I realize that I’m ugly intellectually but feel/act as if I’m not

[Deleted member 1209]

90% of my internal dialogue consists of “I’m ugly im ugly im ugly” and yet I still act “cool” and feel like the center of attention.

It’s like I subconsciously assume women find me attractive (even after being rejected by them, lol) and just act super aloof/avoidant so that i won’t be proven wrong. I’m an extremely vain, delusional person

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Show us pics ffs

 

[Petsmart]

 

[Deleted member 2933]

I was always like that

 

[GenericChad1444]

it's natural, coping with subhumanity isn't an easy thing to accept

 

[Deleted member 2352]

I was always like that

But you are very handsome

 

[Deleted member 685]

But you are very handsome

Show pics

 

[Bewusst]

Do you just ACT cool/confident or do you also feel like that?

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Show pics

Ask him bra he is really cute

 

[fobos]

You have to act according to how you look, otherwise you come of cringy

 

[CopingCel]

You have to act according to how you look, otherwise you come of cringy

Gigachad can rape children without coming of cringey, though.

 

[Bewusst]

You have to act according to how you look, otherwise you come of cringy

That's very sadly true. Unless you dgaf about what others think of you ofc. Acting differently than you feel like only to match your physical appearance will drag you down even further emotionally, though. I realized that if you're ugly it doesn't really matter what you do because ppl won't like and will judge you anyway so I'm only making myself feel worse. It won't change anything to try to meet other's expectations. It's best to stop caring about other's expectations. I don't live to please them.

 

[Deleted member 2745]

 

[JustTrynaGrow]

You have to act according to how you look, otherwise you come of cringy

so fucking sad that this guy is speaking facts

 

[fobos]

That's very sadly true. Unless you dgaf about what others think of you ofc. Acting differently than you feel like only to match your physical appearance will drag you down even further emotionally, though. I realized that if you're ugly it doesn't really matter what you do because ppl won't like and will judge you anyway so I'm only making myself feel worse. It won't change anything to try to meet other's expectations. It's best to stop caring about other's expectations. I don't live to please them.

Easier said than done. Everyone cares about other's opinions.

 

[JustTrynaGrow]

Easier said than done. Everyone cares about other's opinions.

I really don't if I don't know them and wont come across them again ie they're not in my school or something.
when I'm in the city I love trolling random people I don't know

 

[Deleted member 1209]

Do you just ACT cool/confident or do you also feel like that?

I feel it a lot of the time

 

[2peasinapod]

You are around a 4 on a global scale, really good rating considering your unfortunate phenotype

 

[turkproducer]

I do this too, good cope

 

[Deleted member 1209]

You are around a 4 on a global scale, really good rating considering your unfortunate phenotype

thats pretty terrible

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Deleted member 2426]

it's natural, coping with subhumanity isn't an easy thing to accept

 

[quinn24]

i am very introverted probably since i am ugly

 

[DarknLost]

 

[SikKunt]