I run extremely aggressive game at bars and clubs

[Deleted member 14274]

Now that I have improved my looks via SSL game (steroids and shoe lifts) I am running super aggressive game at bars and clubs.

When I approach a girl I will put my arm around her, bring her head into me, and start talking into her ear. I will start stroking her hair and make fun of her a bit and just make basic small talk. Always high energy and try to hype girls up. I come off as a complete meat head but I think being low IQ is actually an advantage in these environments compared to nice guys that are scared to get physical and don’t look good.

My game seems to work well on girls that are very attracted to me but not so well on girls that have medium attraction and are more shy/intelligent. Any guys with night game experience have thoughts? What seems to work? My goal is to get laid atleast once a week going out 2x a week. I am still early into my steroid cycle so I have lots of gains to be made. Right now I’m able to pull a girl maybe once every 3 nights or so but I want to get better. Also considering light brown contacts and jaw implants to further improve my looks.

 

[Deleted member 756]

How would you rate yourself

 

[Deleted member 14274]

How would you rate yourself

Tall and jacked with HTN face

 

[Deleted member 756]

Tall and jacked with HTN face

So chad

 

[Deleted member 14274]

So chad

Yes compared to guys in bars and clubs but not Chad for PSL standard.

 

[Deleted member 756]

Yes compared to guys in bars and clubs but not Chad for PSL standard.

Are you whitev

 

[Deleted member 14274]

So chad

At bars I notice a lot of other guys I’d consider chads getting blown out by girls. Once your looks are good game also matters and the biggest problem I’ve run into is being cockblocked by the girls less attractive friends.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Are you whitev

No Kurdish but look racially ambiguous

 

[piscicide]

What country are you in

 

[Booker]

Being jacked is a big plus. When i go to a club im always the best built guy and everyone respects me.
I noticed when you are jacked and somewhat intimidating you can run be both aggressive and chill and both can work. When you are aggressive she'll accept it because you are intimidating. When you are chill and nice it works too because "oh that brutish looking guy is so cute i love him".
Being jacked (like really jacked) means high status and respect from both guys and girls any second of the day without even trying. I dont need to do anything. I just exist in a nightclub setting, dont behave like an idiot and just have status and respect. I approach girls, they take me serious from the first second on.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Being jacked is a big plus. When i go to a club im always the best built guy and everyone respects me.
I noticed when you are jacked and somewhat intimidating you can run be both aggressive and chill and both can work. When you are aggressive she'll accept it because you are intimidating. When you are chill and nice it works too because "oh that brutish looking guy is so cute i love him".
Being jacked (like really jacked) means high status and respect from both guys and girls any second of the day without even trying. I dont need to do anything. I just exist in a nightclub setting, dont behave like an idiot and just have status and respect. I approach girls, they take me serious from the first second on.

When people see a tall jacked guy they assume he is winning at life. All you need is an average or above average face and you’re good to go.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

I run extremely aggressively at bars

 

[farahanyzz]

physique pic?

 

[Chadethnic101]

Would you post your face here? Curious to see what you look like as you say you are racially unambiguous.
Do you find your pheno holds you back in US?

 

[Lev Peshkov]

I mean having looksmaxxed I am also using game, I failed to escelate when I went out and shower pretty platonic friendship with pretty much 0 interest irl and she's basically taking forever to respond and lost interest

 

[oldcelloser]

steroids and shoe lifts

sad fact is a lot of men who think their ugly and incel woulkd only need this and if it STILL doesnt work LOCATIONMAXXING aka SEA or SA perhaps; most inkwells can get average face which combined with those mentioned above= can be slayer

so id say HEIGHTMAXXING BODYMAXXING LOCATIONMAXXING

 

[tyronelite]

@chadison Thoughts?

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Would you post your face here? Curious to see what you look like as you say you are racially unambiguous.
Do you find your pheno holds you back in US?

