I never understood the meaning of “this is not who you are”

[Dr. Mog]

If I see a gringo pretending to be black, it’s right to call out “that ain’t you”. If you see a fake ass moneymaxxer fraudist funding designer from his grandma’s life insurance and pension money its right to call out “you ain’t all about that life”.

But that isn’t the case I’m discussing here. One main thing about statusmaxxing is ‘changing’ into whom you wanna be. The phrase “this is not who you are” usually isn’t about deep truth. It’s shorthand for “I don’t recognize you like this” or “this clashes with the version of you I’m comfortable with.”

Such a cope and an undermining phrase. I used to have friends before whom I used to pick and drop all the way right from their home for clubs and shit, I even used to go out of my way at times to give rides or company here and there. When you realise the same energy isn’t being reciprocated, you adapt, you act on it, you shed skins and you stop making favours which they aren’t willing to do it for you. Normoids are quick in calling this personality shift as “fake and pretending to be someone else” while it was just my act of self respect from within. I’m dealing with better circles now ever since and they too know I never chased.

TLDR:-
Personality is fluid. When someone says “that’s not who you are,” they’re really saying: “You’re breaking my idea of you.” In a case like this you do not need to explain yourself and moreover never flinch.

 

[hax]

nobody knows you more than yourself

 

[vincentzygo]

Personality is fluid

nah its molded

 

[Wexilarious]

Some people don't change, some get worse, some get better, depending on their choices

 

[Dr. Mog]

nah its molded

It’s molded only in a broad perspective where there is a major shift in a person influenced by something externally.

I said fluid because at different circumstances fluid adapts, you’d rather flow than harden at times.

 

[Askeladd93270]

Shitskin