I realized that the nt pill is cope

[Deleted member 13787]

I used to think my lack of social connections was due to high inhibition, thus not establishing any connections. But if you think about it, theyre established by a person approaching someone else.

This means that, for every connection established by approaching, there is another one established by getting approached (from the other person's point of view). So roughly half of people's connections are established by getting approached. Even if you have infinite inhib, you should at least have half of the normal amount of connections through getting approached, assuming you have average APPROACHABLITY.

What this tells me, is that being approachable matters just as much as being able to approach. Since I literally never get approached, I must have bottom tier approachablity. The looks pill still stands alive fellas, nt copers have been deboonked.

I must improve my looks now and get half of the normal amount of social connections that a normie has. Which is more than enough for me.

 

[Sprinkles]

I was never approachable

i look too dark triad with an aspie stare

ppl are always afraid of me

 

[Deleted member 13787]

I was never approachable

i look too dark triad with an aspie stare

ppl are always afraid of me

Over for dark triad copers

 

[MoggerGaston]

Good theory.

If you are the guy that stands alone at a party/club/gathering. It's only half your fault.
Half the time you should've been approached and initiated into another group, but you aren't, because you don't have the looks.

Looks go much further though, since they also dictate how often your approach will be seen as positive by the person being approached. Especially approaching women, not even with a sexual/romantic objective in mind, I've been rejected outright so many times. Women don't even want to socialize with ugly men like myself.

Brutal.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Good theory.

If you are the guy that stands alone at a party/club/gathering. It's only half your fault.
Half the time you should've been approached and initiated into another group, but you aren't, because you don't have the looks.

Looks go much further though, since they also dictate how often your approach will be seen as positive by the person being approached. Especially approaching women, not even with a sexual/romantic objective in mind, I've been rejected outright so many times. Women don't even want to socialize with ugly men like myself.

Brutal.

Yeah, not to mention getting approached will often mean the connection is more genuine from the other person

 

[Deleted member 24444]

Also moneymax bhai

 

[Bashan]

Are you ugly?

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Are you ugly?

LTN fatcel, prolly htn with leanmaxxing and skinmaxxing

 

[Deleted member 17531]

This makes sense tbh but a lot of people don't even have the drive to put themselves in situations where they could be approached to establish connections
I know I could probably have a very good social life if I tried but I'm literally only interested in doing things by myself

 

[Bashan]

LTN fatcel, prolly htn with leanmaxxing and skinmaxxing

Subhuman Balkan dishes with tons of fat and simple sugars, brutal. They're so easy to eat too you don't notice it.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Bumo

 

[Deleted member 14693]

LTN fatcel, prolly htn with leanmaxxing and skinmaxxing

Joined: May 3, 2021

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Joined: May 3, 2021

I've been trying since summer of 2019

 

[Deleted member 16474]

I was never approachable

i look too dark triad with an aspie stare

ppl are always afraid of me

Just look friendly and approachable

young women on reddit gaslight me harder than @Biggdink on this site

 

[Deleted member 19174]

I still think I’m too high inhib and I need to start putting myself in better situations.

 

[Deleted member 22099]

LTN fatcel, prolly htn with leanmaxxing and skinmaxxing

Stop being fat fr brah it rots your brain matter

 

[CoconutCream]

I used to think my lack of social connections was due to high inhibition, thus not establishing any connections. But if you think about it, theyre established by a person approaching someone else.

This means that, for every connection established by approaching, there is another one established by getting approached (from the other person's point of view). So roughly half of people's connections are established by getting approached. Even if you have infinite inhib, you should at least have half of the normal amount of connections through getting approached, assuming you have average APPROACHABLITY.

What this tells me, is that being approachable matters just as much as being able to approach. Since I literally never get approached, I must have bottom tier approachablity. The looks pill still stands alive fellas, nt copers have been deboonked.

I must improve my looks now and get half of the normal amount of social connections that a normie has. Which is more than enough for me.

If you got approached, how are you going to hold a conversation with low nt plus High inhibition? Anyway, looks are still important though.

 

[Deleted member 23359]

you are a fat somali don't bother with looksmaxing

its was over from the start

 

[Deleted member 13787]

you are a fat somali don't bother with looksmaxing

its was over from the start

 

[Deleted member 23359]

 

[Deleted member 13787]

If you got approached, how are you going to hold a conversation with low nt plus High inhibition? Anyway, looks are still important though.

im fine with holding a conversation. literally everybody is. the cartoonish depiction of stuttering and not being able to utter a word doesnt exist irl

 

[JovenCansao]

Always wondered the same thing. Why do I always need to be the one approaching? Even when trying to make friends.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Water. NT itself doesn’t really matter. Socialising is about LMS and low inhib not muh social skills. Most people are kind of awkward especially in the digitalised online era anyway

 

[MoggerGaston]

Water. NT itself doesn’t really matter. Socialising is about LMS and low inhib not muh social skills. Most people are kind of awkward especially in the digitalised online era anyway

What people mean with NT is that you look NT.

You look like you could be the highschool heart-rob in a romance drama.
You look like you could be the adventurer in an Indiana-Jones type story with the girl falling in love with him at the end.
You look like you could be the guy that saves the planet from aliens in Aliens Vs Trump Part 2.

If you don't look like you could be that guy.... then it's over for you.

Take me for example. I've been told I look like I could be the villain in an action movie. Which is a brutal failo. non-NT

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

Always wondered the same thing. Why do I always need to be the one approaching? Even when trying to make friends.

I've noticed the same with many people before.

Theres this guy I know who would never ever message me to ask me how I'm getting on or if we want to make plans etc

It was always me that had to arrange meeting up and hanging out. I stopped contact with him because he clearly felt he was above me even though he was a fucking outcast. So ridiculous tbh.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Another autistic thread to gaslight incels, Mr clouder????

