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I will do it, maybe next week
So far my meets were pretty boring I'd say, only having a walk, park, bench, things like that
I am meet up-maxxing right now but it is for gaining experience, socializing, so 2 people at once is better than 1 probably. I am starting from social 0 and every meet-up I do, I am getting more confident and I'm learning by the mistakes I make, I am somewhat a perfectionist/analyst, if the date doesn't have the exact vibe I want to achieve, I drop that person and try again, with better mindset, with another, steady growth
So I don't give a fuck now, it is maybe dumb, but somewhat exciting and interesting, and I wouldn't have to focus strictly on one person, the girls would maybe do the talking with themselves too? the idea would be to drink alcohol somewhere outdoor and just have a funny, friendly, sociable vibe together, I wouldn't tell them before that it's gonna look like that, but why would I care what they think about it, they probably wouldn't agree, and after we'd seen each other irl they would accept it, and if not, then I don't care as well, at least I tried something new
What do you think, is it very stupid or it's a good idea in my situation like I think so
So far my meets were pretty boring I'd say, only having a walk, park, bench, things like that
I am meet up-maxxing right now but it is for gaining experience, socializing, so 2 people at once is better than 1 probably. I am starting from social 0 and every meet-up I do, I am getting more confident and I'm learning by the mistakes I make, I am somewhat a perfectionist/analyst, if the date doesn't have the exact vibe I want to achieve, I drop that person and try again, with better mindset, with another, steady growth
So I don't give a fuck now, it is maybe dumb, but somewhat exciting and interesting, and I wouldn't have to focus strictly on one person, the girls would maybe do the talking with themselves too? the idea would be to drink alcohol somewhere outdoor and just have a funny, friendly, sociable vibe together, I wouldn't tell them before that it's gonna look like that, but why would I care what they think about it, they probably wouldn't agree, and after we'd seen each other irl they would accept it, and if not, then I don't care as well, at least I tried something new
What do you think, is it very stupid or it's a good idea in my situation like I think so
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