I STALKED HER

I remember you very well, you havent been active for a long time
I will go permanently inactive if she doesn't reject me lol
 
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HAHAHAHA Thanks for the motivation bro fr. but 30 minutes into finally knowing her profile and seeing all her comments are so filled with validation. especially from girls. im getting demotivated and pissed already lol.
Ye nah that’s every girl dw about it
 
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thanks bro how many chances to i have with her /10?
 
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shes very attractive bro gl
you aint helping bro. lmao. but for real she is the only girl i remember from uni all these years. its my final chance, either graduate with her as a prize or leave as a loser. ill keep you updated
 
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you aint helping bro. lmao. but for real she is the only girl i remember from uni all these years. its my final chance, either graduate with her as a prize or leave as a loser. ill keep you updated
just try u ain got nothing to lose
 
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her dms are probably full with randoms already so you should approach her to be different
 
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her dms are probably full with randoms already so you should approach her to be different
he said hes 6’4 so if she remembers him it will be fine
 
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her dms are probably full with randoms already so you should approach her to be different
she has like 300 followers on ig, 500 friends in facebook, 7k followers on tiktok, her most viewed video on tiktok is 150k. mostly girls compliment her in the comments im reading. In uni ive seen her hanging out with mostly 2 girls.

we've exchanged eye contact twice (im pretty sure im not crazy)

shes taurus, im leo so this is a bad combo

im 6'4 lightskin, in a tiktok video she has a song of a black singer so thats a positive

we are in a similar but not the same major so i can create some good banter around it

so based on this my chances with her are like 6/10 reducing to 4/10 cuz i wont approach irl
 
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she has like 300 followers on ig, 500 friends in facebook, 7k followers on tiktok, her most viewed video on tiktok is 150k. mostly girls compliment her in the comments im reading. In uni ive seen her hanging out with mostly 2 girls.

we've exchanged eye contact twice (im pretty sure im not crazy)

shes taurus, im leo so this is a bad combo

im 6'4 lightskin, in a tiktok video she has a song of a black singer so thats a positive

we are in a similar but not the same major so i can create some good banter around it

so based on this my chances with her are like 6/10 reducing to 4/10 cuz i wont approach irl
nigga no way u checked ur astrology signs
 
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she has like 300 followers on ig, 500 friends in facebook, 7k followers on tiktok, her most viewed video on tiktok is 150k. mostly girls compliment her in the comments im reading. In uni ive seen her hanging out with mostly 2 girls.

we've exchanged eye contact twice (im pretty sure im not crazy)

shes taurus, im leo so this is a bad combo

im 6'4 lightskin, in a tiktok video she has a song of a black singer so thats a positive

we are in a similar but not the same major so i can create some good banter around it

so based on this my chances with her are like 6/10 reducing to 4/10 cuz i wont approach irl
why not approach her? Do you have any classes together or smt
 
But I decided to stalk her for hours and finally found her socials thanks to my great deduction skills. I mean just from my dedication to do that she should feel attracted and not weirded out right?
You're right bro, tell her what you told us and she will immediately be amazed by your intelligence

Just trust me on this bro
 
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why not approach her? Do you have any classes together or smt
no im graduating soon my classes are mostly done. i found out shes sophomore, so the chances to approach irl are very little. ive seen her around 4 times randomly in uni hall but never approached then
 
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You're right bro, tell her what you told us and she will immediately be amazed by your intelligence

Just trust me on this bro
bro unironically, dont you believe theres a slight chance she will be charmed by the fact i tried so hard and found her?
 
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no im graduating soon my classes are mostly done. i found out shes sophomore, so the chances to approach irl are very little. ive seen her around 4 times randomly in uni hall but never approached then
then just dm her man, better than doing nothing
 
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you’ll make the best impression if you talk to her irl even though it’s hard
 
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bro unironically, dont you believe theres a slight chance she will be charmed by the fact i tried so hard and found her?
Only works if you're attractive, but I know girls do it all the time too so it's not really that creppy

What's your rating?
 
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bro unironically, dont you believe theres a slight chance she will be charmed by the fact i tried so hard and found her?
maybe if ur chad af
 
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you’ll make the best impression if you talk to her irl even though it’s hard
fuckk i know bro. im 10000% positive on talking irl. i fucking hate dms, i dont even use socials. its just the conditions now are not that good. and its not an excuse. dming is the least masculine thing u can do especially if shes in your environment
 
Only works if you're attractive, but I know girls do it all the time too so it's not really that creppy

What's your rating?
i dont even know bro. i claim to be chad. but im delusional cocky motherfucker
 
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i dont even know bro. i claim to be chad. but im delusional cocky motherfucker
are u atleast fr htn? ik ur cocky but think abt ur real rating
 
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fuckk i know bro. im 10000% positive on talking irl. i fucking hate dms, i dont even use socials. its just the conditions now are not that good. and its not an excuse. dming is the least masculine thing u can do especially if shes in your environment
i can relate to this so much. all the dates i ever went on happened due to instagram dms or tinder. but it’s such a pussy ass move. i wanna get good at approaching irl. approaching a crush makes it even harder, but it bulids you as a man no doubt about that, regardless of the outcome.
 
