I should stop wasting my life

[LipstickAlley]

Maybe I should stop being hung up on a girl that doesn’t really like me

I ran into this guy who is dating my old oneitis from 5 years ago (jokes on him, she has taken many cocks by now) and I realized that I’m just wasting my life on someone who doesn’t really like me. Yeah the girl is worn out but he’s dated a few low tier normies before, at least he’s getting numbers. When you are young quantity>quality.

it doesn’t matter if I like this other girl less, it’s at least someone for fucks sake. I can’t keep waiting for time to pass me by

 

[LipstickAlley]

I should also stop waiting for a reply in this thread

just live life already, stop being afraid

 

[Deleted member 14303]

dnr but yeah

 

[Deleted member 7112]

Bro fuck them hoes

 

[LipstickAlley]

Bro fuck them hoes
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Very true, I will move on

 

[randomuser2407]

The reason why you don't have an abundance mentality is because your SMV is so low that you are unable to get laid with other women. The best way to stop having a oneitis is to have sex with other women, it is not simply a mental thing, you have to actually have lots of options to really believe in it.

Guys who have very few options tend to feel more inferior to their partner and it reflects in their behaviour which is extremely beta, and it either causes the woman to break up with them, have less sex with them or turn them into cucks with or without their consent.

This is why it is extremely stupid to get into a serious relationship with a woman before you have improved your looks to the point where you can approach lots of women and get laid from that. And it doesn't take very long to reach that point as long as you are being consistent with your looksmaxxing journey.

 

[Deleted member 7112]

The reason why you don't have an abundance mentality is because your SMV is so low that you are unable to get laid with other women. The best way to stop having a oneitis is to have sex with other women, it is not simply a mental thing, you have to actually have lots of options to really believe in it.

Guys who have very few options tend to feel more inferior to their partner and it reflects in their behaviour which is extremely beta, and it either causes the woman to break up with them, have less sex with them or turn them into cucks with or without their consent.

This is why it is extremely stupid to get into a serious relationship with a woman before you have improved your looks to the point where you can approach lots of women and get laid from that. And it doesn't take very long to reach that point as long as you are being consistent with your looksmaxxing journey.

Not a single word you schizo
Take your meds
+ keep writing shit no one will read

 

[LipstickAlley]

The reason why you don't have an abundance mentality is because your SMV is so low that you are unable to get laid with other women. The best way to stop having a oneitis is to have sex with other women, it is not simply a mental thing, you have to actually have lots of options to really believe in it.

Guys who have very few options tend to feel more inferior to their partner and it reflects in their behaviour which is extremely beta, and it either causes the woman to break up with them, have less sex with them or turn them into cucks with or without their consent.

This is why it is extremely stupid to get into a serious relationship with a woman before you have improved your looks to the point where you can approach lots of women and get laid from that. And it doesn't take very long to reach that point as long as you are being consistent with your looksmaxxing journey.

You are correct. I need to just fuck a ton of girls. This isn’t healthy to just keep waiting and waiting and waiting, and for what? Just some normie I can find somewhere else?

 

[Deleted member 7112]

You are correct. I need to just fuck a ton of girls. This isn’t healthy to just keep waiting and waiting and waiting, and for what? Just some normie I can find somewhere else?

Go and fuck some whores bro

You should tindermaxx if u are above average in looks

 

[LipstickAlley]

Go and fuck some whores bro

You should tindermaxx if u are above average in looks

I will try, better than doing nothing

 

[Deleted member 7112]

I will try, better than doing nothing

How good looking are u from 1-10 bro

 

[LipstickAlley]

How good looking are u from 1-10 bro

Avg irl

 

[Deleted member 7112]

Avg irl, I have dark skin in a white area of the world so my above avg bones cancel out my nigger skin

Are you dark for a indian or just normal brown indian?

Me personally, I would recommend you to homelandmaxx maybe u will find a pajeeta stacy to wife. Espacially if u are good looking among indians

 

[LipstickAlley]

Are you dark for a indian or just normal brown indian?

Me personally, I would recommend you to homelandmaxx maybe u will find a pajeeta stacy to wife. Espacially if u are good looking among indians

I’m dark for an indian

i can pull some normies but I’m always so picky and when I get a decent girl I fumble due to lack of experience, so Ive always felt more like a failed normie than an incel

 

[randomuser2407]

You are correct. I need to just fuck a ton of girls. This isn’t healthy to just keep waiting and waiting and waiting, and for what? Just some normie I can find somewhere else?

The most effective way to get laid is to meet women who are looking for a guy to hookup with.
You can find such women on online dating apps like Tinder or by going out to bars and clubs.

But you have to be at least decent looking and your standards need to be adjusted to what you are able to get, either that or you put this on hold as you looksmax.

 

[randomuser2407]

Not a single word you schizo
Take your meds
+ keep writing shit no one will read

I don't even know who you are

 

[micropenis29]

you're not going to stop being attracted to her and wanting her to be attracted to you

that never happens, so don't pretend otherwise

 

[LipstickAlley]

you're not going to stop being attracted to her and wanting her to be attracted to you

that never happens, so don't pretend otherwise

so basically you want me to keep spending time waiting for something that will never happen?

