I want to propose a theory: If women do not approach you in public, you are not ascended. That should be the goal.

[Deleted member 13264]

Proofs:

how to stop feeling ugly after looksmaxxing | Looksmax.me - Men's Self-Improvement & Aesthetics

Anecdotes:
I've met one chad and he says he got catcalled MULTIPLE TIMES DAILY. This was in NYC tho. (copied)
This guy had blue eyes, black hair, and was a bit short though. Huge skull, and generally a slayer. He had and kept a six pack without even trying (not sure if he was fucking with me here, I don't pick up on social cues since I don't talk to people much)

I've also seen my cousin get approached in public as well. So.... ye.

I genuinely think that this is true - to a point. I don't know how frequently it happens but damn, if it hasn't happened; I've got some news.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

No, because looks aren't everything. In fact, they're nothing for some folks. Getting approached in public is a good inticator though.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

No, because looks aren't everything. In fact, they're nothing for some folks. Getting approached in public is a good inticator though.

Some folks: 95% of people that say that don't realize that "attraction" is all about looks.
The 5% remaining are either super religious or high asf IQ - even both.
IMO​

 

[zeke714]

100% true

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Some folks: 95% of people that say that don't realize that "attraction" is all about looks.
The 5% remaining are either super religious or high asf IQ - even both.
IMO​

What? Women get turned off all the time by certain behavior.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

What? Women get turned off all the time by certain behavior.​

I'm talking about ascension. Where have I said anything about other stuff mate. I hate to say this but please stop coping. Personality matters after the fact of attraction. It's sad but it's true. Idk man, you do you but this is how I view the world at the moment. That or tribalism. I like to cope with looksmaxing over tribalism. I can't change people. Tribalism makes me extremely depressed.

There might be exceptions to this. You might be that person. On autopilot, it's a whole different story. Unless you consistently are trying to not be that person and break the conditioning of dopamine somehow JFL.​

 

[Hozay]

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I'm talking about ascension. Where have I said anything about other stuff mate. I hate to say this but please stop coping. Personality matters after the fact of attraction. It's sad but it's true. Idk man, you do you but this is how I view the world at the moment. That or tribalism. I like to cope with looksmaxing over tribalism. Tribalism makes me extremely depressed.

There might be exceptions to this. You might be that person. On autopilot, it's a whole different story. Unless you consistently are trying to not be that person and break the conditioning of dopamine somehow JFL.​

Well, what does ascension mean to you? Me, I've never had a problem getting women physically attracted to me. The problems always came after they got to know me. They'd always get turned off. I didn't know how to cunduct myself at a close proximity.

Why would I worry about physical attractiveness when I've never needed to looksmaxx to get what I want from women? Sure, I could probably be more aesthetically attractive if I tried. But I already know it wouldn't make a difference in getting what I wanted.

I don't cope, period. I could never accept a beautiful lie in favor of an ugly truth. I've always valued truth above everything else.

 

[Deleted]

Idk my girl is stacylite but ive only been approached twice and it was when trainging alone at night lol.

If u dont work/study in the city and dont go shopping or whatever there Will basically be no chances for u to even be approached in the first place.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

Well, what does ascension mean to you? Me, I've never had a problem getting women physically attracted to me. The problems always came after they got to know me. They'd always get turned off. I didn't know how to cunduct myself at a close proximity.

Why would I worry about physical attractiveness when I've never needed to looksmaxx to get what I want from women? Sure, I could probably be more aesthetically attractive if I tried. But I already know it wouldn't make a difference in getting what I wanted.

I don't cope, period. I could never accept a beautiful lie in favor of an ugly truth. I've always valued truth above everything else.

Read how to win friends and influence people.​

 

[Growth Plate]

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Idk my girl is stacylite but ive only been approached twice and it was when trainging alone at night lol.

If u dont work/study in the city and dont go shopping or whatever there Will basically be no chances for u to even be approached in the first place.

Cope girls can smell where chad live and they go straight to his basement he don't have to go out

 

[Deleted member 13264]

I went that route as a proof but look at their other videos, fake as hell. I've put it up to: why would GL dudes post something related to this? There's no real incentive.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Read how to win friends and influence people.​

I've read it. I've also read How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, and The Leader in You.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

I've read it. I've also read How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, and The Leader in You.

Just be honest and don't put up a front. Unless it's your voice that might be the issue or some other thing having to do with frame. Maybe habits that you don't notice. Be very aware.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Just be honest and don't put up a front. Unless it's your voice that might be the issue or some other thing having to do with frame. Maybe habits that you don't notice. Be very aware.​

What do you mean?

