I tried to befriend a guy at college and he hated me for no reason

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I was so nice to him. I always said hi and tried to start conversations but he never gave me a chance. He told me considered me a friend but he never had time for me, took so long to reply to texts, rarely initiated conversation with me. Sometimes when we talked he would give me a death stare. Why do people hate me so much? No matter what I do i can’t make friends at college.
 
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Caged
 
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Just a joke I am sorry he treated you that way bro. You really deserved better than that. Don't try to invest in a relationship or romantic or platonic if you see the other person does not show the same investment. You will learn from that lection and rise high king. I really wish you a good friend for the future because it is what you deserve my friend.
 
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opposite for me
 
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Everyone already has a close social circle they never let me in. Fuck this shit.
 
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This might be in your head though.

"never had time for me, took so long to reply to texts,"

Did he already have a solid core of close friends?

Was he an introvert with a drug problem? I'll go weeks without replying to people but I still get happy when I see their texts. If I'm in the middle of a bender I want ZERO interaction with the outside world.

Some people in general are don't take social media/texting interactions seriously.

And the death stare might just be aspie facial expressions
 
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Time to Go ER on his subhuman ass. (In Doom).
 
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This might be in your head though.

"never had time for me, took so long to reply to texts,"

Did he already have a solid core of close friends?

Was he an introvert with a drug problem? I'll go weeks without replying to people but I still get happy when I see their texts. If I'm in the middle of a bender I want ZERO interaction with the outside world.

Some people in general are don't take social media/texting interactions seriously.

And the death stare might just be aspie facial expressions
He was extroverted and nice to everyone so I tried to befriend him cause I thought he’d accept me.

We talked a few time’s a day but he still didn’t consider me even a friend. Then some random tall white guy came and THEY instantly became close friends. I don’t know what I did wrong but it seems it’s my face.
 
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who cares if 1 nigga doesn't want to be ur friend

just befriend everyone you can: the jocks, the nerds, the art niggas, your teachers

mutiple social circles = more parties = more foid fucking oppurtunities

simple math
 
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and yes i've had drinks with my teacher before dedsrs
 
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college? or do you mean uni?
 
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Not unless ur pic was frauded or u descended hard
Was a candid pic so not frauded. I have descended Tbh since that was like 4 years ago. I’m fatter and have worse skin probably from lack of sun.
 
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Once I tried to be nice to a inkwell and he acted strange af
that's why I hate incels
 
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who cares if 1 nigga doesn't want to be ur friend

just befriend everyone you can: the jocks, the nerds, the art niggas, your teachers

mutiple social circles = more parties = more foid fucking oppurtunities

simple math
I think I’ll just try my best to befriend a fellow low status subhuman tbh. But they’re rare here, I swear everyone has friends except me.
 
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Probably already had a solid group of friends dude, and he just saw you as acquaintance, its hard to make friends when most people already have people they fuck with, thats why it's always best to be there from the start, like one of my good friends ive known him for years, since middle school so we have a pretty good connection.
 
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He was extroverted and nice to everyone so I tried to befriend him cause I thought he’d accept me.

We talked a few time’s a day but he still didn’t consider me even a friend. Then some random tall white guy came and THEY instantly became close friends. I don’t know what I did wrong but it seems it’s my face.
You don't need irl friends. You have us on the looksmax forum
 
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Probably already had a solid group of friends dude, and he just saw you as acquaintance, its hard to make friends when most people already have people they fuck with, thats why it's always best to be there from the start, like one of my good friends ive known him for years, since middle school so we have a pretty good connection.
A tall white guy became his friend instantly. It’s my FACE that makes people not wanna be associated with me.
 
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I think I’ll just try my best to befriend a fellow low status subhuman tbh. But they’re rare here, I swear everyone has friends except me.
Your best bet is to find someone who doesn't have a social circle/friends like you do, or you get lucky and find a very nice group of guys who will welcome you in their group. If you think it has something to do with your looks it doesn't. Even people you would consider "ugly" have lots of friends.
 
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Serious question, are you catastrophizing?
He called me a friend once but he was just being nice probably to bait me. But imo he didn’t think I was a friend.
 
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He thought you were ugly. Happens to me to bro :feelsbadman:
 
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A tall white guy became his friend instantly. It’s my FACE that makes people not wanna be associated with me.
Why do you think they are best buddies now or something, do you see them hang out 24/7? Do you see them texting each other 24/7? You don't know shit about anything and you're overthinking. If i knew you IRL i'd gladly be your friend and hang out with you, I don't care how you look like as long as you don't smell like shit. Also not a toxic asshole.
 
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Why do you think they are best buddies now or something, do you see them hang out 24/7? Do you see them texting each other 24/7? You don't know shit about anything and you're overthinking. If i knew you IRL i'd gladly be your friend and hang out with you, I don't care how you look like as long as you don't smell like shit. Also not a toxic asshole.
They always sat next to each other in classes so he preferred him over me. I saw them having a conversation in library for 30 minutes between periods. We never had a conversation that long. I think I’m just extremely autistic and ugly at this point.
 
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I was so nice to him. I always said hi and tried to start conversations but he never gave me a chance. He told me considered me a friend but he never had time for me, took so long to reply to texts, rarely initiated conversation with me. Sometimes when we talked he would give me a death stare. Why do people hate me so much? No matter what I do i can’t make friends at college.
It’s over
 
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Bro you're overthinking it.
Lol bro my friend introduced me to one of his friends and when I went to dap him up he looked super uncomfortable. Shit was so brief you could tell they didn’t want me in their circle.
 
