I wanna give up on trying

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Im honestly starting to give up. I try not to stress about it all the time, but there are moments when it just completely breaks me.

Youre born with a small, downward grown jaw. (5’8)
Your parents don’t even realize it and send you to an orthodontist who only addresses your teeth.

Now I don’t qualify for any public funding or free surgery, and basically every surgeon either refuses to do a bimax or says I’d have to get braces again and wear them for a long time before and after surgery.

This whole system feels like it’s designed against people like us.

I keep going from appointment to appointment, throwing money away, and nothing changes.
The only real option left would be to magically pull €20,000 out of my ass which I obviously don’t have because i already spent most of the money i had :eek:rgJFL: and fly abroad to do a surgery-first approach, which is riskier.

My eye area requires work as well, basically my entire face does. So i don’t want to delay the process and I’m trying to do whatever I can.

realistically, ill probably end up with just a genioplasty, implants and soft tissue surgeries around the eyes, stil cucked but at least ill get a small taste of life.

Today was just the breaking point.

Few weeks ago i went to one appointment with a maxillo who sent me to an orthodontist.
Then the orthodontist sent me to a prosthodontist, who today did a TMJ examination that was completely pointless.
And now they’re sending me back to the orthodontist again.

each of these visits costs a fortune, the receptionist says today’s exam was $500.
I honestly cant fucking take this anymore.
 
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Don’t give up just gamble dnr
 
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Im honestly starting to give up. I try not to stress about it all the time, but there are moments when it just completely breaks me.

Youre born with a small, downward grown jaw. (5’8)
Your parents don’t even realize it and send you to an orthodontist who only addresses your teeth.

Now I don’t qualify for any public funding or free surgery, and basically every surgeon either refuses to do a bimax or says I’d have to get braces again and wear them for a long time before and after surgery.

This whole system feels like it’s designed against people like us.

I keep going from appointment to appointment, throwing money away, and nothing changes.
The only real option left would be to magically pull €20,000 out of my ass which I obviously don’t have because i already spent most of the money i had :eek:rgJFL: and fly abroad to do a surgery-first approach, which is riskier.

My eye area requires work as well, basically my entire face does. So i don’t want to delay the process and I’m trying to do whatever I can.

realistically, ill probably end up with just a genioplasty, implants and soft tissue surgeries around the eyes, stil cucked but at least ill get a small taste of life.

Today was just the breaking point.

Few weeks ago i went to one appointment with a maxillo who sent me to an orthodontist.
Then the orthodontist sent me to a prosthodontist, who today did a TMJ examination that was completely pointless.
And now they’re sending me back to the orthodontist again.

each of these visits costs a fortune, the receptionist says today’s exam was $500.
I honestly cant fucking take this anymore.
Sorry to hear that bro, keep trying you've already spent too much money on this.
 
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this will be you in couple of years
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Surgically tampering with your body for any reason other than medically necessary shit or to fix deformities is crazy. Unless you're ridiculously ugly getting surgery is crazy and just supports female hypergamy

I'm average looking and wouldn't go under the knife for cosmetic surgeries since there's nothing wrong with my looks. An average guy having to jump through hoops to get a looksmatch is insane and I won't play that game
 
Surgically tampering with your body for any reason other than medically necessary shit or to fix deformities is crazy. Unless you're ridiculously ugly getting surgery is crazy and just supports female hypergamy

I'm average looking and wouldn't go under the knife for cosmetic surgeries since there's nothing wrong with my looks. An average guy having to jump through hoops to get a looksmatch is insane and I won't play that game
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Your losing so much money on this bs, must be the most demotivating thing in the world esp since your pumping that money with no results :SadgeInTheRain::feelswah:
 
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Your losing so much money on this bs, must be the most demotivating thing in the world esp since your pumping that money with no results :SadgeInTheRain::feelswah:
At least maybe ill end up with genio and rhino and fat grafting
 
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meanwhile chad

 
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