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Just be honest and don't put up a front. Unless it's your voice that might be the issue or some other thing having to do with frame. Maybe habits that you don't notice. Be very aware.​

Oh, no. My problem was all tge beta male conditioning I grew up with in the Western media. I didn't know how to act like a man.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

What do you mean?

I used to be extremely socially anxious and not confident at all. I slowly realized that I didn't speak what was on my mind and I put up a front or a fake "personality." The other stuff is just reviewing what you do in an interaction and being self-aware while doing it.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I used to be extremely socially anxious and not confident at all. I slowly realized that I didn't speak what was on my mind and I put up a front or a fake "personality." The other stuff is just reviewing what you do in an interaction and being self-aware while doing it.​

That's your experience though. Maybe what's on your mind is alright to speak.

Hey, I always speak my mind as well. But if I was naturally a pussy, I'd keep quiet until I got my priorities straightened out.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

That's your experience though. Maybe what's on your mind is alright to speak.

Hey, I always speak my mind as well. But if I was naturally a pussy, I'd keep quiet until I got my priorities straightened out.

The issue is though, that looksmax is in the site's name - it is the site's name. Social dynamics is a whole 'nother ball game. Look into some body language sites, they were a game-changer for me.​

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

No, because looks aren't everything. In fact, they're nothing for some folks.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

The issue is though, that looksmax is in the site's name - it is the site's name. Social dynamics is a whole 'nother ball game. Look into some body language sites, they were a game-changer for me.​

I'd rather read a book. I've been wanting to read What Every Body is Saying for some time now. I'd say I got most of that stuff pretty well dialed in though. I'm pretty damn good at reading people, while knowing what kind of "vibes" I give off at the same time.

I'm here to help people. You might say I'm an "anti-looksmaxxer". Too many young men seem to be way too focused on their looks for their own good. It's not healthy, and I believe most of them are only setting themselves up for bitter disappointment.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

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Nice avi.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

I'd rather read a book. I've been wanting to read What Every Body is Saying for some time now. I'd say I got most of that stuff pretty well dialed in though. I'm pretty damn good at reading people, while knowing what kind of "vibes" I give off at the same time.

I'm here to help people. You might say I'm an "anti-looksmaxxer". Too many young men seem to be way too focused on their looks for their own good. It's not healthy, and I believe most of them are only setting themselves up for bitter disappointment.

It is healthy. They're improving themselves even if it doesn't feel like it. Through pain, comes growth. Cope is not the answer for some people, they've chosen this path. Just try to be nicer, that's what I'm trying to do. I created this account with the intention to post a video to prevent someone from killing themselves. If you want to help, be honest and nicer. That doesn't mean half-lying to people and giving them half-true platitudes. Though, being rude and mean is a filter for normalfags; so I get it.​

 

[Deleted member 3771]

Well, what does ascension mean to you? Me, I've never had a problem getting women physically attracted to me. The problems always came after they got to know me. They'd always get turned off. I didn't know how to cunduct myself at a close proximity.

Why would I worry about physical attractiveness when I've never needed to looksmaxx to get what I want from women? Sure, I could probably be more aesthetically attractive if I tried. But I already know it wouldn't make a difference in getting what I wanted.

I don't cope, period. I could never accept a beautiful lie in favor of an ugly truth. I've always valued truth above everything else.

I disagree my man, maybe your life as an normal healthy well developed individual face no obstacle building relationship and attracting the opposite sex.

Now imagine you are short, born so ugly that woman brain are hardwired to find you repelling. Me for an example, growing up I have always been frustrated why did I do wrong, why girl don't reply my text, why I always get left out in group conversation even though I text and I speak the way the popular guy would advise me too.

And I was super obsessed with those aspie book, how to win influence, how to speak to power... yada yada. If any of those work, I wouldnt be here now. I bet you never see any genuine charming guy learn to be charismatic by reading those books.

Even though I'm blackpilled, every now and then I will still fall in the blue pill trap, 'it's your personality that is repulsive, you didn't hold frame bro, try to be funny by depreciating yourself bro, it works for me.' This only works if you are at least normal and look healthy, not when you are some 5 inches below average height, balding and ugly.

I do believe blackpill is a spectrum, it's only true if you maintain the perfect balance. What I mean is not take it to the delusional toll or cope with ' its definitely my attitude I have to fix'.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

It is healthy. They're improving themselves even if it doesn't feel like it. Through pain, comes growth. Cope is not the answer for some people, they've chosen this path. Just try to be nicer, that's what I'm trying to do. I created this account with the intention to post a video to prevent someone from killing themselves. If you want to help, be honest and nicer. That doesn't mean half-lying to people and giving them half-true platitudes. Though, being rude and mean is a filter for normalfags; so I get it.​

I'm very honest. And I'm nice enough. Maybe we'll have to disagree on what we think reality might be. You can't say I've lied about anything.

