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And this can affect your confidence negatively too. If you are in a room with weak, defeated males, it's trying to get to you. I experienced this in STEM a lot. When I went there, I was super confident and optimistic but I was hanging out with needy incels and it caused me to be like that myself.
It's because we have this psychology that we have to conform to a certain behavior in order to feel a sense of belonging. You walk in a room, and it's full of sad and weak males, you instinctively try to be like them.
I was affected by this, I'm sure a lot of others were too. I have come to the conclusion that you have to maintain your character no matter where you are and come on top of others. A point of being a man, is that yu never conform. Conforming is for women.
I'm sure a lot of you have seen it, the shy awkward girl becomes a slut in order to be accepted by her friends. Or sometimes, a cool laid back girl becomes neurotic in order to fit in her group. It's a women thing, men have to maintain their niche regardless of who they are with cause that's how they are at their maximun attractiveness.
It's because we have this psychology that we have to conform to a certain behavior in order to feel a sense of belonging. You walk in a room, and it's full of sad and weak males, you instinctively try to be like them.
I was affected by this, I'm sure a lot of others were too. I have come to the conclusion that you have to maintain your character no matter where you are and come on top of others. A point of being a man, is that yu never conform. Conforming is for women.
I'm sure a lot of you have seen it, the shy awkward girl becomes a slut in order to be accepted by her friends. Or sometimes, a cool laid back girl becomes neurotic in order to fit in her group. It's a women thing, men have to maintain their niche regardless of who they are with cause that's how they are at their maximun attractiveness.
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