I need serious help regarding oneitis from experienced members. What do I do?

[BonesAndHarmony]

Never did I think I would ask for help again on this shithole but I don't want to read some bluepilled reply from Quora or Reddit
Here's the thing, I brutally fell in love with a girl from uni. Huge oneitis, like I think about her every minute. We have texted to each other, helped each other with assignments, she' a very kind and friendly person but here's the thing, she looks above average, blondish, feminine looking, 19 years of age (peak smv), half med half central european but not Stacy tier. I know because I saw her Whatsapp profile pic (now she has none).
She mogs me and I have no chance , this is the sad reality. I want to kill myself, the pain is unbearable. How do I cope? Drugs? Or maybe do I have some hope? I want her to stop tormenting me, wish I never saw her
Help a poor nigga in love, I don't know who to talk to

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Why would she want you? It’s not all about what you want you sociopath schizo. She should get far away from you before you chop her head off into pieces.

What kind of autistic response is this
Kys tbh

 

[Pendejo]

Or maybe do I have some hope?

Depends on what you look like.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

If she had a pic and not anymore chances are she didn't have you saved or deleted you from her contact list. Women always use a pic.

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Depends on what you look like.

I think kinda slightly above average, somewhat ethnic looking or med
It's not good enough, she looks fully above average but no Stacy or anything

 

[Pendejo]

I think kinda slightly above average, somewhat ethnic looking or med
It's not good enough, she looks fully above average but no Stacy or anything

Height of both?

 

[´´´´´´´´]

I saw her Whatsapp profile pic (now she has none).

You got blocked. Just move on, you'll never get her.

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

You got blocked. Just move on, you'll never get her.

No? I talked to her yesterday

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Height of both?

Me 5'11
Her idk, I never met her irl but I would guess 5'6 or something like that

 

[ropemax]

Ask her out and update us. If she says no, only then cry yourself to sleep

 

[´´´´´´´´]

No? I talked to her yesterday

Rly? Normally when pfps are gone, it means the person blocked you. Either way, move on. Make moves on another girl

Edit: I saw ropemax's answer damn you dn even shoot your shot? My bad, i didnt read it all but just make sure she will say no before worrying about coping methods

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Rly? Normally when pfps are gone, it means the person blocked you. Either way, move on. Make moves on another girl

No, I didn't get blocked. Not sure why you keep mentioning this.
I don't want another girl, I would rather be an incel

 

[SLA]

You never met this woman in person? Seems like that would be a wise first move? How could you feel this way over someone you never met? Kinda odd.

Best bet is to swing for the fences, when you miss you'll feel awesome in like a week.

 

[Pendejo]

I never met her irl

 

[apocalypse]

Meet her irl theory

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

You never met this woman in person? Seems like that would be a wise first move? How could you feel this way over someone you never met? Kinda odd.

Best bet is to swing for the fences, when you miss you'll feel awesome in like a week.

She was very kind to me tbh, I have a weakness for kind girls. But yeah, my strategy rn is to find a way to meet her (using uni bs as an excuse obv) and then pray to allah

 

[Deleted member 14610]

At one time, I coped with the help of MMOs, it helped me pretty well. True, I had other situations, I never fell in love with anyone, so I don't know if it works in case with oneitis.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Yea he prob got blocked ahahahahaha

OP do you use WhatsApp? If yes I can tell you how you can know whether or not you got blocked.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Rly? Normally when pfps are gone, it means the person blocked you. Either way, move on. Make moves on another girl

Edit: I saw ropemax's answer damn you dn even shoot your shot? My bad, i didnt read it all but just make sure she will say no before worrying about coping methods

Not true, pfp being gone doesn't necessarily mean she blocked you. It can mean she had your number saved and then deleted it or she never had your number saved. You can change your settings in WhatsApp and set who can see your pfp. She must have changed it from Public to My Contacts Only.

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Not true, pfp being gone doesn't necessarily mean she blocked you. It can mean she had your number saved and then deleted it or she never had your number saved. You can change your settings in WhatsApp and set who can see your pfp. She must have changed it from Public to My Contacts Only.

She removed her profile pic 2-3 months ago BEFORE she could even know me, but yeah, your last hypothesis could maybe be true, in that case it's fucking over, I mean if she doesn't even bother saving me as a contact there's no hope

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

She removed her profile pic 2-3 months ago BEFORE she could even know me, but yeah, your last hypothesis could maybe be true, in that case it's fucking over, I mean if she doesn't even bother saving me as a contact, there's no hope

Yeah it's a subtle way to tell if she's interested in you or not. What are your conversations with her like? My friend showed me text messages of two different girls. One girl, the one he is interested in, displays no interest in him and their conversations are friendly. The other girl, who is interested in him, texts way differently. Longer messages, flirty, joking around. Women are like how men talk to women if they like the guy. It's a brutal pill to swallow if she's not talking to you like a man would talk to a woman.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Never did I think I would ask for help again on this shithole but I don't want to read some bluepilled reply from Quora or Reddit
Here's the thing, I brutally fell in love with a girl from uni. Huge oneitis, like I think about her every minute. We have texted to each other, helped each other with assignments, she' a very kind and friendly person but here's the thing, she looks above average, blondish, feminine looking, 19 years of age (peak smv), half med half central european but not Stacy tier. I know because I saw her Whatsapp profile pic (now she has none).
She mogs me and I have no chance , this is the sad reality. I want to kill myself, the pain is unbearable. How do I cope? Drugs? Or maybe do I have some hope? I want her to stop tormenting me, wish I never saw her
Help a poor nigga in love, I don't know who to talk to

