I realized that the nt pill is cope

[Deleted member 17872]

spending more time alone = more anxiety
high iq = more susceptible to anxiety

There is some correlation between high iq and anxiety but i know many high iq people who are extrvoterted, loud and confident.

 

[Deleted member 13787]

There is some correlation between high iq and anxiety but i know many high iq people who are extrvoterted, loud and confident.

yeah if u interact a lot with ppl and youre high iq you will become a god, you will read people to the t

 

[AspiringMogger]

I used to think my lack of social connections was due to high inhibition, thus not establishing any connections. But if you think about it, theyre established by a person approaching someone else.

This means that, for every connection established by approaching, there is another one established by getting approached (from the other person's point of view). So roughly half of people's connections are established by getting approached. Even if you have infinite inhib, you should at least have half of the normal amount of connections through getting approached, assuming you have average APPROACHABLITY.

What this tells me, is that being approachable matters just as much as being able to approach. Since I literally never get approached, I must have bottom tier approachablity. The looks pill still stands alive fellas, nt copers have been deboonked.

I must improve my looks now and get half of the normal amount of social connections that a normie has. Which is more than enough for me.

To spring off this idea, have you ever been in a bad mood where a stranger approached you and you thought to yourself “fuck off”. Greeting people who approach you with a frown can make them leave and greeting people with a smile can make them stay. Being NT is also largely about being open and utilising “maybe” situations to form some sort of connection. Or that’s at least what I think.

 

[Lawton88]

I used to think my lack of social connections was due to high inhibition, thus not establishing any connections. But if you think about it, theyre established by a person approaching someone else.

This means that, for every connection established by approaching, there is another one established by getting approached (from the other person's point of view). So roughly half of people's connections are established by getting approached. Even if you have infinite inhib, you should at least have half of the normal amount of connections through getting approached, assuming you have average APPROACHABLITY.

What this tells me, is that being approachable matters just as much as being able to approach. Since I literally never get approached, I must have bottom tier approachablity. The looks pill still stands alive fellas, nt copers have been deboonked.

I must improve my looks now and get half of the normal amount of social connections that a normie has. Which is more than enough for me.

Yep females usually wont approach what they consider undesirable males if they don't know them already.

 

[fukmylyf]

you're right that 50% is on other people. But approachability is also determined by body language, the way you dress, how you speak, your interests, etc.