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i can relate to this so much. all the dates i ever went on happened due to instagram dms or tinder. but it’s such a pussy ass move. i wanna get good at approaching irl. approaching a crush makes it even harder, but it bulids you as a man no doubt about that, regardless of the outcome.
good that youre getting results and not being ignored. thats rly good bro. i have a bad ratio though. worst ratio than most guys because i dont upload nothing
 
i dont even know bro. i claim to be chad. but im delusional cocky motherfucker
Just ask someone on here in pm

I did it countless times, and yeah it can be demotivating but now at least I know where I stand
 
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are u atleast fr htn? ik ur cocky but think abt ur real rating
my intution tells me she doesnt find me unattractive. we've exchanged eye contact 2 times. i swear to god it wasnt in my head. i'll just bet on that and dm her tommorow, i cant delay it especially now im not going to be around campus often and she might forget my image entirely
 
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i can relate to this so much. all the dates i ever went on happened due to instagram dms or tinder. but it’s such a pussy ass move. i wanna get good at approaching irl. approaching a crush makes it even harder, but it bulids you as a man no doubt about that, regardless of the outcome.
You're clearly attractive if you went on dates from tinder, I think you will do just fine irl
 
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my intution tells me she doesnt find me unattractive. we've exchanged eye contact 2 times. i swear to god it wasnt in my head. i'll just bet on that and dm her tommorow, i cant delay it especially now im not going to be around campus often and she might forget my image entirely
bro fuck it u got nothing to lose just hit her up goodluck
 
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So im graduating soon and after a long time i finally stalked the girl ive been obsessed over, seeing her in the uni hall every now and then. I wont have a chance to approach her irl. its really random. Do i dm her on ig or not?
Just approach or dm her, your over thinking it to much just do it & if she says no you move on with your life
 
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good that youre getting results and not being ignored. thats rly good bro. i have a bad ratio though. worst ratio than most guys because i dont upload nothing
i was like that. how broke my heart so i started uploading more so she can se what she’s missing. but it had even better effect since i accidentally became highlight warrior with a public profile and now i don’t even have to text first in some cases. you do have to show something unique tho. in my case its a low htn face with a good physique.

things is tho, i haven’t improved in cold approaching even a tiny bit since i am not too sociable and im scared of failure lowkey.
 
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Just approach or dm her, your over thinking it to much just do it & if she says no you move on with your life
Just approach or dm her, your over thinking it to much just do it & if she says no you move on with your life
give me a good opener fellas. please i need to do it right, its my final chance to get smth out of this shit hole. if i end up with her ill change the world i promise u
 
i was like that. how broke my heart so i started uploading more so she can se what she’s missing. but it had even better effect since i accidentally became highlight warrior with a public profile and now i don’t even have to text first in some cases. you do have to show something unique tho. in my case its a low htn face with a good physique.

things is tho, i haven’t improved in cold approaching even a tiny bit since i am not too sociable and im scared of failure lowkey.
wish i had the balls like u. im just daydreaming of having a good ig one day lol. im not doing anything about it tho. im just dreaming
 
if you are tall htn as you say approach her and get her number in real
 
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wish i had the balls like u. im just daydreaming of having a good ig one day lol. im not doing anything about it tho. im just dreaming
i was the same for a long time. eventually something will push you to do it dw
 
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i was the same for a long time. eventually something will push you to do it dw
give me a good opener bro. should i tell her i "tried" in a way to find her? should i acknowledge the fact ive noticed her in uni? will i seem weird?
 
give me a good opener fellas. please i need to do it right, its my final chance to get smth out of this shit hole. if i end up with her ill change the world i promise u
I’m not your guy for that jfl I will NEVER cold approach I guess I’m just a pussy but goodluck hopefully someone else can help tho also goodluck getting her g
 
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give me a good opener bro. should i tell her i "tried" in a way to find her? should i acknowledge the fact ive noticed her in uni? will i seem weird?
don’t mention that you tried to find her by my opinion. definitely acknowledge the fact that you have seen her in uni. the thing about the dm game is that each encounter is individual and the convo either does or does not flow.

don’t be surprised if she takes long to respond. attractive bitches do that (some unattractive ones too). if she answers short and clear you can try to break the ice a few times. if it doesn’t leave her on seen or some shit (this would be the last resort in order to make her text you further). cuz bitches hate to be left on seen and would triple text to get you back and show them attention.

honestly in my case i have crazy game sometimes and other times my game is shit and i drive them off from the first few texts and i don’t wanna ruin your chances by guiding you on what to say.

just let it flow naturally. she is a human too so if she is interested things can work out. don’t overtext tho. thats REALLLY important. and don’t answer immediately. give her time to breathe
 
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give me a good opener bro. should i tell her i "tried" in a way to find her? should i acknowledge the fact ive noticed her in uni? will i seem weird?
oh and if shit goes dry you can try ph reply with her for a bit. DONT start sending reels from the first day as well
 
