I still can't get over my oneitis and it's already almost 3 years since I fell in love with her

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I saw her at the uni in the crowd and it immediately made me restore old memories and my obsession with her. :cry::cry: I've tried moving on for last few months (I wasn't seeing her at all), I met some new girls both irl and online, flirted with some and got heartbroken by one (who looks like her btw) but no, I couldn't forget this girl. I thought I could and I apparently I was wrong.

I came home and cried for an hour at how miserable my life is! :feelswah::feelswah:

And yes, even that quirky inroverted goth girl I fell in love with now found her social circle, she's no longer an outcast like she used to be when I got infatuated with her. Will she ever notice me? Will I ever get a chance to approach her since she's UNOAPPROACHABLE! :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:





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I don't want to smell my oneitis' socks but I just want to hug her and kiss her head :feelswah::feelswah: @StuntmanMike

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I saw her at the uni in the crowd and it immediately made me restore old memories and my obsession with her. :cry::cry: I've tried moving on for last few months (I wasn't seeing her at all), I met some new girls both irl and online, flirted with some and got heartbroken by one (who looks like her btw) but no, I couldn't forget this girl. I thought I could and I apparently I was wrong.

I came home and cried for an hour at how miserable my life is! :feelswah::feelswah:

And yes, even that quirky inroverted goth girl I fell in love with now found her social circle, she's no longer an outcast like she used to be when I got infatuated with her. Will she ever notice me? Will I ever get a chance to approach her since she's UNOAPPROACHABLE! :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:





@MakinItHappen @Lefty Rankin @NoExit @TechnoBoss @Primalsplit
Just approach her.
 
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Just approach her.
how can I approach a girl who's always with her friends?

and how can I approach her when I see her once every 3 months?
 
how can I approach a girl who's always with her friends?

and how can I approach her when I see her once every 3 months?
I don't know. But if there's a will there's a way.
 
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I saw her at the uni in the crowd and it immediately made me restore old memories and my obsession with her. :cry::cry: I've tried moving on for last few months (I wasn't seeing her at all), I met some new girls both irl and online, flirted with some and got heartbroken by one (who looks like her btw) but no, I couldn't forget this girl. I thought I could and I apparently I was wrong.

I came home and cried for an hour at how miserable my life is! :feelswah::feelswah:

And yes, even that quirky inroverted goth girl I fell in love with now found her social circle, she's no longer an outcast like she used to be when I got infatuated with her. Will she ever notice me? Will I ever get a chance to approach her since she's UNOAPPROACHABLE! :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:





@MakinItHappen @Lefty Rankin @NoExit @TechnoBoss @Primalsplit
3 years is admirable. If you're MMTN+ with a decent height I'd just approach her atp.
 
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is it creepy to approach an ex-colleague who you haven't talked with when you were colleagues?
I don't know. But if there's a will there's a way.

I'm low inhib with other girls but I'm overthinking everything about her

what if she finds me creepy or something? we've been "seeing" each other for 3.5 years now but I never talked to her... we only talked once when she asked me to borrow her a pencil (and that's when I fell in love with her)
 
3 years is admirable. If you're MMTN+ with a decent height I'd just approach her atp.
I can pass as a HTN but in reality I'm a truecel MTN

she hangs out with high SMV tallfag womanisers (who she friendzoned and they all heightmog me)

can I compete with them?
 
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is it creepy to approach an ex-colleague who you haven't talked with when you were colleagues?


I'm low inhib with other girls but I'm overthinking everything about her

what if she finds me creepy or something? we've been "seeing" each other for 3.5 years now but I never talked to her... we only talked once when she asked me to borrow her a pencil (and that's when I fell in love with her)
You must stop with these one sided obsessions.
 
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Simp cuck final boss, I don’t have anything to say to guys like you, my testosterone is low yet im still not a simp cuck like this
 
(who looks like her btw) but no, I couldn't forget this girl.
yeah i tend to go for girls that look like my itis too tbh ngl and they are similar in terms of character too somehow
 
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See it's these threads and these posts like this that make me very aware that your money is everything to getting a woman concept is founded on the square root of I'm a clueless idiot.

You have to still be a virgin to be using the word oneitis. And I don't believe you've dated either.

