Paroxysm
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I was lurking reddit before, and I caught on a pattern that women often use when justifying why they don't date set X of people who are shorter than 6', set Y of people who have progressed further than NW1, etc
From a reddit foid:
"I used to not care about height either — like genuinely, it didn’t phase me at all. Then I dated two short guys (5’3” and 5’5”, respectively) who were massively insecure about their height and they made it a huge issue. Also, they both cheated on me and were both generally shitty boyfriends. I’m sure there are some shorter guys out there who are decent, but the two weirdos I dated put me off short men entirely. It wasn’t the height itself that repelled me; it was their toxic insecurity."
These stories are bullshit. 99% of them are utter bullshit. It's a little story they make up because putting out their skyhigh standards like that is more socially acceptable than just saying "yeah a man needs to be in the 90th percentile of this and that for me to even consider him". They always make up a bullshit story in which THEY somehow were the victims (female mental gymnastics are insane) to justify why they won't even consider X or Y.
"I used to not care about height, but then I dated this short guy and..."
"I used to not care about balding, but then I dated this balding guy and..."
"I used to not care about penis size, but then I dated this guy with an average penis and..."
Reminder that you need to max out on every real life stat you have. Everything matters. In the dating app era, tenfold more so than before. Women are ruthless and they're constantly judging and comparing you. Even the "loving girlfriend / wife" you're convinced of having.
From a reddit foid:
"I used to not care about height either — like genuinely, it didn’t phase me at all. Then I dated two short guys (5’3” and 5’5”, respectively) who were massively insecure about their height and they made it a huge issue. Also, they both cheated on me and were both generally shitty boyfriends. I’m sure there are some shorter guys out there who are decent, but the two weirdos I dated put me off short men entirely. It wasn’t the height itself that repelled me; it was their toxic insecurity."
These stories are bullshit. 99% of them are utter bullshit. It's a little story they make up because putting out their skyhigh standards like that is more socially acceptable than just saying "yeah a man needs to be in the 90th percentile of this and that for me to even consider him". They always make up a bullshit story in which THEY somehow were the victims (female mental gymnastics are insane) to justify why they won't even consider X or Y.
"I used to not care about height, but then I dated this short guy and..."
"I used to not care about balding, but then I dated this balding guy and..."
"I used to not care about penis size, but then I dated this guy with an average penis and..."
Reminder that you need to max out on every real life stat you have. Everything matters. In the dating app era, tenfold more so than before. Women are ruthless and they're constantly judging and comparing you. Even the "loving girlfriend / wife" you're convinced of having.