I tried to kiss a girl at the end of the date and she just showed me cheek

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I met her on tinder. Today was our second date. It was cool, fine, we had a coffee talk a bit and generally had a good time. I just didn’t escalate intimacy and didnt even hug her. I am awkward when it comes to this. When I was getting out of her car and want to kiss her she turned her head in case i wont kiss her lips. Is it over for me? I mean she seems interested but we didnt get physical yet so idk.
 
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Brutal
Looks like you read the moment wrong
Happened to me many times

Try going for some hand holding first then maybe a compliment ( you’re eyes are pretty) and touch her hair if she responds well then lean in for a kiss

don’t just attack her like some desperate autistic retard
 
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did you end up kissing her on the cheeks or nah?
 
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Brutal
Looks like you read the moment wrong
Happened to me many times

Try going for some hand holding first then maybe a compliment ( you’re eyes are pretty) and touch her hair if she responds well then lean in for a kiss

don’t just attack her like some desperate autistic retard
actual advice from kamina wasnt expecting that tbbh
 
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Brutal
Looks like you read the moment wrong
Happened to me many times

Try going for some hand holding first then maybe a compliment ( you’re eyes are pretty) and touch her hair if she responds well then lean in for a kiss

don’t just attack her like some desperate autistic retard
It wasnt attack. It was supposed to be a goodbye kiss
 
It wasnt attack. It was supposed to be a goodbye kiss
Ya but for a first time it shouldn’t be so abrupt just cus she’s leaving doesn’t mean you have to kiss her

just act normal, be romantic when the disruption calls for it
 
Brutal
Looks like you read the moment wrong
Happened to me many times

Try going for some hand holding first then maybe a compliment ( you’re eyes are pretty) and touch her hair if she responds well then lean in for a kiss

don’t just attack her like some desperate autistic retard
Legit advice no matter how cringe it may seem to you girls are low IQ and eat this shit up
 
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Ya but for a first time it shouldn’t be so abrupt just cus she’s leaving doesn’t mean you have to kiss her

just act normal, be romantic when the disruption calls for it
Ye all was good on date. I just dont know how to escalate physical contact. I dont want to creep her out
 
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Brutal
Looks like you read the moment wrong
Happened to me many times

Try going for some hand holding first then maybe a compliment ( you’re eyes are pretty) and touch her hair if she responds well then lean in for a kiss

don’t just attack her like some desperate autistic retard
 
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Ye all was good on date. I just dont know how to escalate physical contact. I dont want to creep her out
I just told you how read the first post donkey
 
At least she didnt happily agree to meet and let me stand alone 3 hours before i wanted to pick her up, postpones the date and says she will text me when whe has time and then never text again like my oneitis
 
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Im sorry bro. Unless you are still developing I think it may be over. Also if you are a non-Chad male the last thing you ever wanna do in your life, is force a girl to kiss you.

Just be a volcel until you ascend (most likely by surgery) can be a good idea too if you arent too much of a romantic.
 
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I just told you how read the first post donkey
Ya but for a first time it shouldn’t be so abrupt just cus she’s leaving doesn’t mean you have to kiss her

just act normal, be romantic when the disruption calls for it
Okey i m gonna try this if we meet up
again. (If we do JFL)
 
At least she didnt happily agree to meet and let me stand alone 3 hours before i wanted to pick her up, postpones the date and says she will text me when whe has time and then never text again like my oneitis

Brutal, your oneitis ghosted you?
 
Nice, she has to be at least somewhat attracted to you to let her kiss her on the cheeks.
Maybe she is shy to escalate physical so she waits for me to do it. In the end i am the man. I think she is attracted to me cuz yesterday she invited me via text message to her place. I declined cuz I had work to do. It was at night.
 
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Brutal, your oneitis ghosted you?
I dont understand it lmao she was so happy and acting excited when i asked her Out and then on the day says she wants to postpone and said shes gonna text me just fucking lol

Why a re women so fucking gay cruel like what the fuck i was the happiest person on earth for 4 days just to get mentally killed
 
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tbh you should escalate do sexting
and irl be ultra lowinhib and take her hands. You see her irl say hi hahaha, with a good voice, and give hera kiss and take her hands.
 
tbh you should escalate do sexting
and irl be ultra lowinhib and take her hands. You see her irl say hi hahaha, with a good voice, and give hera kiss and take her hands.
imo sexting would be cope here. I would come off as a creepy weirdo nerd who can’t escalate intimacy irl so does it online
 
Maybe she is shy to escalate physical so she waits for me to do it. In the end i am the man. I think she is attracted to me cuz yesterday she invited me via text message to her place. I declined cuz I had work to do. It was at night.

Yeah, if she's texting you inviting you at night to her place she's pretty clearly attracted to you.
 
Yes, it was a bit awkward that she drove me home Jfl. I dont even have driving license.

jfl she's even driving you. She wants you boyo.
 
I dont understand it lmao she was so happy and acting excited when i asked her Out and then on the day says she wants to postpone and said shes gonna text me just fucking lol

Why a re women so fucking gay cruel like what the fuck i was the happiest person on earth for 4 days just to get mentally killed

Brutal, so she hasn't texted you since then?
 