Just ask her out

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Yeah it's a subtle way to tell if she's interested in you or not. What are your conversations with her like? My friend showed me text messages of two different girls. One girl, the one he is interested in, displays no interest in him and their conversations are friendly. The other girl, who is interested in him, texts way differently. Longer messages, flirty, joking around. Women are like how men talk to women if they like the guy. It's a brutal pill to swallow if she's not talking to you like a man would talk to a woman.

We can't deduce shit from her way of texting me, she doesn't know what I look like, not sure why she would already be attracted to me?
The whole point of the thread is that IF she saw me irl she probably wouldn't be attracted to me, I'm just speculating but it is the most realistic scenario tbh

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Just ask her out

Just get rejected theory

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Just get rejected theory

yes unironically. Get rejected by her

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

yes unironically. Get rejected by her

Nah, I'm legit curious to see what kind of bf she will get (I have the impression she is single rn), I need to keep her around as long as possible
This is my last cope, curiosity

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Nah, I'm legit curious to see what kind of bf she will get (I have the impression she is single rn), I need to keep her around as long as possible
This is my last cope, curiosity

You're literally acting like a cuckold stop. Just get on with your own life

 

[aBetterMii]

Just be confident

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

You're literally acting like a cuckold stop. Just get on with your own life

I won't

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Low T to have a crush. Make a move or move on. Inb4 “I’ll get rejected”

Girls date down all the time

 

[Deleted member 16381]

Idk, ascend as much as you possibly can and then try

Personally, I wish I never approached mine. Leaving her not knowing mogs getting rejected

 

[Deleted member 16381]

And, if you end up losing contact with her, you won't get over her. You'll continue to create an idealized view of her with what relatively little interaction you had IRL, and you'll look at her pics daily

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

We can't deduce shit from her way of texting me, she doesn't know what I look like, not sure why she would already be attracted to me?
The whole point of the thread is that IF she saw me irl she probably wouldn't be attracted to me, I'm just speculating but it is the most realistic scenario tbh

So then how did you get her number if you don't even talk to her irl?

 

[Yliaster]

Meanwhile this is OP

Imagine looking like this yet still putting some random oneitis on a pedestal.You probably mog all of her orbiters

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Meanwhile this is OP

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Imagine looking like this yet still putting some random oneitis on a pedestal.You probably mog all of her orbiters

That's not me lmao, it's a random Chad on Instagram, just lol, I wish I was that guy

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

So then how did you get her number if you don't even talk to her irl?

Pure coincidence, we have a Whatsapp group, I asked there if someone understood a homework, she replied "no, you?" and then I took the chance to write her in private

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Cant be fully blackpilled if you still get oneitis. Funny cause it was my oneitis who made me go from trp to the bp.

 

[Gonthar]

She mogs me and I have no chance , this is the sad reality. I want to kill myself, the pain is unbearable. How do I cope? Drugs? Or maybe do I have some hope? I want her to stop tormenting me, wish I never saw her
Help a poor nigga in love, I don't know who to talk to

The classic PUA advice is to just go and bang ten other girls, and then re-evaluate your feelings towards her(you must likely won't be obsessed about her anymore).

 

[.👽.]

why every nigga here gets suicidal on some girl they never met or never fucked/kissed wtf is wrong with you

 

[MostGLSlayer]

The classic PUA advice is to just go and bang ten other girls, and then re-evaluate your feelings towards her(you must likely won't be obsessed about her anymore).

Chad only advice

 

[Ryan]

give me her number i will make her love u

 

[Deleted member 9819]

What kind of autistic response is this

ironic

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

why every nigga here gets suicidal on some girl they never met or never fucked/kissed wtf is wrong with you

You are right, that's literally what a normie friend also told me, I'm being overemotional, it's just the fear of getting back into inceldom cage paralyses me

 

[ChristianChad]

This is giga bluepill but blue pill is law tbh

Learn to love yourself

 

[ChristianChad]

Forget about all your life and this autism you learned on here

 

[Clark69]

You've never met her, you haven't seen her in person, she probably changed privacy settings to show her PFP to 'contacts only', and she only knows you as the dude who helps her on assignments(which she probably has 10 other dudes helping with also)

you can keep being delusional and think you have a chance in a girl who barely knows you exist and quite frankly has no interest, or just move on

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

You've never met her, you haven't seen her in person, she probably changed privacy settings to show her PFP to 'contacts only', and she only knows you as the dude who helps her on assignments(which she probably has 10 other dudes helping with also)

you can keep being delusional and think you have a chance in a girl who barely knows you exist and quite frankly has no interest, or just move on

Quite the opposite, she helped me more lmao, she's legitimately kind, but ok, you're still right I guess