I need to start taking my mental-health more seriously.

[MoggerGaston]

Yeah I relate to you by a lot, especially with the abusive pare tenting, the only time I was ever given a taste of what a caring family was, when I was taken away at age 11 where I put into foster care for almost about a year whilst my mum was dealing with a court case about handling custody of the kids and I honestly wish I was adopted by the foster care family because we went on so many trips and places that I couldn't have wished for back at home. My mum would drink alcohol, bully me for how I lacked intelligence in subjects at primary school and etc. Its too long but I went through a lot as a kid.

TLDR: Put in foster care because of my alcoholic mother that used to fight with random ass people

As you said, us sub 5's cannot afford to be in a pit of self-hatred and low self-esteem because the world will not kiss our asses and feel sorry for us, instead it will continue to harm us even maybe more so than before. We need to stay strong and keep our heads held up in this cruel world that pritozie looks that are controlled by our genetics that we simply cannot control.

Stay strong brother. Stay strong, do not let these normies kill you inside. You living is already enough proof to show me that you're strong and capable of continuing further. Do not fall down.

It's good to hear that you can relate and we have a similar vibe.

Us sub5 adults are fighting the entire world at once. People already don't trust us and hold negative opinions about us. When you have low self-esteem and poor mental health on top of that, you are in the killing zone, destined to receive a lot of hate and rejection.

If we were female or good-looking, having poor mental health would instead induce sympathy, help, care, empathy from others.

As a man, there is no such mechanism. You either fight and heal yourself, or kill yourself. Nobody is going to save us.

 

[chaddyboi66]

The blackpill has officially started to damage my mental health. It's becoming worse and worse every day.

this is a feeling I have that no matter how many paragraphs I write I'll never be able to explain... fuck fuck fuck I canr explain myselfff oh my god oh my god I FUCK FUCK FUCK I HATE MY INCEL LIFE CURSES BE UPON THE ONE WHO INTRODUCED ME TO THIS SITE CURSEEEEES...

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I hate being capped

When I morph my pics for social media I do three things: reduce the nose width and change the shape. Make both jaw symmetrical. Reduce forehead. And that's it, the result: not even solid HTN. I mean low HTN with the best lightning possible. If I had to rate myself it would be MTN to high MTN...

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Blackpill is draining

Ever since I discovered the black-pill life is so draining. It's better this way at least now I know the girl I like doesn't give a shit about me. Height is so fucked I am getting heightmogged by girls. Face has 3/10 level recession it looks subhuman and some asymmetry. Nose has a large bump...

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Im so high inhib that i can't even make a proper post....

Im not sure what's wrong with me, but i always am scared that ima say the wrong things and people won't like me. So idk what to post at all. I'm just so fucking attention deprived and I feel like if I went to a psychiatrist or something I wouldn't even be able to do anything besides the 1000...

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Ex-sex worker (35F) feeling like the internet has lied to me about my dating prospects. Need a dose of truth.

Even though the OP is telling these retarded redditors that they're wrong the comments are still full of coping cunts crying WHY SHOULD MEN CARE ABOUT YOUR PAST She specifically says she wants a clean cut prefessional guy thats her age loooooooool https://archive.fo/5jpI7 Yeah so putting...

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[Ci-Sphere]

It's good to hear that you can relate and we have a similar vibe.

Us sub5 adults are fighting the entire world at once. People already don't trust us and hold negative opinions about us. When you have low self-esteem and poor mental health on top of that, you are in the killing zone, destined to receive a lot of hate and rejection.

If we were female or good-looking, having poor mental health would instead induce sympathy, help, care, empathy from others.

As a man, there is no such mechanism. You either fight and heal yourself, or kill yourself. Nobody is going to save us.

So true, so true, I remember how I tried to seek empathy from others but instead I was received with backflash and being made fun of. Nobody cares about ugly looking men that are in a state of depression. You quote: "You either fight and heal yourself, or kill yourself. Nobody is going to save us." is very inspiring to me.

Now, I've left social media and all I am trying to do is maximise what I can about my looks with my dogshit genetics and hopefully in the future I live a life of peace where I am just by myself.

Goodluck to you with your mental state and to others who can relate, we're always going to be 2nd class citizens to the world but we do what we can.

 

[Primalsplit]

Your mental health would be restored if only you've had done what I asked you to.

 

[Rojda Lipa]

'just let go of your past bro'
16+ years of traumatic childhood experiences aren't cured by 2 sentences and an instagram vid.

I don't think you realize at all what I am talking about.

It will never go.

 

[Pikabro]

Why are you blaming me? Like I am choosing to let this hold me back, consciously?! what the fuck man.

It has made me feel like i am a worthless subhuman. I never feel good enough, worthy of a good life. Because of the way my parents have treated me my entire childhood on top of being bullied by my peers.

At least you semi ascended

 

[MoggerGaston]

Brutal song about this shit. I feel so hopeless and lost.

At least you semi ascended

There never was any. It never changed the brutal course my life was heading whatsoever.

 

[ivan.kuk]

This forum focuses too little on these aspect of ascension

 

[Occultcel]

I have never met a person who has had it as bad as me before in my life.

Psychiatrists have told me, that after hearing my story, they were surprised I wasn't doing much worse. I am still capable of working a job, staying out of trouble with the law, am not totally controlled by substance-abuse, and so on.

People with decades of experience with people like me, have told me that I am hanging on relatively well.

I can't take your personal opinion seriously. Just another personal attack blaming me for my issues.

Do lots Magic Mushrooms and go to church

 

[Olivecel]

Good mental health=good results in life. Good results in life=good looks.
I recently got a decent career. Thought that would make my mental health better. It did. But im still depressed and socially awkward around people because im not confident in how I look. I’m unattractive and this affects my mental health deeply.

 

[ivan.kuk]

Good mental health=good results in life. Good results in life=good looks.
I recently got a decent career. Thought that would make my mental health better. It did. But im still depressed and socially awkward around people because im not confident in how I look. I’m unattractive and this affects my mental health deeply.

I'm decently attractive, but still battling with mentalceldom my whole life.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Good results in life=good looks.

Good looks are genetic

 

[Krisis]

I don't even really know how to change my mental-state either. I know I can't change my past, so how do I change my entire personality which formed out of a subhuman past?

You can't change your past, but you can change how you perceive it. For one thing, you shouldn't be hard on yourself for who you once were. You've been through a lot, and so much of where we end up in the earliest stages of our lives has to do with factors outside of our control. And you can't fundamentally change yourself; the only option is acceptance. Be easier on yourself.

Regarding the people that bullied you, they shouldn't occupy any sort of space in your mind. They didn't know you; they probably never even tried to get to know you; they chose to pick on you for superficial reasons. They don't matter.

You've been through a lot, and I know it's easier said than done, but once you make significant progress in rationalizing your past, as opposed to irrationally letting it consume you, the path towards healing, towards growth becomes much less difficult.

 

[R@m@]

Childhood trauma is fucked, we cant handle those emotions at that moment then it will carry over throught life and we think thats normal because youve built your entire persona around it

Its hard to let go of ideas/emotions your subconscious absorved during the first 10 years of life, thats like the baseline of the psyche

 

[ivan.kuk]

Childhood trauma is fucked, we cant handle those emotions at that moment then it will carry over throught life and we think thats normal because youve built your entire persona around it

Its hard to let go of ideas/emotions your subconscious absorved during the first 10 years of life, thats like the baseline of the psyche

Very well put mirin

 

[Olivecel]

Good looks are genetic

Yes and no. Genetics determinate your baseline but your genetic potential can always either be maxxed or downgraded depending on your lifestyle and how much you care about looks.