I NEED HELP

[foidraper398]

I'm not gonna go into detail about it (I DID LAST THREAD BUT IT DIDN'T FUCKING UPLOAD) but in short, I went camping with mine and 3 other families (parents friends and their friends or something like that) there was this cute girl there who's my age, she actually liked me (solely because of how I look) and asked my mum for my number which my mum told me when we were leaving holiday. She messages me, and we've been calling daily (I remember the first time that she called me which was the first time a girl has ever called me I got scared and just didn't answer and then called her back like 20 minutes later) but I mean, it went fine, she's still been asking to call me daily although we don't really talk about much because I'm too autistic to start up a conversation. Normally we would just call and play Roblox but my PC fucking broke over some bs so now we cant do that and the last few calls without haven't something to talk about (Roblox) haven't been the best. Obviously I want a girlfriend, and yes I do like her but the problem is I'm too fucking high inhib to ask her out and I'm scared of what happens after - what if she wants to record tiktoks with me and wants to kiss and shit I'm too fucking high inhib for that and I just cant do it. I don't want to loose another girl over this, I've been asked out so many times (EVEN BY GIRLS THAT I'VE LIKED) and every single time I've just said no because I can NOT talk to girls. What do I do?
Side note - she's only a 20 minute train away from me

 

[Nyrо]

Do you really expect to read this ?

What the hell is wrong with you We also have lives and families. We could do something about our shit genetic. But no this dumbass thinks we gonna read it

 

[punpunboy67]

I'm not gonna go into detail about it (I DID LAST THREAD BUT IT DIDN'T FUCKING UPLOAD) but in short, I went camping with mine and 3 other families (parents friends and their friends or something like that) there was this cute girl there who's my age, she actually liked me (solely because of how I look) and asked my mum for my number which my mum told me when we were leaving holiday. She messages me, and we've been calling daily (I remember the first time that she called me which was the first time a girl has ever called me I got scared and just didn't answer and then called her back like 20 minutes later) but I mean, it went fine, she's still been asking to call me daily although we don't really talk about much because I'm too autistic to start up a conversation. Normally we would just call and play Roblox but my PC fucking broke over some bs so now we cant do that and the last few calls without haven't something to talk about (Roblox) haven't been the best. Obviously I want a girlfriend, and yes I do like her but the problem is I'm too fucking high inhib to ask her out and I'm scared of what happens after - what if she wants to record tiktoks with me and wants to kiss and shit I'm too fucking high inhib for that and I just cant do it. I don't want to loose another girl over this, I've been asked out so many times (EVEN BY GIRLS THAT I'VE LIKED) and every single time I've just said no because I cant NOT talk to girls. What do I do?
Side note - she's only a 20 minute train away from me

Dude the anxiety shit is completely normal I've dated lots of girls and the anxiety doesn't go away, just risk it. If she records it or anything everyone will forget it in 2 weeks. She seems like she really likes you. Go for it.

 

[foidraper398]

Do you really expect to read this ?

What the hell is wrong with you We also have lives and families. We could do something about our shit genetic. But no this dumbass thinks we gonna read it

English please

 

[foidraper398]

Dude the anxiety shit is completely normal I've dated lots of girls and the anxiety doesn't go away, just risk it. If she records it or anything everyone will forget it in 2 weeks. She seems like she really likes you. Go for it.

I appreciate it but I really don't know if I can do it

 

[foidraper398]

Ill probably die alone or jbg

 

[punpunboy67]

I appreciate it but I really don't know if I can do it

A strat I've done is "jokingly" say shit about you guys dating and if she doesn't go along with it drop it and convince her it was a joke and if she goes with it keep going till you have the confidence.

 

[Nyrо]

English please

Hör mal zu du hurensohn jetzt spielen wir aus einem anderen Level

Also foidraper398, bist du behindert, du elendiger Bastard was ist was denkst du überhaupt wer du bist mit einem Drecks Namen, der wirklich jeder auf TikTok hat denkst du bist irgendwie lustig oder so so. Soll doch dir mal wirklich meine Meinung sagen über dich, du bist ein wirklich ein dreckiger Hurensohn sollst mal lieber deinen Dreck Hurensohn Account auf looksmax.org auch löschen du Hurensohn Denkst du wirklich, ich werde mir deinen Drecks Hurensohn Text anschauen nur weil du Probleme hast mit deiner eigenen Cousine wo du Daten willst und ficken willst nur weil du ein Drecks Insel bist ohne Pussy ohne Nix du Bastard denkst du wirklich, dass es mich juckt nein, wirklich also ich weiss nicht was durch einen Kopf geht du Bastard also du bist wahrscheinlich eher ein IQlet also kann ich dir nicht mal helfen.

 

[foidraper398]

A strat I've done is "jokingly" say shit about you guys dating and if she doesn't go along with it drop it and convince her it was a joke and if she goes with it keep going till you have the confidence.

