i wanna be able to just enjoy my relationship

[Deleted member 86840]

she gives me so much love and is always excited to talk to me, always sending me videos and always so silly

i want to express myself equally and show her that i really love her but i know that if i do the spark will fade, that’s just the way it works man

you have to be distant for them to actually love you, i know if i lost her right now i’d fall in guilt due to not actually expressing myself love for her and making it seem one sided, but at the same time it’s the only way i can actually make this relationship’s spark live

girls only love men who barely love them back and i find that horrible because i really do love her equally if not a lot more

 

[Deleted member 86840]

over

 

[Deleted member 276814]

She has to be attracted to you for her to like you. If she is you can almost do whatever the fuck you want and she will still like you assuming she is very attracted to you and not just moderately attracted to you

 

[registerfasterusing]

she gives me so much love and is always excited to talk to me, always sending me videos and always so silly

i want to express myself equally and show her that i really love her but i know that if i do the spark will fade, that’s just the way it works man

you have to be distant for them to actually love you, i know if i lost her right now i’d fall in guilt due to not actually expressing myself love for her and making it seem one sided, but at the same time it’s the only way i can actually make this relationship’s spark live

girls only love men who barely love them back and i find that horrible because i really do love her equally if not a lot more

agreed

 

[browncurrycel]

Tell her you love her like you mean it when you guys are having sex and she's about to orgasm

That should probably get her more attached to you and you get to show her some form of affection

 

[Deleted member 86840]

Tell her you love her like you mean it when you guys are having sex and she's about to orgasm

That should probably get her more attached to you and you get to show her some form of affection

that would work but

i mean it in a way that i wanted to show my love innocently, little things like just text her excitedly, show her how obsessed i am with her, act like a kid around her because i’m comfortable

but i’m really just forced to stay quiet and act careless to keep the spark, and this goes for any type of women, they only really feel attracted if you barely love them back

 

[intovoid]

that would work but

i mean it in a way that i wanted to show my love innocently, little things like just text her excitedly, show her how obsessed i am with her, act like a kid around her because i’m comfortable

but i’m really just forced to stay quiet and act careless to keep the spark, and this goes for any type of women, they only really feel attracted if you barely love them back

I’ve been in the exact situation as you, and the best thing you can do for yourself rn is to channel that passion to your life goals. She likes you now because she sees you as a guy who’s going places in life, not because you made her the highlight of it

 

[m0ss26]

I’ve been in the exact situation as you, and the best thing you can do for yourself rn is to channel that passion to your life goals. She likes you now because she sees you as a guy who’s going places in life, not because you made her the highlight of it

who is ur pfp? looks like a nana character for some reason

 

[intovoid]

who is ur pfp? looks like a nana character for some reason

You’re right, it’s Takumi from Nana

 

[m0ss26]

she gives me so much love and is always excited to talk to me, always sending me videos and always so silly

i want to express myself equally and show her that i really love her but i know that if i do the spark will fade, that’s just the way it works man

you have to be distant for them to actually love you, i know if i lost her right now i’d fall in guilt due to not actually expressing myself love for her and making it seem one sided, but at the same time it’s the only way i can actually make this relationship’s spark live

girls only love men who barely love them back and i find that horrible because i really do love her equally if not a lot more

i made the mistake of not being distant enough when she loved me. Fucking hell man. It might be salvageable now but I know I have to be distant and colder, it really sucks not being able to show how much you love them

 

[m0ss26]

You’re right, it’s Takumi from Nana

fucking shoot me that manga always reminds me of her

at least Takumi is based as fuck

 

[Deleted member 256938]

sad but true

 

[Vantablack]

she gives me so much love and is always excited to talk to me, always sending me videos and always so silly

i want to express myself equally and show her that i really love her but i know that if i do the spark will fade, that’s just the way it works man

you have to be distant for them to actually love you, i know if i lost her right now i’d fall in guilt due to not actually expressing myself love for her and making it seem one sided, but at the same time it’s the only way i can actually make this relationship’s spark live

girls only love men who barely love them back and i find that horrible because i really do love her equally if not a lot more

that would work but

i mean it in a way that i wanted to show my love innocently, little things like just text her excitedly, show her how obsessed i am with her, act like a kid around her because i’m comfortable

but i’m really just forced to stay quiet and act careless to keep the spark, and this goes for any type of women, they only really feel attracted if you barely love them back

i made the mistake of not being distant enough when she loved me. Fucking hell man. It might be salvageable now but I know I have to be distant and colder, it really sucks not being able to show how much you love them

yeah i get exactly what you mean, the more you show you love them the more they pull back. women are brutal to be around.

 

[intovoid]

i made the mistake of not being distant enough when she loved me. Fucking hell man. It might be salvageable now but I know I have to be distant and colder, it really sucks not being able to show how much you love them

you gotta stay busy to keep her chasing long-term, if you’re avoiding her just because eventually the emotional attachment is gonna creep up on you and the relationship turns into more of a liability than a bonus

 

[m0ss26]

you gotta stay busy to keep her chasing long-term, if you’re avoiding her just because eventually the emotional attachment is gonna creep up on you and the relationship turns into more of a liability than a bonus

yea im busy by default cause im a fighter I have to focus on training all day and school

but we're basically intermittently no contact, maybe talk once every few months since she's across the country rn among other very odd circumstances in the long ass story that led me here

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

Are you fucking 6'8 and CL per chance? Seriously though just do it back, either she desperately wants you to or she stops liking you, if so she was never worth having, and if all foids turn out to be like that then relationships are not worth having. My point is stop being a little bitch and actually and show affection/validation it is what humans live off of.

 

[Deleted member 86840]

Are you fucking 6'8 and CL per chance? Seriously though just do it back, either she desperately wants you to or she stops liking you, if so she was never worth having, and if all foids turn out to be like that then relationships are not worth having. My point is stop being a little bitch and actually and show affection/validation it is what humans live off of.

5’8 mtn

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

5’8 mtn

Oh just break up then jfl. Unless you have like 8x6 or something? Otherwise you’re a moron for getting a gf at 5’8. Asking to be cucked.

 

[acidonmyface]

i want to express myself equally and show her that i really love her but i know that if i do the spark will fade, that’s just the way it works man


you have to be distant for them to actually love you, i know if i lost her right now i’d fall in guilt due to not actually expressing myself love for her and making it seem one sided, but at the same time it’s the only way i can actually make this relationship’s spark live

girls only love men who barely love them back and i find that horrible because i really do love her equally if not a lot more

That’s not true at all bhai, it’s important that your girlfriend feels loved otherwise you’re just asking to have her lose feelings

Acting unbothered will work only so long but after that ends there’s a high chance she’ll notice how one sided the love was and she’ll fully lose feelings

It’s important to not give her too much of you but you still can put her first in a way that she notices and you can be excited to see her, just not 24/7. Make yourself busy in life enough that she’s never satisfied with how much you give her but don’t hold back fully

True love still exists dw