I think being dark traid is now about to ruin my entire relationship (need advice)

[Dr. Mog]

Note: I’m 100% serious here and I think I’m going to depression. I got no one else here to vent my life situation here other than you bois here.

Being dark traid has helped me in the past, especially with my ex. The more I ghosted and gave short replies, the more obsessed she was with me. Now with the girl I currently am with is giga HQNP and unlike my ex she actually is the type who ‘knows her worth“.

She fell asleep one late night in the middle of our sexting session but she did inform me and said apologetically that she is sleepy and this triggered my dark traid ego so much I didn‘t even text her like a boyfriend anymore and tbf she had a long day that day at school and was tired and had a test in school tomorrow. She apologised multiple times for this later and told me she got some special pics (nudes) for me at night and instead of being desperate I still ran my dark traid game and ig I now kinda overdid it. Instead that night our convo was just listing out each other‘s red flags and venting.

Now boom! She’s running the dark traid game too. It’s been 2 days where all our texts are just ‘good morning, good afternoon, good night’ from the previous texting with lots of sext, nudes sharing, helping each other out, watching movies together etc and this is bothering me now. She took so good care of me and everything, she woke me up in the morning, helped me with motivation to work and study etc.

Now this has happened twice before and both times I ran the dark traid game of being too busy and both of the times she came to me with apologies (even if it wasn‘t much of her fault)

Please note, ofc there are other fishes in the sea but this isn’t some random OLD foid you find on OnlyToes but this is my onitis for 3 years! I thought I was almost dreaming when she proposed saying she loved me and liked me too ever since we met irl later after a month of catching up with each other.

She was ONE good woman I have had in my life and I don’t wanna lose her for my egos if I am being completely honest. We both know when one of us makes a move we’ll be back with each other happily again. But we are just waiting for each other to make the move. And this time, I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t do it (Or she might idk)
Post this anywhere on cuckdit and I’ll be called an asshole for this (In this scenario i think I am)

Answer the poll and genuinely tell me what would you do in this situation.

Thank you.

 

[thereallegend]

Life is about push/pull

 

[Dr. Mog]

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[Deleted member 17531]

Dude if she's a genuinely good woman do everything you can to keep her, good women are rare
Inb4 muh cuck, it's one thing to abuse and be dark triad towards whores but TRULY good women should be respected imo.
Make up with her bro

 

[Artemis]

Note: I’m 100% serious here and I think I’m going to depression. I got no one else here to vent my life situation here other than you bois here.

Being dark traid has helped me in the past, especially with my ex. The more I ghosted and gave short replies, the more obsessed she was with me. Now with the girl I currently am with is giga HQNP and unlike my ex she actually is the type who ‘knows her worth“.

She fell asleep one late night in the middle of our sexting session but she did inform me and said apologetically that she is sleepy and this triggered my dark traid ego so much I didn‘t even text her like a boyfriend anymore and tbf she had a long day that day at school and was tired and had a test in school tomorrow. She apologised multiple times for this later and told me she got some special pics (nudes) for me at night and instead of being desperate I still ran my dark traid game and ig I now kinda overdid it. Instead that night our convo was just listing out each other‘s red flags and venting.

Now boom! She’s running the dark traid game too. It’s been 2 days where all our texts are just ‘good morning, good afternoon, good night’ from the previous texting with lots of sext, nudes sharing, helping each other out, watching movies together etc and this is bothering me now. She took so good care of me and everything, she woke me up in the morning, helped me with motivation to work and study etc.

Now this has happened twice before and both times I ran the dark traid game of being too busy and both of the times she came to me with apologies (even if it wasn‘t much of her fault)

Please note, ofc there are other fishes in the sea but this isn’t some random OLD foid you find on OnlyToes but this is my onitis for 3 years! I thought I was almost dreaming when she proposed saying she loved me and liked me too ever since we met irl later after a month of catching up with each other.

