I want a girl to take care of me and not me of her

[Jesus_ist_König]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

 

[DrRodger]

You're not attracted to women?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

You're not attracted to women?

Not really dude. Sexually yes but emotionally? It’s would break my relationship with good if I were to lustfully just have sex and not wait for marriage. I don’t really wanna marry a foid. I mean no vro

Answer the question though

 

[slaviccartfiend]

Not really dude. Sexually yes but emotionally? It’s would break my relationship with good if I were to lustfully just have sex and not wait for marriage. I don’t really wanna marry a foid. I mean no vro

Answer the question though

You're retarded

 

[Brava]

do you just want somebody that will make you feel snuggy, cozy, and comfortable?

 

[DrRodger]

Not really dude. Sexually yes but emotionally? It’s would break my relationship with good if I were to lustfully just have sex and not wait for marriage. I don’t really wanna marry a foid. I mean no vro

Answer the question though

God isn't real, what are ya just religious to cope or did your parents raise you like that

 

[ulgaa15]

do you just want somebody that will make you feel snuggy, cozy, and comfortable?

nah

 

[Brava]

God isn't real, what are ya just religious to cope or did your parents raise you like that

people say that , and then be the most miserable kind of person with no sign of hope, even if religion is fake, this is something that gives people purpose and hope to live a clean dedicated life, why do you hate on religion?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

do you just want somebody that will make you feel snuggy, cozy, and comfortable?

Emotional caretaking but foids aren’t emotional, they larp it, deep down they would watch your death and smile

 

[Zaref]

Mommy issues

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

God isn't real, what are ya just religious to cope or did your parents raise you like that

I was raised atheist

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Mommy issues

Probably dude

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Dude why can’t anyone answer the fucking question

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Do girls like this exist?
@Brava @iwannasleeponurlap @FUCK YEA

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

@cooldudewithasword answer this and get off my nerves

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Bump 🫩

 

[Nodal]

they do

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

I want to be nurtured and comforted

 

[d99lotus]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

Every relationship has different dynamics, just make sure you’re not a cuck. Yes if you find a normal or nice girl she will tend to you when you’re sick or wtv the case may be that ur prolly feeling off and it’s not uncommon either. IMO if ur constantly being babied by ur girl it’s worse than being a cuck, like having all your emotional needs being tied to her or any girl in general is asking for trouble.

 

[shewannahangwahtn]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

i personally recommend finding a 60 yr old milf whos mentally ill enough to want a young man.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

they do

So will I find a girl like that or is that a no go and only for htn?

 

[Nodal]

So will I find a girl like that or is that a no go and only for htn?

depends on your luck
but with ur behavior i dont think so

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Every relationship has different dynamics, just make sure you’re not a cuck. Yes if you find a normal or nice girl she will tend to you when you’re sick or wtv the case may be that ur prolly feeling off and it’s not uncommon either. IMO if ur constantly being babied by ur girl it’s worse than being a cuck, like having all your emotional needs being tied to her or any girl in general is asking for trouble.

Thanks for the answer. My big problem is that I severely get addicted to ppl. For that same reason I have been a volcel cuz it’s so brutal for me. I suffer dude, I want a peaceful mind but only think about her like a cuck. I tried to control it but I can’t.

And if I were in a relationship it would be hard for me to not show my soft side and always be like a cold dude or smth

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i personally recommend finding a 60 yr old milf whos mentally ill enough to want a young man.

Mirin

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

depends on your luck
but with ur behavior i dont think so

So girls don’t like it?

 

[Nodal]

So girls don’t like it?

i said there could be girls willing to do that for you
specialy if she is christian and right wing

just that ur anti social

 

[vigor]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

Definitely hurts your prospects
Its a pretty low T mindset tbh
There are dominant women but they’re a minority and they’re often pretty weird

Also you’re quite a devout christian right? Trad women would absolutely not go for a submissive man they want you to aggressively conform to gender roles.

 

[milkshake_addict]

noone wants to constantly take care of someone especially foids so if that your mindset going into a relationship expect a breakup

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i said there could be girls willing to do that for you
specialy if she

is christian and right wing

Going extinct btw

just that ur anti social

Yes I never had a gf but I think I can tolerate the social interactions with her.

Do you think that mentally wise I will have a problem?
Like I mean I guess I’m a crazy guy but at the end I didnt kill ppl. There are a lot of black ppl that killed others and have gfs. Or Mexican cartel ppl have girlfriends even though they behead ppl

 

[Nodal]

Going extinct btw

yeah but not by much

Yes I never had a gf but I think I can tolerate the social interactions with her.