When you’re 6’1 and roided walking into bars looking like a men’s physique competitor nothing can hold you back.

 

[sandcelmuttcel]

ur going to get arrested for sexual harassment one day

 

[chadison]

@chadison Thoughts?

Seems like it depends on the context. He's absolutely right about knowing what type of game to run on girls and that it matters. Some girls are not going to respond well either because they don't like your look or they're not in the mood for the game (she might be shy/intelligent, on their period, cockblocking friends, etc). It really is a numbers game to some degree, you have to maximize your looks and THEN max your gaming experience (knowing how to adjust based on how the girl is) and, more importantly, your context. I feel like this type of game would work very well for him at large frat parties but not so much at the bars at my university, when chicks go to bars they tend to congregate in social groups and that allows friends to intervene. Whereas at a frat party it's partial chaos and girls have more of an excuse to be sexually liberal (and I would say from experience that at any given time a quarter of these girls are looking to hook up with an above average guy at the party. The ratio is usually 3:1 girl to guy, thus chances are near maximized for average/decent looking guys).

Even though I'm still pretty young at 20, I guess I would say if he runs hard game like that he would want to look for visible queues of ovulation or inclination towards promiscuity: revealing clothing, tattoos, liberal alcoholism, body language during the initial approach. This last one is key and is what I do a lot, generally you can know whether you'll have a good chance hooking up with a woman that night or not within the first minute talking to her by being queued in on her vocal tone, choice of words, level of selective attention, frequency of handsiness and touching, etc etc. from what I've learned with experience. Also you have to be careful not to approach too many girls of the same social circle or on the same night otherwise it looks bad.

Edit: might I add that sometimes it's better to not push the hook up and instead just get her contact info, especially if she's more attractive. I have had situations where running more game has eventually tipped the scale, whereas pushing it would have ruined the chances.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Seems like it depends on the context. He's absolutely right about knowing what type of game to run on girls and that it matters. Some girls are not going to respond well either because they don't like your look or they're not in the mood for the game (she might be shy/intelligent, on their period, cockblocking friends, etc). It really is a numbers game to some degree, you have to maximize your looks and THEN max your gaming experience (knowing how to adjust based on how the girl is) and, more importantly, your context. I feel like this type of game would work very well for him at large frat parties but not so much at the bars at my university, when chicks go to bars they tend to congregate in social groups and that allows friends to intervene. Whereas at a frat party it's partial chaos and girls have more of an excuse to be sexually liberal (and I would say from experience that at any given time a quarter of these girls are looking to hook up with an above average guy at the party. The ratio is usually 3:1 girl to guy, thus chances are near maximized for average/decent looking guys).

Even though I'm still pretty young at 20, I guess I would say if he runs hard game like that he would want to look for visible queues of ovulation or inclination towards promiscuity: revealing clothing, tattoos, liberal alcoholism, body language during the initial approach. This last one is key and is what I do a lot, generally you can know whether you'll have a good chance hooking up with a woman that night or not within the first minute talking to her by being queued in on her vocal tone, choice of words, level of selective attention, frequency of handsiness and touching, etc etc. from what I've learned with experience. Also you have to be careful not to approach too many girls of the same social circle or on the same night otherwise it looks bad.

Edit: might I add that sometimes it's better to not push the hook up and instead just get her contact info, especially if she's more attractive. I have had situations where running more game has eventually tipped the scale, whereas pushing it would have ruined the chances.

Don’t overthink it too much. Approach a ton of girls while looking of IOIs (eye contact, proximity to you, etc.). Get physical with these girls and make some basic convo. If it’s going well try to pull them back to you’re place and if they’re with friends or something just get their number and keep going.

 

[basedfedoracel]

At bars I notice a lot of other guys I’d consider chads getting blown out by girls. Once your looks are good game also matters and the biggest problem I’ve run into is being cockblocked by the girls less attractive friends.

the cockblock by ugly friend is so annoying

 

[Deleted member 14274]

the cockblock by ugly friend is so annoying

Yeah it’s the absolute worst. Guy friends will do it too.

