I need to stop rotting and start living life (no matter how shit it is)

[Deleted member 15899]

how im failing as a social being

- Being in my room studying online college (all my high school friends went to colleges in complete different states), Ive lost all social skills starting in ground zero

- Being slightly overweight

- I go out once a month


Im going to start living life no matter how ugly and fat I am right now, Life isn't about being perfect its about the good the bad the happy and sad

Its the friendships we make




Sometimes you're gonna have to lose
it isn't about how fast I get there
it isn't about what's waiting on the other side, It's the climb




hope this motivates someone

 

[Grindr God]

it's more efficient to work and just pay someone to do your college courses.

When I was a salesman for Pepsi... when I worked a 6th day it was 350 dollars.

my time was more valuable to pay someone to do the work versus do it myself.

 

[subhuman incel]

dont measure your value on how many friends or how many slays you can do, or else you will be miserable especially if you are ugly

 

[subhuman incel]

one thing i have learned if life its ok to be a loner, and its ok not to be liked or loved by people, the most important part is that you believe in yourself and follow your own path, dont listen to other people opinion.

 

[Deleted member 15899]

dont measure your value on how many friends or how many slays you can do, or else you will be miserable especially if you are ugly

im not ugly im just chubby and haven't leanmaxxed, if I do that I could be a 7/10

 

[Deleted member 15899]

one thing i have learned if life its ok to be a loner, and its ok not to be liked or loved by people, the most important part is that you believe in yourself and follow your own path, dont listen to other people opinion.

my life will never be fulfilled if I don't have a social life. Im not happy being a loner

 

[subhuman incel]

im not ugly im just chubby and haven't leanmaxxed, if I do that I could be a 7/10

i will give you some advive which helped me.
1. grind your ass off every day and work as hard as you can
2. dont care about other peoples opinion
3. make sure you are healthy physically and mentally. make your you eat a clean diet, regular exercise and sleep enough, and become mentally stable and strong

 

[Deleted member 15899]

i will give you some advive which helped me.
1. grind your ass off every day and work as hard as you can
2. dont care about other peoples opinion
3. make sure you are healthy physically and mentally. make your you eat a clean diet, regular exercise and sleep enough, and become mentally stable and strong

thanks for the advice, appreciate it

 

[subhuman incel]

my life will never be fulfilled if I don't have a social life. Im not happy being a loner

im not saying you can’t socialize, im just saying you cant get disappointed if people dont wanna hang around you or girls font like you. some things are out of your control.

 

[Deleted member 16616]

you sound gay

 

[NotoriousLoser]

For me the longest time without going out was 6 or 7 months. At that time at most I was carrying out the garbage and looking at the mail, no shopping, no buying groceries (everything was done online), plus I was unemployed = zero contact with people.