ElySioNs
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I walked in on my girlfriend of nearly 5 years and her ex in my bed
I can't say i'm in the best headspace right now so I'm not sure how readable this will be.
My ex [24F] cheated on me [25M] this weekend with her ex boyfriend in my bed and I almost feel disappointed - not that she cheated, but that she did it with *him*.
In my head I've always assumed it's the super-chad who fucks the cheating girls so I thought it would be some 6'6, 8 pack, horse-dicked man who'd be fucking my girl if she cheated but it just isn't true. This guy is 5'7, maybe 65kgs of mainly gut and had a below average sized dick from the little I saw before I left. She didn't even look or sound like she was enjoying it when I walked in.
I just don't get why she'd throw away almost 5 years with me for such a lame fuck.
When me and her first got together all of her friends used to say how she had "upgraded" because in all aspects I am better than her ex and without sounding too up my own ass I believe it. Physically I have no confidence issues and emotionally I think i'm available, I don't get closed off and i'm fine to talk about how things make me or her feel.
Since I caught them together on Saturday, I kicked her out of my house and told her we were done. She's now staying at her sister's place. I have literally 43 voice messages in my inbox, dozens of emails and texts but I just don't feel like replying. She's already dead to me so why should I care about what she has to say. Nothing she says will make up for the betrayak. I've got my house key back from her, but I'll probably end up changing my locks anyways at some point.
I've talked to her mum over the phone and explained to her what I walked in on and saw. All she did was apologise over and over again for her daughter's actions and semi-begged me to forgive her.
I thought this was the girl i'd marry and have my children with. I know that i'm still 'young' and there are plenty more good girls out there, but I almost don't have the energy to bother starting over.
As ridiculous as it might seem, i'm just disappointed that she chose this fucking loser to be the thing to end our otherwise great relationship. I'd rather it be some demi-god i'd never match up to rather than some pathetic manbaby, because then at least somewhere in my head I could be like "oh, I guess that makes sense".
I can't say i'm in the best headspace right now so I'm not sure how readable this will be.
My ex [24F] cheated on me [25M] this weekend with her ex boyfriend in my bed and I almost feel disappointed - not that she cheated, but that she did it with *him*.
In my head I've always assumed it's the super-chad who fucks the cheating girls so I thought it would be some 6'6, 8 pack, horse-dicked man who'd be fucking my girl if she cheated but it just isn't true. This guy is 5'7, maybe 65kgs of mainly gut and had a below average sized dick from the little I saw before I left. She didn't even look or sound like she was enjoying it when I walked in.
I just don't get why she'd throw away almost 5 years with me for such a lame fuck.
When me and her first got together all of her friends used to say how she had "upgraded" because in all aspects I am better than her ex and without sounding too up my own ass I believe it. Physically I have no confidence issues and emotionally I think i'm available, I don't get closed off and i'm fine to talk about how things make me or her feel.
Since I caught them together on Saturday, I kicked her out of my house and told her we were done. She's now staying at her sister's place. I have literally 43 voice messages in my inbox, dozens of emails and texts but I just don't feel like replying. She's already dead to me so why should I care about what she has to say. Nothing she says will make up for the betrayak. I've got my house key back from her, but I'll probably end up changing my locks anyways at some point.
I've talked to her mum over the phone and explained to her what I walked in on and saw. All she did was apologise over and over again for her daughter's actions and semi-begged me to forgive her.
I thought this was the girl i'd marry and have my children with. I know that i'm still 'young' and there are plenty more good girls out there, but I almost don't have the energy to bother starting over.
As ridiculous as it might seem, i'm just disappointed that she chose this fucking loser to be the thing to end our otherwise great relationship. I'd rather it be some demi-god i'd never match up to rather than some pathetic manbaby, because then at least somewhere in my head I could be like "oh, I guess that makes sense".
