I want a oneitis but according to red pill game theory, that’s counterproductive to getting the oneitis.

[Amexmaxx]

I want to focus my efforts at getting with one particular girl but trp says that is the best way to not get the girl. I have to have an abundant mindset with preselection. I want that too but I also want this one girl. Can I have my cake and eat it too.

 

[Deleted member 4797]

You can approach her its fine, just tease and dont be high inhib/feeling like shes important when speaking with her.

That displays scarsity because your placing importance like as if you dont have other options.

Treat her like she's always readily replacable. Even do a fake reject on her, that works well too.

 

[Warlord]

I want to focus my efforts at getting with one particular girl but trp says that is the best way to not get the girl. I have to have an abundant mindset with preselection. I want that too but I also want this one girl. Can I have my cake and eat it too.

Just don't even bother. Never put all of your eggs in one basket. Never get attached to any singular girl. Trust me