Self improvement is always good. But obsessing over your looks is not. There's scores of people on here talking about how PSL has destroyed their lives. Also, self improvement depends on what's in your heart.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

I'm very honest. And I'm nice enough. Maybe we'll have to disagree on what we think reality might be. You can't say I've lied about anything.

Self improvement is always good. But obsessing over your looks is not. There's scores of people on here talking about how PSL has destroyed their lives. Also, self improvement depends on what's in your heart.

I can't speak for others but I only come to PSL to be a depressed/addicted rotter for a few days. I find it therapeutic for some reason. Like people get my pain and my views on looks and whatnot. I 100% completely disagree with a lot on this site. I especially hate the tribalism. Though, it keeps people that are not completely honest out of the picture. I wouldn't act like this if I was away from the site (depressed). Eventually, the depression fades and I start to leave. Well, after the honeymoon phase/getting info. I hope that other people are the same - I think a lot are. There's super smart people here. If you don't believe so, check the college/university threads.

I don't want another elliot rodger or anything like that. I hope I can somehow prevent another one while I'm on but that's highly unlikely.​

 

[bernanddrago]

What do you mean by approach? Laying eyes on while in a mall, public transportation or walking etc. or saying like " Hey, I'm Ashley/ Or asking questions about the thing that you're doing atm(Gym etc.)?" ish things? If 2nd, the frequency would depend on the culture and the country I'd say so. Some people are shy while some of them are very outspoken.

 

[john2]

Insanely legit.

But approaching women as a guy is the most cringe thing to do imo.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

Hey, I'm Ashley/ Or asking questions about the thing that you're doing atm(Gym etc.)?"

Basically they come up to you and start talking to you trying to get your number or something like that. Catcalling, doing the fake asking for directions thing (if you can pick up on it), etc.

Yeah, Idk how it would fare in other countries. You're right. Ask a chad lmao. That's almost the only way to know for sure. That and IOIs. Though, IOIs can be just to be nice so...​

 

[bernanddrago]

Basically they come up to you and start talking to you trying to get your number or something like that. Catcalling, doing the fake asking for directions thing (if you can pick up on it), etc.

Yeah, Idk how it would fare in other countries. You're right. Ask a chad lmao. That's almost the only way to know for sure. That and IOIs. Though, IOIs can be just to be nice so...​

As I've seen so far, you'd get minimal "approach" in public transports in any country. EU seems more into approaching (even at young age). Never been to USA so IDK. Catcalling happens almost everywhere but as I mentioned above, frequency differs by country.

It's over if;
·you don't get approaches in gyms, bars etc.
·getting long eye/body contacts on yourself (regardless of location)

 

[court monarch777]

Idk my girl is stacylite but ive only been approached twice and it was when trainging alone at night lol.

If u dont work/study in the city and dont go shopping or whatever there Will basically be no chances for u to even be approached in the first place.

I think it is right for you to know if you ascended is how girls treat you (indifference> normal> treat you as if you were gl). like you said, if you don’t leave the house the chance of being approached is 0

 

[bernanddrago]

I think it is right for you to know if you ascended is how girls treat you (indifference> normal> treat you as if you were gl). like you said, if you don’t leave the house the chance of being approached is 0

Just leave your mom's basement theory

 

[court monarch777]

Just leave your mom's basement theory

I prefer to continue living in your mother's room

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I disagree my man, maybe your life as an normal healthy well developed individual face no obstacle building relationship and attracting the opposite sex.

Now imagine you are short, born so ugly that woman brain are hardwired to find you repelling. Me for an example, growing up I have always been frustrated why did I do wrong, why girl don't reply my text, why I always get left out in group conversation even though I text and I speak the way the popular guy would advise me too.

And I was super obsessed with those aspie book, how to win influence, how to speak to power... yada yada. If any of those work, I wouldnt be here now. I bet you never see any genuine charming guy learn to be charismatic by reading those books.

Even though I'm blackpilled, every now and then I will still fall in the blue pill trap, 'it's your personality that is repulsive, you didn't hold frame bro, try to be funny by depreciating yourself bro, it works for me.' This only works if you are at least normal and look healthy, not when you are some 5 inches below average height, balding and ugly.

I do believe blackpill is a spectrum, it's only true if you maintain the perfect balance. What I mean is not take it to the delusional toll or cope with ' its definitely my attitude I have to fix'.

Your case proves what I'm trying to say. You're never gonna get any taller after a certain age. You can only hardmaxx/softmaxx so much. And it's not even really that deep. You could probably learn all there is to know about those kinds of things from spending a short week or two on this site. After a certain point all you're really doing is just rotting while having a circle jerk.