All this mental masturbation and zero embodiment

Quickly. Tell the mods to delete the thread
 
better to find out that she doesnt like you than wondering what if
 
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Simp cuck final boss, I don’t have anything to say to guys like you, my testosterone is low yet im still not a simp cuck like this
you're insecure, immature and not a real man
yeah i tend to go for girls that look like my itis too tbh ngl and they are similar in terms of character too somehow
physiognomy-pill
better to find out that she doesnt like you than wondering what if
1000%
See it's these threads and these posts like this that make me very aware that your money is everything to getting a woman concept is founded on the square root of I'm a clueless idiot.
you're completely stupid if you think my chances with her wouldn't be better if I were the same social class as her family

btw, this is totally different girl, the one I was talking in another thread is 10+ years older and yeah, my chances with her would be astronomically higher if I were rich
You have to still be a virgin to be using the word oneitis.
you have to be emotionally immature to claim being bonded to one person is a "virgin thing"
And I don't believe you've dated either.
ok
All this mental masturbation and zero embodiment

Quickly. Tell the mods to delete the thread
yeah, because you truly fall in love with a girl on an emotional and metaphysical level, not by touching her hands, tits or something

sometimes it's enough for her to look you in the eyes to fall in love with her and that was the case with this girl I'm talking about

I believe in love at first sight
 
I saw her at the uni in the crowd and it immediately made me restore old memories and my obsession with her. :cry::cry: I've tried moving on for last few months (I wasn't seeing her at all), I met some new girls both irl and online, flirted with some and got heartbroken by one (who looks like her btw) but no, I couldn't forget this girl. I thought I could and I apparently I was wrong
Tebrex that’s normal, I also get flashbacks whenever I see girls I was into once. Hell I would still smash them if God had an ounce mercy.
Same thing happens to slayers I know too. They’re all fixated on that one girl who broke them.
I came home and cried for an hour at how miserable my life is! :feelswah::feelswah:
Crazy shit actually
And yes, even that quirky inroverted goth girl I fell in love with now found her social circle, she's no longer an outcast like she used to be when I got infatuated with her. Will she ever notice me? Will I ever get a chance to approach her since she's UNOAPPROACHABLE! :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:
Don't you have like 5 other half-oneities or whatever lmao
 
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Tebrex that’s normal, I also get flashbacks whenever I see girls I was into once. Hell I would still smash them if God had an ounce mercy.
Same thing happens to slayers I know too. They’re all fixated on that one girl who broke them.

Crazy shit actually
tell that to these retards who say "having oneitis is childish and unnatural"

idk dude, getting flashbacks when you see your random ex-crush is not the same as getting them when you see your oneitis you thought you could forget
Don't you have like 5 other half-oneities or whatever lmao
they're fakeitises, none of them is nowhere near HER level of importance for me

well except the one that looks like her but I got over her
 
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tell that to these retards who say "having oneitis is childish and unnatural"

idk dude, getting flashbacks when you see your random ex-crush is not the same as getting them when you see your oneitis you thought you could forget
The big difference is they used to date those girls they now yearn for, you haven't. Makes no sense to be attached to her to the point of crying about it. Then again it's not like you can control it tbf.
I used to stop crushing on a girl the moment I saw her dating someone, felt cuckish from then on. Maybe it'll work for you too.

Don't know how you can still catch feelings being aware of the shallowness of this world.
 
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Can't forget my oneitis

Maria
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Casandra
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Fabiana
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I never had high standards but still these three ignored or rejected me, I thought I had a chance
 
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@BlackFag
i should not be mentionned in such things
i've been fighting the urge to talk to a foid i genuinenly loved who hated me
for 1 week straight
 
I saw her at the uni in the crowd and it immediately made me restore old memories and my obsession with her. :cry::cry: I've tried moving on for last few months (I wasn't seeing her at all), I met some new girls both irl and online, flirted with some and got heartbroken by one (who looks like her btw) but no, I couldn't forget this girl. I thought I could and I apparently I was wrong.

I came home and cried for an hour at how miserable my life is! :feelswah::feelswah:

And yes, even that quirky inroverted goth girl I fell in love with now found her social circle, she's no longer an outcast like she used to be when I got infatuated with her. Will she ever notice me? Will I ever get a chance to approach her since she's UNOAPPROACHABLE! :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:





@MakinItHappen @Lefty Rankin @NoExit @TechnoBoss @Primalsplit
for sum reason ive always been able to force myself not to like a girl so idk. just try to move on
 
The big difference is they used to date those girls they now yearn for, you haven't. Makes no sense to be attached to her to the point of crying about it. Then again it's not like you can control it tbf.
I used to stop crushing on a girl the moment I saw her dating someone, felt cuckish from then on. Maybe it'll work for you too.

Don't know how you can still catch feelings being aware of the shallowness of this world.
I think she's still alone

idk dude, I'd wait a decade for her if she found me boyfriend material
for sum reason ive always been able to force myself not to like a girl so idk. just try to move on
funny that you like PSL Gods :forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
 
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