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don’t mention that you tried to find her by my opinion. definitely acknowledge the fact that you have seen her in uni. the thing about the dm game is that each encounter is individual and the convo either does or does not flow.

don’t be surprised if she takes long to respond. attractive bitches do that (some unattractive ones too). if she answers short and clear you can try to break the ice a few times. if it doesn’t leave her on seen or some shit (this would be the last resort in order to make her text you further). cuz bitches hate to be left on seen and would triple text to get you back and show them attention.

honestly in my case i have crazy game sometimes and other times my game is shit and i drive them off from the first few texts and i don’t wanna ruin your chances by guiding you on what to say.

just let it flow naturally. she is a human too so if she is interested things can work out. don’t overtext tho. thats REALLLY important. and don’t answer immediately. give her time to breathe
thanks so much for this thorough advice bro. ill do as you say. how do i evade smartly the fact i dm her instead of approaching irl and how do i justify "finding her" though? like do you have a good opener idea? one thing im definitely not doing is complimenting her. its the most obvious predictable thing to do and i need to stand out especially by choosing the dm route
 
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thanks so much for this thorough advice bro. ill do as you say. how do i evade smartly the fact i dm her instead of approaching irl and how do i justify "finding her" though? like do you have a good opener idea? one thing im definitely not doing is complimenting her. its the most obvious predictable thing to do and i need to stand out especially by choosing the dm route
yeah compliments are overrated as fuck. they are worse that pickup lines.

by my opinion do not mention that you “found her” on ig. you can answer that only if she asks you. just so i can make you feel less stressed - i have done that also.

last summer i was in a H&M in my home city with my mother and brother. i noticed the cashier(she was beautiful with striking blue eyes and black hair) checking me out and not letting her eyes off of me. keep in mind that i am not the delusional type of guy that thinks every girl that stares is attracted to him. but i defo felt something. i even noticed her peeking once.

all good and all and i wanted to approach her so bad, but i couldn’t get over the fact that im with my mom and little bro and my mom acts like im still her little boy which is cringe sometimes.

that being said i had the perfect opportunity to approach, we were both staring, she was smiling even. but at the end i did not.

one day later i found her on ig we started talking and we even scheduled a date which she canceled at the last moment, which of course meant no more contact.

you are not the only one and won’t be the last one who text a girl he finds attractive on social media first.

if she asks you why you didn’t approach her irl you can say that you were so busy with the finals and that you had a lot of stuff going on and you wanna get to know her more if she is interested. that should do the work honestly
 
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So im graduating soon and after a long time i finally stalked the girl ive been obsessed over, seeing her in the uni hall every now and then. I wont have a chance to approach her irl. its really random. Do i dm her on ig or not?
be different and go up to her in person
try to your best to ignore your self awareness and fake confidence if you need to
 
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yeah compliments are overrated as fuck. they are worse that pickup lines.

by my opinion do not mention that you “found her” on ig. you can answer that only if she asks you. just so i can make you feel less stressed - i have done that also.

last summer i was in a H&M in my home city with my mother and brother. i noticed the cashier(she was beautiful with striking blue eyes and black hair) checking me out and not letting her eyes off of me. keep in mind that i am not the delusional type of guy that thinks every girl that stares is attracted to him. but i defo felt something. i even noticed her peeking once.

all good and all and i wanted to approach her so bad, but i couldn’t get over the fact that im with my mom and little bro and my mom acts like im still her little boy which is cringe sometimes.

that being said i had the perfect opportunity to approach, we were both staring, she was smiling even. but at the end i did not.

one day later i found her on ig we started talking and we even scheduled a date which she canceled at the last moment, which of course meant no more contact.

you are not the only one and won’t be the last one who text a girl he finds attractive on social media first.

if she asks you why you didn’t approach her irl you can say that you were so busy with the finals and that you had a lot of stuff going on and you wanna get to know her more if she is interested. that should do the work honestly
damn bro youre a god. i appreciate you for sharing your story, you gave me great motivation. I'll do it tommorow and keep y'all updated if anything good happens. One last question, if she ends up rejecting/ignoring how do I handle the fact theres still chances i might go again in uni sometime in the future and might end up stumbling on her?
 
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be different and go up to her in person
try to your best to ignore your self awareness and fake confidence if you need to
its not that viable to do it in person.
 
she looks so good
 
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damn bro youre a god. i appreciate you for sharing your story, you gave me great motivation. I'll do it tommorow and keep y'all updated if anything good happens. One last question, if she ends up rejecting/ignoring how do I handle the fact theres still chances i might go again in uni sometime in the future and might end up stumbling on her?
it’s good that you know that rejection or straight ghosting can happen. just don’t worry about it. i can assure you that you it will not be a big deal when you see her in person in case she rejected you. in that case she would most likely ignore you irl so you just ignore her as well and go on about your day with your head up.(99% that will happen in case of rejection)

even if you get blown off the weight of uncertainty will be lifted from your shoulders and you will know that you took your chance
 

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