She was ONE good woman I have had in my life and I don’t wanna lose her for my egos if I am being completely honest. We both know when one of us makes a move we’ll be back with each other happily again. But we are just waiting for each other to make the move. And this time, I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t do it (Or she might idk)
Post this anywhere on cuckdit and I’ll be called an asshole for this (In this scenario i think I am)

Answer the poll and genuinely tell me what would you do in this situation.

Thank you.

I always run the second option.

BUT I ALWAYS lose my women like that

So, if you want to lose her, but stay true to your principles then def. option #2. But if you really like her, don't be a dick, for LTR Redditors are right

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Spoiler: Life saver gang

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Dnrd. Low T if you have to conteplate so much. Just follow your urges.

 

[Dr. Mog]

Dude if she's a genuinely good woman do everything you can to keep her, good women are rare
Inb4 muh cuck, it's one thing to abuse and be dark triad towards whores but TRULY good women should be respected imo.
Make up with her bro

I always run the second option.

BUT I ALWAYS lose my women like that

So, if you want to lose her, but stay true to your principles then def. option #2. But if you really like her, don't be a dick, for LTR Redditors are right

Wish me luck right now bois!!

Imma do it right now at this very minute. I’ll update with this in the new thread.
Bye

 

[Deleted member 22190]

Note: I’m 100% serious here and I think I’m going to depression. I got no one else here to vent my life situation here other than you bois here.

Being dark traid has helped me in the past, especially with my ex. The more I ghosted and gave short replies, the more obsessed she was with me. Now with the girl I currently am with is giga HQNP and unlike my ex she actually is the type who ‘knows her worth“.

She fell asleep one late night in the middle of our sexting session but she did inform me and said apologetically that she is sleepy and this triggered my dark traid ego so much I didn‘t even text her like a boyfriend anymore and tbf she had a long day that day at school and was tired and had a test in school tomorrow. She apologised multiple times for this later and told me she got some special pics (nudes) for me at night and instead of being desperate I still ran my dark traid game and ig I now kinda overdid it. Instead that night our convo was just listing out each other‘s red flags and venting.

Now boom! She’s running the dark traid game too. It’s been 2 days where all our texts are just ‘good morning, good afternoon, good night’ from the previous texting with lots of sext, nudes sharing, helping each other out, watching movies together etc and this is bothering me now. She took so good care of me and everything, she woke me up in the morning, helped me with motivation to work and study etc.

Now this has happened twice before and both times I ran the dark traid game of being too busy and both of the times she came to me with apologies (even if it wasn‘t much of her fault)

Please note, ofc there are other fishes in the sea but this isn’t some random OLD foid you find on OnlyToes but this is my onitis for 3 years! I thought I was almost dreaming when she proposed saying she loved me and liked me too ever since we met irl later after a month of catching up with each other.

She was ONE good woman I have had in my life and I don’t wanna lose her for my egos if I am being completely honest. We both know when one of us makes a move we’ll be back with each other happily again. But we are just waiting for each other to make the move. And this time, I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t do it (Or she might idk)
Post this anywhere on cuckdit and I’ll be called an asshole for this (In this scenario i think I am)

Answer the poll and genuinely tell me what would you do in this situation.

Thank you.

Hmmm.

If she's running the dark triad game back on you, then it could spiral out real fast. When I was 12-13 running the whole redpill game shit, I e-dated multiple 16-17 year old chicks through roleplay/Tyler Durden pfp. You need control over the relationship at all times, regardless of your intentions. You're the MAN, and she likes being told what to do. Right now, you need to show slightly more interest, but DON'T completely go off the dark triad shit, otherwise that's her sign of you surrending, then boom, she's got you on a leash. When she comes back to you and returns to how she was, THEN you can begin to care for her more and show high emotion, because it'll be more organic. Not only will this strengthen your bond and positively reinforce what she's already been doing, but you also didn't crumble under pressure and you'll still be the dominant role of the relationship. This is a big shit test on her behalf. Good luck, brah.

 

[Dr. Mog]

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Hmmm.

