you treat them. You're not going to chase a stray cat to try and feed them, you let them COME to you. YOU let them initiate everything (even fucking hangouts nigga, calls, etc..)

She's only leaving you on delivered because SHE knows she can. IN her evil foid mind, she knows you're not going anywhere, so you get treated as such.

Next time you crack a girl please pull back a little, she should be chasing you at that point. The dynamic flips after she takes dick.

A relationship with this woman would be very unstable and would only work if you put on an ACT, acting like you don't care, mistreating her, and accepting her entertaining other niggas. I say you just reap the benefits of this situationship and that's it, i'm sorry nigga.

I want you to crack again so HARD advice moving forward, do not call text or anything, she needs SPACE and time to appreciate you and the time yall spent, let her COME to you then appreciate the moment you guys will have.

Nice essay

Op you’re an ugly MF that’s what u did wrong

 

[Renophobeadoobe]

Nice essay

Op you’re an ugly MF that’s what u did wrong

Ugly niggas can get consistent pussy too

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

It sucks you have to play games but unfortunately that's life my nigga, even chad has to play games

She sounds VERY "avoidant". You should look into attachment types and you'll notice how a lot of her behavior aligns with it. They very much value autonomy (friends, career, etc..) anyone being nice to them or trying to get close, it feels invasive and they just pull back.

This is not your fault at all, I understand why you feel it is, because she's the one PULLING back, so "SURELY I DID SOMETHING WRONG". You didn't nigga keep your self esteem in check

Let her come to you, these types of women are like CATS, they want to come and go as they please, without a LABEL. THAT'S how you treat them. You're not going to chase a stray cat to try and feed them, you let them COME to you. YOU let them initiate everything (even fucking hangouts nigga, calls, etc..)

She's only leaving you on delivered because SHE knows she can. IN her evil foid mind, she knows you're not going anywhere, so you get treated as such.

Next time you crack a girl please pull back a little, she should be chasing you at that point. The dynamic flips after she takes dick.

A relationship with this woman would be very unstable and would only work if you put on an ACT, acting like you don't care, mistreating her, and accepting her entertaining other niggas. I say you just reap the benefits of this situationship and that's it, i'm sorry nigga.

I want you to crack again so HARD advice moving forward, do not call text or anything, she needs SPACE and time to appreciate you and the time yall spent, let her COME to you then appreciate the moment you guys will have.

Fuck bro thanks so much love you