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Lol bro my friend introduced me to one of his friends and when I went to dap him up he looked super uncomfortable. Shit was so brief you could tell they didn’t want me in their circle.
And then that friend eventually ditched me anyways. The coincidence is all his other friends look better than be.
 
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They always sat next to each other in classes so he preferred him over me. I saw them having a conversation in library for 30 minutes between periods. We never had a conversation that long. I think I’m just extremely autistic and ugly at this point.
It's not your looks. It's your social skills i bet,Stop using your looks as an excuse. Only a complete faggot would not want to be your friend because of your looks, you don't need to look like Chico to have a social circle. I've seen guys that most psl autists on this forum would consider ugly having tons of friends and good loyal friend group.
 
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Bro you're overthinking it.
it happens to some of us. i always wondered why people were colder to me compared to other people but after discovering this site i realized it was my looks.
 
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I think I’ll just try my best to befriend a fellow low status subhuman tbh. But they’re rare here, I swear everyone has friends except me.
good luck brother
 
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It's not your looks. It's your social skills i bet,Stop using your looks as an excuse. Only a complete faggot would not want to be your friend because of your looks, you don't need to look like Chico to have a social circle. I've seen guys that most psl autists on this forum would consider ugly having tons of friends and good loyal friend group.
You don’t know their role in that social circle. Who knows. Some people are more forgiving of looks, some aren’t.
 
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it happens to some of us. i always wondered why people were colder to me compared to other people but after discovering this site i realized it was my looks.
So many times before we even spoke, they’d give me death stares and act very cold. I noticed this especially with white guys who deemed me inferior. I wasn’t fit for their social circle cause my face would lower their status.
 
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You don’t know their role in that social circle. Who knows. Some people are more forgiving of looks, some aren’t.
Nigga, how bad do you fucking look for someone to not want to be your friend? Are you medusa or something? Most guys will NOT give a fuck as long as you're a chill dude. and not a social retard. @BigBoy @Traumatised @getra rate your social skills from 1 to 10 right now.

Obviously if you're comically ugly they arent going to hook you up with girls or something.
 
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You're delusional if you think looks are important for male friendships. Please get out of this delusional mindset. this mindset alone is making you a social retard.
Looks=status

Having good face and/or height halos your personality. Increases chances of people wanting to be associated with you cause subconsciously they tie ur looks to status. Every human cares about looks even for their friends. Why do most good looking guys only have other good looking friends?
 
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Nigga, how bad do you fucking look for someone to not want to be your friend? Are you medusa or something? Most guys will NOT give a fuck as long as you're a chill dude. and not a social retard. @BigBoy @Traumatised @getra rate your social skills from 1 to 10 right now.

Obviously if you're comically ugly they arent going to hook you up with girls or something.
Guys will ignore what u have to say if ur ugly. In high school this popular guy would alienate 3 really ugly guys from his social circle and make everyone hate them. FOR NO REASON. He said he didn’t wanna be associated with them. Every guy cares. why do popular guys bully ugly guys? Why do ugly guys end up together? Looks=status
 
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Nigga, how bad do you fucking look for someone to not want to be your friend? Are you medusa or something? Most guys will NOT give a fuck as long as you're a chill dude. and not a social retard. @BigBoy @Traumatised @getra rate your social skills from 1 to 10 right now.

Obviously if you're comically ugly they arent going to hook you up with girls or something.
My social skills were pretty decent until highschool when everyone started shitting on me. Severely stunted me.
 
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Having good face and/or height halos your personality. Increases chances of people wanting to be associated with you cause subconsciously they tie ur looks to status. Every human cares about looks even for their friends. Why do most good looking guys only have other good looking friends?
I know i'm not going to get to you because you're so far into the hole, i used to have this mindset, and i was a loner and my social skills were shit. Now i'm more social and have way more friends and hang out with people like i did in middle school when i didnt let the "lookism" shit get to my head and didnt stay on the internet and play videogames all day. The more you're stuck with this mindset the more lonely and social retarded you will be. Make your choice and good luck.
 
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My social skills were pretty decent until highschool when everyone started shitting on me. Severely stunted me.
I leaned down and masculinised from 13-14 and guys started treating me better and respecting me. Guys who hated me before started being nice to me for no reason. They were Hererosexual btw. It’s crazy how much looks matter for everything in life. It’s such an advantage.
 
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I leaned down and masculinised from 13-14 and guys started treating me better and respecting me. Guys who hated me before started being nice to me for no reason. They were Hererosexual btw. It’s crazy how much looks matter for everything in life. It’s such an advantage.
Being fat is a failo regardless but when your face is fucked up Jesus Christ
 
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I know i'm not going to get to you because you're so far into the hole, i used to have this mindset, and i was a loner and my social skills were shit. Now i'm more social and have way more friends and hang out with people like i did in middle school when i didnt let the "lookism" shit get to my head and stayed on the internet and played videogames all day. The more you're stuck with this mindset the more lonely and social retarded you will be. Make your choice and good luck.
I’m not saying looks are everything for friendships. Of course your personality will matter a great deal such that autism will make you hated. But looks do affect your perceived status, there’s no denying that. So the uglier you are the harder it is and the more you have to compensate with personality. I’m trying to improve my social skills rn and I’ll see what happens This year.
 
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I’m not saying looks are everything for friendships. Of course your personality will matter a great deal such that autism will make you hated. But looks do affect your perceived status, there’s no denying that. So the uglier you are the harder it is and the more you have to compensate with personality. I’m trying to improve my social skills rn and I’ll see what happens This year.
When you learn how to talk to people then come back and tell me how your experiences have changed, also try to make friends with people that share the same interests as you and not assholes.
 
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