No she's been doing this, I know that she wants to date me but its just that if I ask her out ill have to go out with her and stuff like that, and I cant just block her because we go on holiday together again next year

 

[punpunboy67]

No she's been doing this, I know that she wants to date me but its just that if I ask her out ill have to go out with her and stuff like that, and I cant just block her because we go on holiday together again next year

Why are you scared of hanging out , what could go wrong

 

[foidraper398]

Hör mal zu du hurensohn jetzt spielen wir aus einem anderen Level

Also foidraper398, bist du behindert, du elendiger Bastard was ist was denkst du überhaupt wer du bist mit einem Drecks Namen, der wirklich jeder auf TikTok hat denkst du bist irgendwie lustig oder so so. Soll doch dir mal wirklich meine Meinung sagen über dich, du bist ein wirklich ein dreckiger Hurensohn sollst mal lieber deinen Dreck Hurensohn Account auf looksmax.org auch löschen du Hurensohn Denkst du wirklich, ich werde mir deinen Drecks Hurensohn Text anschauen nur weil du Probleme hast mit deiner eigenen Cousine wo du Daten willst und ficken willst nur weil du ein Drecks Insel bist ohne Pussy ohne Nix du Bastard denkst du wirklich, dass es mich juckt nein, wirklich also ich weiss nicht was durch einen Kopf geht du Bastard also du bist wahrscheinlich eher ein IQlet also kann ich dir nicht mal helfen.

magst du es immer wieder dieselben Wörter zu wiederholen

 

[foidraper398]

Why are you scared of hanging out , what could go wrong

I honestly don't know, I've just never spoken to a girl before and I'm not confident talking. I don't know what it is I just struggle with it and stutter whenever girls try talking to me

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I'm not gonna go into detail about it (I DID LAST THREAD BUT IT DIDN'T FUCKING UPLOAD) but in short, I went camping with mine and 3 other families (parents friends and their friends or something like that) there was this cute girl there who's my age, she actually liked me (solely because of how I look) and asked my mum for my number which my mum told me when we were leaving holiday. She messages me, and we've been calling daily (I remember the first time that she called me which was the first time a girl has ever called me I got scared and just didn't answer and then called her back like 20 minutes later) but I mean, it went fine, she's still been asking to call me daily although we don't really talk about much because I'm too autistic to start up a conversation. Normally we would just call and play Roblox but my PC fucking broke over some bs so now we cant do that and the last few calls without haven't something to talk about (Roblox) haven't been the best. Obviously I want a girlfriend, and yes I do like her but the problem is I'm too fucking high inhib to ask her out and I'm scared of what happens after - what if she wants to record tiktoks with me and wants to kiss and shit I'm too fucking high inhib for that and I just cant do it. I don't want to loose another girl over this, I've been asked out so many times (EVEN BY GIRLS THAT I'VE LIKED) and every single time I've just said no because I can NOT talk to girls. What do I do?
Side note - she's only a 20 minute train away from me

You're gonna have to kiss at some point.

 

[punpunboy67]

I honestly don't know, I've just never spoken to a girl before and I'm not confident talking. I don't know what it is I just struggle with it and stutter whenever girls try talking to me

Explain this to her dude most girls are really empathetic and can help you with this, I'm sure you will get over this one day

 

[foidraper398]

You're gonna have to kiss at some point.

And obviously I want to, I'm just scared that ill get something wrong

 

[Lefty Rankin]

And obviously I want to, I'm just scared that ill get something wrong

Doesn't matter. Kissings not something that matterss fucking up on.

 

[Nyrо]

magst du es immer wieder dieselben Wörter zu wiederholen

Oh mein Gott, hast du recht ich liebe so sehr dich die ganze Zeit Hurensohn zu nennen. Du hast keine Ahnung wie gut es sich anfühlt der Hurensohn es fühlt sich an, als ob das Testosteron durch mein ganzen Körper fliesst und mich einfach beflügelt Also es juckt mich nicht was in deinem Text geschrieben. Hast du Bastard, ob du jetzt deine Mutter fixt oder ob du an deine Cousine fickst. Es juckt mich nicht. Also jetzt lösch einen Drecksack Account und lass mich in Ruhe

 

[foidraper398]

Explain this to her dude most girls are really empathetic and can help you with this, I'm sure you will get over this one day

I don't know she's kind of weird, I'm honestly just mainly doing this for experience. She usually single texts one word answers and just doesn't have a conversation so it makes her look really dry, but then an hour later she'll be flirting and then ask to call me. I don't know what's up with her but if I said this to her she would probably stop liking me and find someone else

 

[foidraper398]

Doesn't matter. Kissings not something that matterss fucking up on.