 

[micropenis29]

so you want me to keep spending time waiting for something that will never happen?

well, technically it could happen

the chances are low, but it's not impossible

but the chances that you're over her are absolutely 0%, so you'll be dysfunctional if you pretend you're over her

 

[LipstickAlley]

well, technically it could happen

the chances are low, but it's not impossible

but the chances that you're over her are absolutely 0%, so you'll be dysfunctional if you pretend you're over her

Of course I’ll never be over ((((her))))

the whole reason I made this thread was because of an old oneitis

that obviously means it’s basically impossible to get over this kinda stuff 100%. Best thing you can do is partially get over it

 

[micropenis29]

Of course I’ll never be over ((((her))))

i agree

the traditional normie advice is: get over her

i think it's self-destructive advice

the whole reason I made this thread was because of an old oneitis

yes, but you seemed to be asking if you should try to get over her

i was just saying, "no, i think you should keep doing what you've been doing"

that obviously means it’s basically impossible to get over this kinda stuff 100%. Best thing you can do is partially get over it

i agree

you have to accept that they don't like you and you still like them

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

The reason why you don't have an abundance mentality is because your SMV is so low that you are unable to get laid with other women. The best way to stop having a oneitis is to have sex with other women, it is not simply a mental thing, you have to actually have lots of options to really believe in it.

Guys who have very few options tend to feel more inferior to their partner and it reflects in their behaviour which is extremely beta, and it either causes the woman to break up with them, have less sex with them or turn them into cucks with or without their consent.

This is why it is extremely stupid to get into a serious relationship with a woman before you have improved your looks to the point where you can approach lots of women and get laid from that. And it doesn't take very long to reach that point as long as you are being consistent with your looksmaxxing journey.

teracope. oneitis is who ur meant to be with @LocalDanger

 

[LocalDanger]

teracope. oneitis is who ur meant to be with @LocalDanger

Legit man oneitis is everything.

Just look at Amensia slays but doesn't gain any happiness. @copingvolcel is retarded he is going on a path that has clear known endgoal in front of his face which is Amensia who already achieved looks he dreams of and can slay and is still miserable. Because it's oneitis or death

 

[randomuser2407]

teracope. oneitis is who ur meant to be with @LocalDanger

There is no such thing as true love.

There are billions of women in this world, so there is no one you are meant to be with.
You can develop feelings for someone really easily and it doesn't mean you were meant to be with them, because if you had met a couple of years earlier, you probably wouldn't have liked them anyways. This is why a lot of people get divorced, because love fades away over time because it is a temporary feeling that doesn't last very long, so when people stop loving each other, they can no longer tolerate each other. This is why marriage a very unnatural way of living your life, because as men, we were not made to spend our entire life with only one woman.

In the times of tribal societies, it was possible for 1 man to impregnate 100 women in a situation where there is only 1 man for all these women and they need to grow their population to become more powerful as a society. So as men, we are made to be able to impregnate as many women as possible, this is the true meaning of life as a man. And the meaning of life for women is to have lots of children and raise them for most of her life.

The problem that we have nowadays is that the society we live in doesn't promote the natural order of things. When a man impregnates a woman, he becomes her prisoner financially, and has to pay to support that woman financially, and our society promotes the unnatural institution of marriage to prevent men from being monogamous and to prevent women from being hypergamous.

The true cope in all of this is the teachings of religious institutions. Men were made to have sex with many women, not to tie themselves down to only one woman and women were made to choose the best partner and raise kids. This is each gender's biological imperative that they cannot escape.

And since impregnating women is too risky nowadays, the best alternative that we have is to get a vasectomy early on to be able to have lots of sex with many women without having any children, so that your body still feels like it is fulfilling its biological imperative and you don't ruin your finances in the process. Having protected sex tricks your lizard brain into thinking that you are propagating the species by having lots of children. Jerking off can achieve a similar effect but it is far less satisfying and much more harmful, so masturbation is not a good alternative, nofap combined with regular hookups (preferably FWB) is the best path you can take as a man.

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

There is no such thing as true love.

There are billions of women in this world, so there is no one you are meant to be with.
You can develop feelings for someone really easily and it doesn't mean you were meant to be with them, because if you had met a couple of years earlier, you probably wouldn't have liked them anyways. This is why a lot of people get divorced, because love fades away over time because it is a temporary feeling that doesn't last very long, so when people stop loving each other, they can no longer tolerate each other. This is why marriage a very unnatural way of living your life, because as men, we were not made to spend our entire life with only one woman.

In the times of tribal societies, it was possible for 1 man to impregnate 100 women in a situation where there is only 1 man for all these women and they need to grow their population to become more powerful as a society. So as men, we are made to be able to impregnate as many women as possible, this is the true meaning of life as a man. And the meaning of life for women is to have lots of children and raise them for most of her life.

The problem that we have nowadays is that the society we live in doesn't promote the natural order of things. When a man impregnates a woman, he becomes her prisoner financially, and has to pay to support that woman financially, and our society promotes the unnatural institution of marriage to prevent men from being monogamous and to prevent women from being hypergamous.