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Most non nt people are ugly

 

[Deleted member 22063]

It's so obvious when you've been passively excluded. Like if you're in a group and respond to someone, they'll ignore you because they wanted the attention of someone else.

I think normies are quite good at scoping out other normies or really people they'd want to be seen with.

 

[mogger123]

Non nt cope. People tend to only approach those who a) they think there is a decent chance would make the approach if they didn't themselves and b) are likely to reciprocate

 

[Zeruel]

I used to think my lack of social connections was due to high inhibition, thus not establishing any connections. But if you think about it, theyre established by a person approaching someone else.

This means that, for every connection established by approaching, there is another one established by getting approached (from the other person's point of view). So roughly half of people's connections are established by getting approached. Even if you have infinite inhib, you should at least have half of the normal amount of connections through getting approached, assuming you have average APPROACHABLITY.

What this tells me, is that being approachable matters just as much as being able to approach. Since I literally never get approached, I must have bottom tier approachablity. The looks pill still stands alive fellas, nt copers have been deboonked.

I must improve my looks now and get half of the normal amount of social connections that a normie has. Which is more than enough for me.

True. My mother tells me i look serious and unapproachable like Richard Ramirez and that’s why i am incel.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

those who a) they think there is a decent chance would make the approach if they didn't themselves and b) are likely to reciprocate

what is that based on, if the approach is yet to happen?

 

[Zeruel]

LTN fatcel, prolly htn with leanmaxxing and skinmaxxing

I am a borderline anorexic with a south Italian or Indian looking pheno and i also receive blood transfusions every 2 weeks so my skin color changes from darkish to pale as a piss colored corpse. srs

 

[Deleted member 13787]

I am a borderline anorexic with a south Italian or Indian looking pheno and i also receive blood transfusions every 2 weeks so my skin color changes from darkish to pale as a piss colored corpse. srs

why do you receive blood transfusions so often

 

[mogger123]

what is that based on, if the approach is yet to happen?

well that depends if you are acquaintances or not

if they know literally nothing about you then it is primarily body language and positioning. yes, looks are a factor. but it's not just attractive = approach. people tend to prefer to stick within social cliques and look for those it is easy for them to associate with. the way you dress is probably just as important as your facial features, for example

 

[Zeruel]

why do you receive blood transfusions so often

I have an anemic, hereditary blood disorder called Thallassemia and there’s different forms of it and my variation is called “beta major”

i could go on about this but i talked about this subject here

I’m at the hospital right now

Waiting for the nurse to bring my blood bag so they can begin the blood transfusion. Today is nice, i got free candy cuz other patients are having a birthday today. When the blood comes imma nap for hours. Life is good aha

looksmax.org

 

[Deleted member 13787]

well that depends if you are acquaintances or not

if they know literally nothing about you then it is primarily body language and positioning. yes, looks are a factor. but it's not just attractive = approach. people tend to prefer to stick within social cliques and look for those it is easy for them to associate with. the way you dress is probably just as important as your facial features

ah
so if im in a high school class where i have in the beginning established myself as a sigma lone wolf im not gonna get approached at all anymore?
maybe i will get approached in a different setting like university or work

 

[mogger123]

ah
so if im in a high school class where i have in the beginning established myself as a sigma lone wolf im not gonna get approached at all anymore?
maybe i will get approached in a different setting like university or work

yes

 

[Tony]

you are a fat somali don't bother with looksmaxing

its was over from the start

 

[Deleted member 23359]

yall on ma dick

 

[Mastermind]

It's cope as in you need to embrace it if you want the slightest chance without having an attractive exterior
It IS compensating by definition

 

[HighClassMaxing]

good morning eeeaayyyeeeaaaaah (doo doo doo doot doot) good morning, On this day we become legendary

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

I only go outside on special occasions, obER

 

[Deleted member 17872]

NT = low neuroticism + low introversion

Which is as important as looks

 

[Deleted member 13787]

NT = low neuroticism + low introversion

Which is as important as looks

introversion is a product

 

[Deleted member 17872]

introversion is a product

Introversion is subhumanity

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Introversion is subhumanity

introversion = anxiety
you get constant anxiety around other people so in the end your brain is busted
introverts still crave social interaction

 

[Deleted member 17872]

introverts still crave social interaction

Not really when i was introverted i wanted to be a recluse. And despised social interaction. Never desired it.

Introversion is unability to handle high simulation settings. You may crave or not crave it. It’s just unability to handle high simulation

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Not really when i was introverted i wanted to be a recluse. And despised social interaction. Never desired it.

Introversion is unability to handle high simulation settings. You may crave or not crave it. It’s just unability to handle high simulation

yeah, its anxiety
i used to cope with muh im introverted and now im mentally crippled

 

[Deleted member 17872]

yeah, its anxiety
i used to cope with muh im introverted and now im mentally crippled

Thankfully i have become less introverted over time. I used to have anxiety also it’s less now.

I still don’t know if it’s anxiety because i know some successfull socially capable introverts.

Imo

Shyness is a neutral trait. It can be positive and negative depending on the people.

Introvertness is generally negative but can be worked around.

Anxiety is horrible and unless minimized to acceptable level. Almost over tier.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Thankfully i have become less introverted over time. I used to have anxiety also it’s less now.

I still don’t know if it’s anxiety because i know some successfull socially capable introverts.

Imo

Shyness is a neutral trait. It can be positive and negative depending on the people.

Introvertness is generally negative but can be worked around.

Anxiety is horrible and unless minimized to acceptable level. Almost over tier.

spending more time alone = more anxiety
high iq = more susceptible to anxiety