Ye but maybe she is just polite. She seems like a good girl

Well then it makes sense why she didn't want to kiss you on the lips then. If she's driving you home, letting you kiss her on the cheeks, and inviting you over to her place those are all signs of interest.
 
Also she was along the way so it was just a little favor
 
Brutal, so she hasn't texted you since then?
Nope its been a week now literally 0 I cant understand it wtf she used hella smileys and shit like im not.falling in love again worst.mistake ever
 
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Well then it makes sense why she didn't want to kiss you on the lips then. If she's driving you home, letting you kiss her on the cheeks, and inviting you over to her place those are all signs of interest.
Maybe i took too much of a red pill. All these youtube channels like AMS, Darius M say that if a woman is interested in you she will sleep with u on a first date. That maybe true but they generalize too much. Every girl is little bit different. And also we are only 18 years old JFL
 
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Maybe i took too much of a red pill. All these youtube channels like AMS, Darius M say that if a woman is interested in you she will sleep with u on a first date. That maybe true but they generalize too much. Every girl is little bit different. And also we are only 18 years old JFL

Only if she's a giant degenerate whore and those girls aren't worth being with either anyways.
 
Nope its been a week now literally 0 I cant understand it wtf she used hella smileys and shit like im not.falling in love again worst.mistake ever

Seems really strange maybe something happened in her personal life. To go from clearly attracted to you to ghosting you in such a short span of time doesn't make any sense but at the same token girls aren't exactly logical jfl.
 
Seems really strange maybe something happened in her personal life. To go from clearly attracted to you to ghosting you in such a short span of time doesn't make any sense but at the same token girls aren't exactly logical jfl.
She still snaps me and i snap her like wtf but she snaps like 100 people at once so

Its weird as fuck idk whats wrong
 
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Only if she's a giant degenerate whore and those girls aren't worth being with either anyways.
She seems like a really valuable person. She is interested in sports, she has animal husbandry, she cooks custom birthday cakes for people, she travels a lot and she wants to become a surgeon in the future. She is a complete opposite of a degenerate whore JFL I didnt expect to meet this type of girl on tinder tbh. Her only disadvantage is that she is short :/
 
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She still snaps me and i snap her like wtf but she snaps like 100 people at once so

Its weird as fuck idk whats wrong

Don't like the sound of that, it could be that she's texting and making plans with a bunch of guys at once and stringing y'all along.
 
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Don't like the sound of that, it could be that she's texting and making plans with a bunch of guys at once and stringing y'all along.
Nah i dont think so she never had a BF before we went to the same school for 7 years
 
She seems like a really valuable person. She is interested in sports, she has animal husbandry, she cooks custom birthday cakes for people, she travels a lot and she wants to become a surgeon in the future. She is a complete opposite of a degenerate whore JFL I didnt expect to meet this type of girl on tinder tbh. Her only disadvantage is that she is short :/

Yeah, she sounds nice and I wouldn't try to rush things and do something creepy. Right now she seems attracted to you so I'd stick the course.
 
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Jump off a cliff fam
 
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Nah i dont think so she never had a BF before we went to the same school for 7 years
Don’t let her disrespect you. If she postpones a date its a clear sign that u are not the priority. I would get rid of her
 
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Don’t let her disrespect you. If she postpones a date its a clear sign that u are not the priority. I would get rid of her
Yes indeed, if she would text me now which is very unlikely i would be pissed as fuck

Last thing we wrote: its fine, just tell me when youve got time :)

"Oki, will do :)"

0 since then serious ropefuel
 
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Don’t let her disrespect you. If she postpones a date its a clear sign that u are not the priority. I would get rid of her
She didnt exactly postpone like she had an excuse she forgot about a important party she wanted to attend that day so I offered her to go.out next week
 
She didnt exactly postpone like she had an excuse she forgot about a important party she wanted to attend that day so I offered her to go.out next week
If she postpones for whatever reason, she should be the one to offer the next time..
 
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She didnt exactly postpone like she had an excuse she forgot about a important party she wanted to attend that day so I offered her to go.out next week
Don’t be so desperate dudes. There are many women that would truly want you. Just don’t waste ur time
 
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Had nothing to do with her but had a few classes together. I just asked her out since I saw her on a party surprisngley

So you asked her out at a party and she said yes and then you exchanged numbers? Or did you first ask for her number and then ask her out through text?
 
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So you asked her out at a party and she said yes and then you exchanged numbers? Or did you first ask for her number and then ask her out through text?
We snapped before, after the party i asked her out on snap she was happy as fuck
 
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Yes indeed, if she would text me now which is very unlikely i would be pissed as fuck

Last thing we wrote: its fine, just tell me when youve got time :)

"Oki, will do :)"

0 since then serious ropefuel

Brutal, I would've tried to arrange another date- something like when are you free, does next weekend work for you?
 
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Brutal, I would've tried to arrange another date- something like when are you free, does next weekend work for you?
Yea ik she said shes gonna text me when she knows when shes got time so i expected her to do so

Im definetely not bothering texting again in that case
 
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