The true cope in all of this is the teachings of religious institutions. Men were made to have sex with many women, not to tie themselves down to only one woman and women were made to choose the best partner and raise kids. This is each gender's biological imperative that they cannot escape.

And since impregnating women is too risky nowadays, the best alternative that we have is to get a vasectomy early on to be able to have lots of sex with many women without having any children, so that your body still feels like it is fulfilling its biological imperative and you don't ruin your finances in the process. Having protected sex tricks your lizard brain into thinking that you are propagating the species by having lots of children. Jerking off can achieve a similar effect but it is far less satisfying and much more harmful, so masturbation is not a good alternative, nofap combined with regular hookups (preferably FWB) is the best path you can take as a man.

Biology is not a good enough argument. We don't climb trees or bite each other anymore.
Heck I dont even plan on having children. I think living life is about making things as meaningful as it can. Even if love isn't "real" you can still make it out to be

 

[randomuser2407]

Biology is not a good enough argument. We don't climb trees or bite each other anymore.
Heck I dont even plan on having children. I think living life is about making things as meaningful as it can. Even if love isn't "real" you can still make it out to be

I never said that companionship and love don't exist. But the idea that there is only one woman for each man is completely false, especially in a time where you can travel the world and meet so many different types of women. There is no such thing as "the one" because love isn't predetermined, it isn't in your destiny, it is simply something that happens at random and it can happen many times, not just once.

 

[Deleted member 14848]

I never said that companionship and love don't exist. But the idea that there is only one woman for each man is completely false, especially in a time where you can travel the world and meet so many different types of women. There is no such thing as "the one" because love isn't predetermined, it isn't in your destiny, it is simply something that happens at random and it can happen many times, not just once.

I see you read the rationale male by thecel
Sure there isn't the one but there are comparable women to that
Ltr and marriage sucess is hugely determined by compatibility

 

[randomuser2407]

I see you read the rationale male by thecel
Sure there isn't the one but there are comparable women to that
Ltr and marriage sucess is hugely determined by compatibility

I didn't read the Rational Male but I know it was written by Rollo Tomassi.

I just know based on logic that true love doesn't exist. But yes, I would never deny the fact that there are women who would be more compatible with me than others, especially those who share common interests with me and who have a more compatible personality.

But the reason why I don't like the idea of marriage is mainly because women age too quickly, and they become completely unattractive after age 35 in most cases, female celebrities manage to escape that through plastic surgery and expensive beauty treatments but most women hit that wall between 30 and 40, some women even look 30 at 23, it's mostly a genetic and lifestyle thing.

And because of that, if I get married to a woman and I stop being physically attracted to her, then I would still be stuck with her and forbidden from seeing other women, that is what I dislike about monogamy. I could possibly see myself in a serious relationship of a few years but eventually, I would get bored and I would want to date other women, that is just how I am.

The only thing that I would get in a relationship for is to fulfill my most realistic sexual fantasies, because they require me to have a girlfriend. So when I will be in a serious relationship, it will not be because of love, but because I will have found someone who can fulfill the fantasies that I have lived with since when I was 16, and that achievement will drive me to love her in the process. Also, I have done a lot of research on the subject and I have found a way to make my fantasies into a reality by making it mutually beneficial in a way that is not selfish (something that most men in my situation are unable to do). That is my endgoal, not to get married eventually but just to fulfill my fantasies with the right woman after having had sex a couple of times with a good number of women, then I will be finally happy.

The problem with marriage also is the divorce rate and the financial consquences for men nowadays which are just too big to bear. Marriage doesn't even prevent women from breaking up with you and it doesn't prevent her from cheating on you.
Divorce courts tend to punish married men who cheat but never punish married women who cheat.
So when a couple gets married, only the man is expected to be loyal by the court, the woman can cheat as much as she wants and still get all the rewards even if the man has proof of what she did.
The only time when women lose in a divorce is when they have millions of dollars (or more) and the man is either broke or has a low paying job (like when rich female celebrities marry the average joe), in every other situation, she wins.

Marriage worked in the time of the nuclear family because women and men had their own specific gender roles, both were punished for cheating, the man was entitled to sex, the woman helped to support the man and didn't start too many fights and in return, she didn't have to work. If marriage was still like that, I might still consider it as an option, but what we have today isn't real marriage the way that it was intended, it is female supremacy at its finest and I will not be its victim.

 

[Jagged0]

Maybe I should stop being hung up on a girl that doesn’t really like me

I ran into this guy who is dating my old oneitis from 5 years ago (jokes on him, she has taken many cocks by now) and I realized that I’m just wasting my life on someone who doesn’t really like me. Yeah the girl is worn out but he’s dated a few low tier normies before, at least he’s getting numbers. When you are young quantity>quality.

it doesn’t matter if I like this other girl less, it’s at least someone for fucks sake. I can’t keep waiting for time to pass me by

I feel the same way I still stalk my ex’s ig to check if she broke up with her bfs