I guess

 

[punpunboy67]

I don't know she's kind of weird, I'm honestly just mainly doing this for experience. She usually single texts one word answers and just doesn't have a conversation so it makes her look really dry, but then an hour later she'll be flirting and then ask to call me. I don't know what's up with her but if I said this to her she would probably stop liking me and find someone else

Hmm now that I know this you have 2 choices stay friends, let her steer the relationship or test the waters

 

[foidraper398]

Oh mein Gott, hast du recht ich liebe so sehr dich die ganze Zeit Hurensohn zu nennen. Du hast keine Ahnung wie gut es sich anfühlt der Hurensohn es fühlt sich an, als ob das Testosteron durch mein ganzen Körper fliesst und mich einfach beflügelt Also es juckt mich nicht was in deinem Text geschrieben. Hast du Bastard, ob du jetzt deine Mutter fixt oder ob du an deine Cousine fickst. Es juckt mich nicht. Also jetzt lösch einen Drecksack Account und lass mich in Ruhe

Du sprichst wie ein achtjähriges Analphabetenkind, dessen Mutter nein gesagt hat, um ihnen Eis zu besorgen

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I guess

 

[Nyrо]

Du sprichst wie ein achtjähriges Analphabetenkind, dessen Mutter nein gesagt hat, um ihnen Eis zu besorgen

Ja der Grund warum ich so behindert rede ist, weil er währenddessen gerade am spielen bin auf meinem Konsole du Bastard also muss ich mit zwei Personen gleichzeitig reden du Hurensohn also bitte sei ruhig du Drecks Hurensohn nur englisch sprichst du Bastard Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn wie du merkst mag ich das Wort Hurensohn, weil es dich sehr gut beschreibt

 

[foidraper398]

Hmm now that I know this you have 2 choices stay friends, let her steer the relationship or test the waters

That's for the advice, but also the one word answer aren't just like "ok" ill get a "okayyy", "okk" "yeh" "hehehe" but she never usually keeps the conversation going which is quite annoying because it feels like I'm just annoying her and asking her questions all the time

 

[foidraper398]

Hmm now that I know this you have 2 choices stay friends, let her steer the relationship or test the waters

That's for the advice, but also the one word answer aren't just like "ok" ill get a "okayyy", "okk" "yeh" "he

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Mirin

 

[foidraper398]

Ja der Grund warum ich so behindert rede ist, weil er währenddessen gerade am spielen bin auf meinem Konsole du Bastard also muss ich mit zwei Personen gleichzeitig reden du Hurensohn also bitte sei ruhig du Drecks Hurensohn nur englisch sprichst du Bastard Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn Hurensohn wie du merkst mag ich das Wort Hurensohn, weil es dich sehr gut beschreibt

Ich würde nicht sagen, dass du Englisch kannst und es besteht immer die Möglichkeit, später zu antworten

 

[Nyrо]

Ich würde nicht sagen, dass du Englisch kannst und es besteht immer die Möglichkeit, später zu antworten

Nigga i can also roast you in English

It’s just funny to see you translate everything i say like the good boy that you are

 

[punpunboy67]

That's for the advice, but also the one word answer aren't just like "ok" ill get a "okayyy", "okk" "yeh" "hehehe" but she never usually keeps the conversation going which is quite annoying because it feels like I'm just annoying her and asking her questions all the time

Most of the time they do it on purpose because they want to feel wanted, I do it too sometimes, she probably wants your attention and if she doesn't act happy when you give it to her then she doesn't deserve you

 

[foidraper398]

Nigga i can also roast you in English

It’s just funny to see you translate everything i say like the good boy that you are

It takes about two clicks to translate what you say, and my keyboard automatically translates what I type. It takes zero effort

 

[foidraper398]

Most of the time they do it on purpose because they want to feel wanted, I do it too sometimes, she probably wants your attention and if she doesn't act happy when you give it to her then she doesn't deserve you

Thanks you've actually helped me a lot

 

[punpunboy67]

Thanks you've actually helped me a lot

Algood man hope you overcome your anxieties and get a good relationship ^^

 

[manleterdachuaxxwe]

I'm not gonna go into detail about it (I DID LAST THREAD BUT IT DIDN'T FUCKING UPLOAD) but in short, I went camping with mine and 3 other families (parents friends and their friends or something like that) there was this cute girl there who's my age, she actually liked me (solely because of how I look) and asked my mum for my number which my mum told me when we were leaving holiday. She messages me, and we've been calling daily (I remember the first time that she called me which was the first time a girl has ever called me I got scared and just didn't answer and then called her back like 20 minutes later) but I mean, it went fine, she's still been asking to call me daily although we don't really talk about much because I'm too autistic to start up a conversation. Normally we would just call and play Roblox but my PC fucking broke over some bs so now we cant do that and the last few calls without haven't something to talk about (Roblox) haven't been the best. Obviously I want a girlfriend, and yes I do like her but the problem is I'm too fucking high inhib to ask her out and I'm scared of what happens after - what if she wants to record tiktoks with me and wants to kiss and shit I'm too fucking high inhib for that and I just cant do it. I don't want to loose another girl over this, I've been asked out so many times (EVEN BY GIRLS THAT I'VE LIKED) and every single time I've just said no because I can NOT talk to girls. What do I do?
Side note - she's only a 20 minute train away from me

take drugs

 

[foidraper398]

take drugs

I'm too young

 

[jack_femirson]

Чувак, эта тревожность — это совершенно нормально. Я встречался со многими девушками, и тревожность никуда не исчезает, просто рискни. Если она это запишет или что-то в этом роде, все забудут об этом через две недели. Кажется, ты ей действительно нравишься. Дерзай.

Это всего лишь обычная тревога; просто преодолейте это чувство. Удачи.