Do you think that mentally wise I will have a problem?
Like I mean I guess I’m a crazy guy but at the end I didnt kill ppl. There are a lot of black ppl that killed others and have gfs. Or Mexican cartel ppl have girlfriends even though they behead ppl

cuz of money bruh

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Definitely hurts your prospects
Its a pretty low T mindset tbh
There are dominant women but they’re a minority and they’re often pretty weird

Yeah I think it’s cuz of my height. 5 foot 7 and 17. I mean if I was 6 foot 3 I wouldn’t be like this

Also you’re quite a devout christian right? Trad women would absolutely not go for a submissive man they want you to aggressively conform to gender roles.

I would be like that, but like there are like phases where I’m not like that. Sometimes I agree regress a bit

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

noone wants to constantly take care of someone especially foids so if that your mindset going into a relationship expect a breakup

Okay thanks for the advice. What personality should I mask then? That’s the point with women they are so and so fucking weird. Some want u to dirty talk… some want u to be like a nerd…

If ur not htn then it’s so fucking over.

I don’t even want a fucking woman in not even attracted to such beasts. But I do want a friend, but I can’t tell a friend things that I would have told my wife ughh

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

yeah but not by much

What personality should I mask?

cuz of money bruh

I don’t get it?

 

[milkshake_addict]

Okay thanks for the advice. What personality should I mask then? That’s the point with women they are so and so fucking weird. Some want u to dirty talk… some want u to be like a nerd…

If ur not htn then it’s so fucking over.

I don’t even want a fucking woman in not even attracted to such beasts. But I do want a friend, but I can’t tell a friend things that I would have told my wife ughh

date as a normal person and first let them like you more than you like them and then DONT trauma dump just yet until the relationship passes 6+ months

 

[Nodal]

What personality should I mask?

I don’t get it?

they have a lot of money so girl like the bad guys also some girls find it cool

not something u should mask but you should try and talk with people in some way

 

[cooldudewithasword]

@cooldudewithasword answer this and get off my nerves

What do i answer.

 

[cooldudewithasword]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

Who do you want to take care of you ?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

normal person

I can try but at some point I will not be able to hold it anymore and tweak

and first let them like you more than you like them and then DONT trauma dump just yet until the relationship passes 6+ months

Ur asking for to much I’m so bad at keeping secrets

I’ll stick to not getting any foid it’s such a bad roi

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

What do i answer.

I will skin you
What fucking question do you think

 

[milkshake_addict]

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I can try but at some point I will not be able to hold it anymore and tweak

take your meds then

Ur asking for to much I’m so bad at keeping secrets

I’ll stick to not getting any foid it’s such a bad roi

dont sell yourself short now

 

[cooldudewithasword]

I will skin you
What fucking question do you think

I don't understand you, who is the creator of this topic ? And what question, i'm not really sure .

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

take your meds then

I’m taking 30 mg Vyvanse and 3 mg Guanfacine and still see shadows moving at night and then when I’m alone other stuff happens.

dont sell yourself short now

Genuinely on one hand if she is the right girl I think i have a good chance but on the other hand some will see me as like a weird guy

 

[cooldudewithasword]

I will skin you
What fucking question do you think

Dude can you stop fucking around and tell me, what question do i answer ?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Dude can you stop fucking around and tell me, what question do i answer ?

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

 

[cooldudewithasword]

Which girls want to be taken care about ?

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

i want tomoko kuroki

 

[cooldudewithasword]

I will skin you
What fucking question do you think

@Nodal

 

[Nodal]

@Nodal

saw it
caged

 

[Rater727]

(If I ever get together with one cuz I’m not really attracted to them)
Will I even have a chance with that mentality? Cuz normally girls are the ones that want to be taken care of but dude I wanna LDAR and be taken care of.
Obviously I will work and do a job but yk what I mean

your options

sugar mummies (old ugly ass women) but u have to be their type
Mommy fetish girls (rare and might not have money / or be attractive) but u have to do some really weird shit probably

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

your options

sugar mummies (old ugly ass women) but u have to be their type

Mommy fetish girls (rare and might not have money / or be attractive) but u have to do some really weird shit probably

I doubt that they r Christian, if you say that they are probably not then imma just change my personality.

If I date normal women how would I act? Genuine question. I have adhd and autism and I get weird episodes were I do weird stuff