I wanna at least try

I've discovered looksmaxxing in early 2022 and I've been obsessed with it ever since, but i never actually tried to lock in and do something about my looks and I've been LDAR for 4 years now. Im 18 and a manlet (5'6) and a borderline LTN (sub5 in another word) and im a loser in every way possible and got no job, friends, and no personality. And all of this made me lose faith in my religion and blaming God for how fucked up my genetics. and I've considered roping multiple times before. because i believed that looks are truly about genetics and there's nothing you can do about it. I wanna at least try even if it's just cope. If nothing ever changes by the end of the year I'll just rope and end it all, and before i end it all i wanna know that i at least tried my best. If anything nit gonna go according to the plan I'll just make sure to DNR and die alone because passing i would never want this curse to happen even to my worst enemy.
 
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At 5'6 there's really not much you can do. Maybe start saving up to get LL to 5'10. Consider taking a lot of loans you'll need it.
 
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Maxillular said:
At 5'6 there's really not much you can do. Maybe start saving up to get LL to 5'10. Consider taking a lot of loans you'll need it.
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I'll keep that in my mind, But i will try to do my research for anything possible before consider having any surgery. Thanks tho.
 
lwkshamesa said:
I'll keep that in my mind, But i will try to do my research for anything possible before consider having any surgery. Thanks tho.
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Don’t kill yourself man, that is never the thing to do. Enjoy yourself and get out there and do things you wanna do.

In terms of softmaxxes what you can do:

- Lose bf (don’t starve like a retard)
- get a haircut that compliments your face shape
- if you can grow facial hair, then grow a goatee (good for appeal at your age, I’m 20 and I just grew mine out for the first time and I stg I have ascended a little)
- sort your eyebrows out, dye them, and if they need thickening use latisse (never used this personally, but I’ve heard it’s good, remember to do your research)
- whatever race you are, appealmax within that race (if you’re black get dreads etc)
- get better clothes (people on this site undermine the power of style (yes it’s not as effective as height or face, of course)
- Go outside and interact with more people, and get into a social circle. You aren’t Chad, women won’t come up to you, and you aren’t good looking enough to cold approach, so with a warmer approach you’ll have more success

Anything else that I’ve missed, in terms of softmaxxing, someone fill in for me.

Another important thing, that 99% of people on this site neglect, is their mental health. Look after yourself mate, even if no one likes you (as you stated/ inferred (can’t remember which one)), like yourself. You say you have no personality, but if you separated yourself from your character, (as you are the same person inside) you’d look at yourself and think how good of friends you what to be with that person. You are cared about and loved, stop putting yourself down.

I wish you the best of luck with your ascension. Stay safe.
 
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similar position, found out abt looksmaxxing forever ago gained tons knowledge but jst ldard, now applying it all and acending. anything is possible tbh use insoles to larp 5'9
 
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Endoplasmic82 said:
Don’t kill yourself man, that is never the thing to do. Enjoy yourself and get out there and do things you wanna do.

In terms of softmaxxes what you can do:

- Lose bf (don’t starve like a retard)
- get a haircut that compliments your face shape
- if you can grow facial hair, then grow a goatee (good for appeal at your age, I’m 20 and I just grew mine out for the first time and I stg I have ascended a little)
- sort your eyebrows out, dye them, and if they need thickening use latisse (never used this personally, but I’ve heard it’s good, remember to do your research)
- whatever race you are, appealmax within that race (if you’re black get dreads etc)
- get better clothes (people on this site undermine the power of style (yes it’s not as effective as height or face, of course)
- Go outside and interact with more people, and get into a social circle. You aren’t Chad, women won’t come up to you, and you aren’t good looking enough to cold approach, so with a warmer approach you’ll have more success

Anything else that I’ve missed, in terms of softmaxxing, someone fill in for me.

Another important thing, that 99% of people on this site neglect, is their mental health. Look after yourself mate, even if no one likes you (as you stated/ inferred (can’t remember which one)), like yourself. You say you have no personality, but if you separated yourself from your character, (as you are the same person inside) you’d look at yourself and think how good of friends you what to be with that person. You are cared about and loved, stop putting yourself down.

I wish you the best of luck with your ascension. Stay safe.
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Appreciate the advice brother, but the problem is in my bones, i have long hair and facel hair (goatee and a mustache) it's true that it made me look a bit better, but it doesn't change the im recessed asf(maxila and no chin projection and with big nose as well) but I'll try to do something about it even if it's cope, again thanks again for the advice and I'll try to work on my personality and the way i think of myself.
 
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maxyacends said:
similar position, found out abt looksmaxxing forever ago gained tons knowledge but jst ldard, now applying it all and acending. anything is possible tbh use insoles to larp 5'9
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How old are you?
 
lwkshamesa said:
Appreciate the advice brother, but the problem is in my bones, i have long hair and facel hair (goatee and a mustache) it's true that it made me look a bit better, but it doesn't change the im recessed asf(maxila and no chin projection and with big nose as well) but I'll try to do something about it even if it's cope, again thanks again for the advice and I'll try to work on my personality and the way i think of myself.
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Try and shape your chin hairs to mirror a forwardly grown chin, I always see so many blacks doing it, and it honestly works.

No need to thank me mate, I’m so tired of seeing hopeless people giving shitty advice on here, in order to drag others down to their level.

My Uni therapist gave me a good analogy regarding the way I think. Imagine there is a dirt path. The more people walk on it (aka the more you think bad about yourself) the more pronounced that path will become, and therefore it will invite more people to use that path and walk over it (more negative thoughts). If you catch yourself being mean to yourself (aka about to walk over the path), stop yourself. Allow nature to take over that path and spout a tree, and then the more you stop yourself, the less pronounced that path will become, allowing the tree to go.

The trick is to catch yourself in the act. It could even be the smallest thing, for example if you forget something in your room and you think to yourself “I’m an idiot”. No you aren’t an idiot, you did something idiotic, that one even (or even multiple) does not define YOU as an idiot.

Hope you find some success with this advice, it really has helped me personally.

Stay safe bro
 
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Endoplasmic82 said:
Try and shape your chin hairs to mirror a forwardly grown chin, I always see so many blacks doing it, and it honestly works.

No need to thank me mate, I’m so tired of seeing hopeless people giving shitty advice on here, in order to drag others down to their level.

My Uni therapist gave me a good analogy regarding the way I think. Imagine there is a dirt path. The more people walk on it (aka the more you think bad about yourself) the more pronounced that path will become, and therefore it will invite more people to use that path and walk over it (more negative thoughts). If you catch yourself being mean to yourself (aka about to walk over the path), stop yourself. Allow nature to take over that path and spout a tree, and then the more you stop yourself, the less pronounced that path will become, allowing the tree to go.

The trick is to catch yourself in the act. It could even be the smallest thing, for example if you forget something in your room and you think to yourself “I’m an idiot”. No you aren’t an idiot, you did something idiotic, that one even (or even multiple) does not define YOU as an idiot.

Hope you find some success with this advice, it really has helped me personally.

Stay safe bro
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I'll try and reshape the hair on my chin and see how it goes, and your advice about the way of thinking sounds really great bro I'll try to change my mindset with this. And again thank you for the advice and stay safe.
 
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lwkshamesa said:
I'll try and reshape the hair on my chin and see how it goes, and your advice about the way of thinking sounds really great bro I'll try to change my mindset with this. And again thank you for the advice and stay safe.
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Good luck young man!
 
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maxyacends said:
18 still young but not that young, cant use im still young as an excuse to rot
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You already got the knowledge bro, you only need to just give it your all this time.
 
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