ForeverDawn
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Im 18.
I always hated my dad, he is a pussy that acts tough only around his family, I believe many can relate.
The only memories I have from my childhood is him beating my mom up and trying to choke her to death.
But im already 18 right, I have a sister who is 24 you would think that my dad would stop acting like this around us… nope
3 days ago he got drunk and hit my mom once again, even after that I truly wanted to have a dad around me, I didn’t give up on him. After they argued and he hit her i sat outside with him and cried, I believed maybe in a small way he is right in this argument or whatever, he can’t be the problem right?
Next day my mom told me all the things he had been doing when I was a kid which I didn’t remember .
Basically long story short he cheated with my mom multiple times and abused her when I was little and helpless.
So yesterday I wake up to work and my dad wakes up around the same time as me, he had sent me a message asking to sleep in my room because of the argument with my mom, of course i let him , wished him a goodnight and thought everything was fine, that morning he comes into my room screaming “thats it no more friends no more going out , youre done” what happened was he searched through my closet and through my pockets when he was in my room, he found my grinder and ocb papers.
Thats when I realised that he is not my dad, he is literally my enemy.
I was fuming while he was still screaming at me, im not the type of kid to argue and scream in these situations, but it hurt me so much that he would do something like this to the only person that loved him. While we are arguing and screaming at each other, I just said “fuck” not cussing at him or anyone else, just “fuck”. He slapped me with all his strength, i didnt even feel his slap and from my anger I was telling him to slap me and hit me again, he slapped me 2 more times and hit me in the head with a slipper .
Thats when I thought that I had enough, I pushed my mom away Whi was between us trying to fix everything and hit him with twice with my right hand genuinely praying that he would fall and die right there, unfortunately that didnt happen, he didn’t hit me after that because as I said earlier he is a pussy, he ran off saying that he will call the police on me and put me in jail
(za is illegal in my country)
I haven’t talked to him since.
Many of you might think that im in the wrong, my main problem is that he had no part in my childhood , my mom raised me by herself just like my sister.
He expects respect that he doesn’t deserve and NOW THAT IM 18 wants to act like a father.
Next time it will be more than 2 hits, i will keep you updated.
I always hated my dad, he is a pussy that acts tough only around his family, I believe many can relate.
The only memories I have from my childhood is him beating my mom up and trying to choke her to death.
But im already 18 right, I have a sister who is 24 you would think that my dad would stop acting like this around us… nope
3 days ago he got drunk and hit my mom once again, even after that I truly wanted to have a dad around me, I didn’t give up on him. After they argued and he hit her i sat outside with him and cried, I believed maybe in a small way he is right in this argument or whatever, he can’t be the problem right?
Next day my mom told me all the things he had been doing when I was a kid which I didn’t remember .
Basically long story short he cheated with my mom multiple times and abused her when I was little and helpless.
So yesterday I wake up to work and my dad wakes up around the same time as me, he had sent me a message asking to sleep in my room because of the argument with my mom, of course i let him , wished him a goodnight and thought everything was fine, that morning he comes into my room screaming “thats it no more friends no more going out , youre done” what happened was he searched through my closet and through my pockets when he was in my room, he found my grinder and ocb papers.
Thats when I realised that he is not my dad, he is literally my enemy.
I was fuming while he was still screaming at me, im not the type of kid to argue and scream in these situations, but it hurt me so much that he would do something like this to the only person that loved him. While we are arguing and screaming at each other, I just said “fuck” not cussing at him or anyone else, just “fuck”. He slapped me with all his strength, i didnt even feel his slap and from my anger I was telling him to slap me and hit me again, he slapped me 2 more times and hit me in the head with a slipper .
Thats when I thought that I had enough, I pushed my mom away Whi was between us trying to fix everything and hit him with twice with my right hand genuinely praying that he would fall and die right there, unfortunately that didnt happen, he didn’t hit me after that because as I said earlier he is a pussy, he ran off saying that he will call the police on me and put me in jail
(za is illegal in my country)I haven’t talked to him since.
Many of you might think that im in the wrong, my main problem is that he had no part in my childhood , my mom raised me by herself just like my sister.
He expects respect that he doesn’t deserve and NOW THAT IM 18 wants to act like a father.
Next time it will be more than 2 hits, i will keep you updated.