If she's running the dark triad game back on you, then it could spiral out real fast. When I was 12-13 running the whole redpill game shit, I e-dated multiple 16-17 year old chicks through roleplay/Tyler Durden pfp. You need control over the relationship at all times, regardless of your intentions. You're the MAN, and she likes being told what to do. Right now, you need to show slightly more interest, but DON'T completely go off the dark triad shit, otherwise that's her sign of you surrending, then boom, she's got you on a leash. When she comes back to you and returns to how she was, THEN you can begin to care for her more and show high emotion, because it'll be more organic. Not only will this strengthen your bond and positively reinforce what she's already been doing, but you also didn't crumble under pressure and you'll still be the dominant role of the relationship. This is a big shit test on her behalf. Good luck, brah.
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thanks brah means a lot

But this time imma take a light traid route cause if imma lose her and I don’t want a whore of a slut in the future lmao this girl is HQNP and it’s only fair if I return the favour of making the first move back like she did previously twice and being light traid for one min…but once we get back in…boom! It’s the game running again

 

[Deleted member 19477]

Jfl at your stupidity. Take her on a weekend trip to reverse the situation, tell her that you were stressed for whatever.

 

[Deleted member 23848]

You def should make up with her, but don't go from Dark Triad to Light at full speed. Take things easy and she'll notice what you are trying to do and follow suit. This way you can keep your ego pretty much intact and won't be seen as desperate (which is bad IMO) but still commited to the relationship's health.

 

[SubSigma]

Lol bro just be dark triad behind the scenes and be normie in person jfl

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Note: I’m 100% serious here and I think I’m going to depression. I got no one else here to vent my life situation here other than you bois here.

Being dark traid has helped me in the past, especially with my ex. The more I ghosted and gave short replies, the more obsessed she was with me. Now with the girl I currently am with is giga HQNP and unlike my ex she actually is the type who ‘knows her worth“.

She fell asleep one late night in the middle of our sexting session but she did inform me and said apologetically that she is sleepy and this triggered my dark traid ego so much I didn‘t even text her like a boyfriend anymore and tbf she had a long day that day at school and was tired and had a test in school tomorrow. She apologised multiple times for this later and told me she got some special pics (nudes) for me at night and instead of being desperate I still ran my dark traid game and ig I now kinda overdid it. Instead that night our convo was just listing out each other‘s red flags and venting.

Now boom! She’s running the dark traid game too. It’s been 2 days where all our texts are just ‘good morning, good afternoon, good night’ from the previous texting with lots of sext, nudes sharing, helping each other out, watching movies together etc and this is bothering me now. She took so good care of me and everything, she woke me up in the morning, helped me with motivation to work and study etc.

Now this has happened twice before and both times I ran the dark traid game of being too busy and both of the times she came to me with apologies (even if it wasn‘t much of her fault)

Please note, ofc there are other fishes in the sea but this isn’t some random OLD foid you find on OnlyToes but this is my onitis for 3 years! I thought I was almost dreaming when she proposed saying she loved me and liked me too ever since we met irl later after a month of catching up with each other.

She was ONE good woman I have had in my life and I don’t wanna lose her for my egos if I am being completely honest. We both know when one of us makes a move we’ll be back with each other happily again. But we are just waiting for each other to make the move. And this time, I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t do it (Or she might idk)
Post this anywhere on cuckdit and I’ll be called an asshole for this (In this scenario i think I am)

Answer the poll and genuinely tell me what would you do in this situation.

Thank you.

this guy has a gf FUCK YOU FAKECEL

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Even if you don't want to ruin the relationship
You shouldn't really let her think she can control you through ignoring you like that tbh. She may think she can get away with more and more

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

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[Enlil]

never change urself for pussy. if she loves you she changes herself for you. your value matters more
t.dark triad

 

[Deleted member 23848]

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[Deleted member 22780]

Just reach. But don’t sound desperate. She wins and will use this against u if you’re desperate

 

[Deleted member 16453]

Ghost her, because you obviously didn’t give her god tier sex and she’s being rebellious, or she’s just too rebellious anyways and not worth it if you already hit that

 

[Jase]

keep running dark triad game doc

 

[vaninskybird]

so all of this started bc she fell asleep during texting, it's kinda stupid that you stayed mad over this
it's really no big deal, i had this happen to me a few times, she likes you g, she would rather pass out from exhaustion than stop talking to you
but ofc, i also understand why you were mad, cus i also got angry when this happened, cus i got jealous and thought she was a hoe

 

[Foreverbrad]

I destroyed my last relationship in basically the same way.