 

[chadison]

Don’t overthink it too much. Approach a ton of girls while looking of IOIs (eye contact, proximity to you, etc.). Get physical with these girls and make some basic convo. If it’s going well try to pull them back to you’re place and if they’re with friends or something just get their number and keep going.

That's basically the tl;dr of what I said lol. I just like to sound smart

 

[Chadethnic101]

When you’re 6’1 and roided walking into bars looking like a men’s physique competitor nothing can hold you back.

I agree bro HTN face is enough, everyone here really understates physique, even a rounded overcompensatig Manlet will slay if he's got an aesthetic physique

 

[Deleted member 14274]

That's basically the tl;dr of what I said lol. I just like to sound smart

Yeah you made really good points. I think we both agree that when your looks are above average this game stuff is what you should focus on. Even if you look good there are so many factors that can prevent you from getting laid like cockblocking friends, etc

 

[chadison]

Yeah you made really good points. I think we both agree that when your looks are above average this game stuff is what you should focus on. Even if you look good there are so many factors that can prevent you from getting laid like cockblocking friends, etc

Absolutely which is why I am glad I was redpilled before I found the blackpill. Otherwise you end up rotting like guys here with the "muh looks are everything" nihilism

 

[Deleted member 14274]

I agree bro HTN face is enough, everyone here really understates physique, even a rounded overcompensatig Manlet will slay if he's got an aesthetic physique

No not a manlet. SSL is all about height and physique so you need to be above average in both to compensate for an average/above average face. The size is what makes you stand out. 6’ or above and jacked is the way to go.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Absolutely which is why I am glad I was redpilled before I found the blackpill. Otherwise you end up rotting like guys here with the "muh looks are everything" nihilism

Yeah it’s good to be a combo of red pill and black pill and ideally max out both your looks and your game.

 

[Chadethnic101]

No not a manlet. SSL is all about height and physique so you need to be above average in both to compensate for an average/above average face. The size is what makes you stand out. 6’ or above and jacked is the way to go.

Would 5ft10 be alright in your opinion? Unroided would probs be better at that height to not look overcompensating just with a chadlite face and lean physique

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Would 5ft10 be alright in your opinion? Unroided would probs be better at that height to not look overcompensating just with a chadlite face and lean physique

Yes 5’10 is fine. And your still better off roiding rather than staying natty.

 

[Deleted member 8853]

When people see a tall jacked guy they assume he is winning at life. All you need is an average or above average face and you’re good to go.

But if you're below average it's over.

 

[Dark Latino]

It's a numbers game you just avoid rejections and time with girls that check you out but still it's a numbers game

Where do you live though?

 

[tyronelite]

When I approach a girl I will put my arm around her, bring her head into me, and start talking into her ear. I will start stroking her hair and make fun of her a bit and just make basic small talk

I wouldn't do this unless you know the chick is already interested in you & you're good at reading body language. Some chicks will have boyfriends, mother hens waiting to protect them, etc so I'd briefly chat with them for 2-5 min then BASED on how she responds you can do what your move

 

[Deleted member 14274]

I wouldn't do this unless you know the chick is already interested in you & you're good at reading body language. Some chicks will have boyfriends, mother hens waiting to protect them, etc so I'd briefly chat with them for 2-5 min then BASED on how she responds you can do what your move

No be aggressive and if she isn’t into it move on to the next girl.

 

[tyronelite]

No be aggressive and if she isn’t into it move on to the next girl.

Lol have fun dealing with the simp boyfriend comin out the bathroom seein u with his girl lol

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Lol have fun dealing with the simp boyfriend comin out the bathroom seein u with his girl lol

Has happened to me multiple times. Usually they won’t try to fight me since I’m tall and jacked. But when this happens I just say it was nice meeting you and go approach the next girl.