If and when she tells her friends about this, they’ll tell her she can do so much better, things will spiral and she will leave you. If she’s gaming you, you no longer have her in your pocket and you can’t manipulate her.

Listing out each others red flags is the beginning of the end. I wasn’t able to recover it in my case and I have no real advice to give.

Your best bet is probably to try and win her back with some perfect dates, don’t expect to fix this in one action or conversation.

 

[Deleted member 22093]

Anyone telling you that the power dynamic is ruined forever after apologizing has no concept of what a healthy relationship with a genuinely good person is like. If you fuck up you can definitely admit your mistake to her, have a mature conversation about it and move forward with your head held high. When you maintain your looks, treat your girl right, and don't simp too hard she'll forgive you and move on because you're still a man worth respecting that she's attracted to.

 

[RAITEIII]

Jfl at your stupidity. Take her on a weekend trip to reverse the situation, tell her that you were stressed for whatever.

How come ur more knowledgeable about issue resolution although I have like 20k posts and u just greycel

 

[Deleted member 19477]

How come ur more knowledgeable about issue resolution although I have like 20k posts and u just greycel

Dating experience + multiple sources of knowledge

 

[looksmaxxed]

if you have to try and be dark triad or alpha, you're neither. do what comes naturally. you are either dark triad or you're not. if you're not, and your natural inclination is to be a cuck, maybe relationships aren't for you. go see hookers instead

 

[latincell95]

Note: I’m 100% serious here and I think I’m going to depression. I got no one else here to vent my life situation here other than you bois here.

Being dark traid has helped me in the past, especially with my ex. The more I ghosted and gave short replies, the more obsessed she was with me. Now with the girl I currently am with is giga HQNP and unlike my ex she actually is the type who ‘knows her worth“.

She fell asleep one late night in the middle of our sexting session but she did inform me and said apologetically that she is sleepy and this triggered my dark traid ego so much I didn‘t even text her like a boyfriend anymore and tbf she had a long day that day at school and was tired and had a test in school tomorrow. She apologised multiple times for this later and told me she got some special pics (nudes) for me at night and instead of being desperate I still ran my dark traid game and ig I now kinda overdid it. Instead that night our convo was just listing out each other‘s red flags and venting.

Now boom! She’s running the dark traid game too. It’s been 2 days where all our texts are just ‘good morning, good afternoon, good night’ from the previous texting with lots of sext, nudes sharing, helping each other out, watching movies together etc and this is bothering me now. She took so good care of me and everything, she woke me up in the morning, helped me with motivation to work and study etc.

Now this has happened twice before and both times I ran the dark traid game of being too busy and both of the times she came to me with apologies (even if it wasn‘t much of her fault)

Please note, ofc there are other fishes in the sea but this isn’t some random OLD foid you find on OnlyToes but this is my onitis for 3 years! I thought I was almost dreaming when she proposed saying she loved me and liked me too ever since we met irl later after a month of catching up with each other.

She was ONE good woman I have had in my life and I don’t wanna lose her for my egos if I am being completely honest. We both know when one of us makes a move we’ll be back with each other happily again. But we are just waiting for each other to make the move. And this time, I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t do it (Or she might idk)
Post this anywhere on cuckdit and I’ll be called an asshole for this (In this scenario i think I am)

Answer the poll and genuinely tell me what would you do in this situation.

Thank you.

You overdosed on darktriadmaxxing. It’s all about balance. If she’s acting distant/unapologetic, then I will try darktriadmaxxing to reel her back in, now if she apologizes and still texting me back, I wouldn’t try darktriadmaxxing.

 

[ascension]

You can't be dark triad 100% of the time, sometimes you have to be the one to give in or apologise.

You have to keep them on their toes. Shower them with love and affection one day, then ignore her the next day. Just don't overdo either.