I'm not advocating booksmaxxing per se. I'm more about developement of character through experiences. Experiences that have nothing to do with getting girls/PUA. Books can certainly help though. The 48 Laws of Power was a game changer for me. That helped me navigate certain social situations wherever authority's involved by learning to read between the lines.

Anyways, what I've seen to be true is that after a certain level of attractiveness has been achieved, it's all red pill from there on out. The black pill can never take you all the damn way.

 

[bernanddrago]

I prefer to continue living in your mother's room

Wasn't trying to insult you.

like you said, if you don’t leave the house the chance of being approached is 0

I was mentioning this, agreeing on your point.

 

[court monarch777]

Wasn't trying to insult you.

so I withdraw my comment

 

[Deleted member 13264]

After a certain point all you're really doing is just rotting while having a circle jerk.

Thus is life.​

I'm not advocating booksmaxxing per se. I'm more about developement of character through experiences. Experiences that have nothing to do with getting girls/PUA. Books can certainly help though. The 48 Laws of Power was a game changer for me. That helped me navigate certain social situations wherever authority's involved by learning to read between the lines.

Kinda irrelevant to the point of the site. Also 48 laws of power is the sociopath's bible. Morally degenerate book.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I can't speak for others but I only come to PSL to be a depressed/addicted rotter for a few days. I find it therapeutic for some reason. Like people get my pain and my views on looks and whatnot. I 100% completely disagree with a lot on this site. I especially hate the tribalism. Though, it keeps people that are not completely honest out of the picture. I wouldn't act like this if I was away from the site (depressed). Eventually, the depression fades and I start to leave. Well, after the honeymoon phase/getting info. I hope that other people are the same - I think a lot are. There's super smart people here. If you don't believe so, check the college/university threads.

I don't want another elliot rodger or anything like that. I hope I can somehow prevent another one while I'm on but that's highly unlikely.​

Yeah, there's a lot of brilliant people on here. Most people on here are actually pretty smart. Smart, but also confused.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

women don't approach, they will just stand around you hoping you'll talk to her

only giga masculine foids approach

 

[Deleted member 13264]

women don't approach, they will just stand around you hoping you'll talk to her

only giga masculine foids approach

The point is that you'll get approached eventually and much more often. Think of it as a percentage. 1% approach. You get 1000 impressions, 10 people approach.​

 

[Pumanator]

All the girls I know have approached, or used heavy easy to notice signals. Signals like giggling , beiing touchy to that person or talking about sexual topics.

however not all the boys I know have approached or have been "properly rejected". The boys that I know that score the most also get rejected the most, however none of my friends are true chads. Just psl 5 max.

I have been approached a few times in my life. However I am not a Chad and have been rated like 3.3-3.7 psl here. Perhaps the bar to beiing approached in your life every few months / year is low.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

All the girls I know have approached, or used heavy easy to notice signals. Signals like giggling , beiing touchy to that person or talking about sexual topics.

however not all the boys I know have approached or have been "properly rejected". The boys that I know that score the most also get rejected the most, however none of my friends are true chads. Just psl 5 max.

I have been approached a few times in my life. However I am not a Chad and have been rated like 3.3-3.7 psl here. Perhaps the bar to beiing approached in your life every few months / year is low.

It's a numbers game for sure but ye. Approaching is the biggest indication that you are attractive.

See:
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The point is that you'll get approached eventually and much more often. Think of it as a percentage. 1% approach. You get 1000 impressions, 10 people approach.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Thus is life.


Kinda irrelevant to the point of the site. Also 48 laws of power is the sociopath's bible. Morally degenerate book.​

Matthew 10:16​

“Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.”

The world is filled with sociopaths, or at least people who operate like them on more than one level. Like it or not, power structures are ruthless. You gotta be wise to the games that people are playing if you want to survive in the world. Everybody's playing chess these days, not checkers.

 

[Deleted member 13264]

Matthew 10:16​

“Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.”

The world is filled with sociopaths, or at least people who operate like them on more than one level. Like it or not, power structures are ruthless. You gotta be wise to the games that people are playing if you want to survive in the world. Everybody's playing chess these days, not checkers.

I felt really dirty reading it, ima leave it up to God.​

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I felt really dirty reading it, ima leave it up to God.​

How do you expect God to protect you in this matter if you disregard the commandment Jesus gave concerning it? Jesus commanded us to be as wise as serpents. It wasn't a suggestion.

Did you also know that the fearful will not get into the kingdom of heaven? Just because something feels dirty or is uncomfortable doesn't mean you should look away from it. Especially when there's knowledge to be gained.

Lol, I'm not saying you're gonna go to hell for not reading the 48 Laws of Power. But you might want to re-evaluate your attitude toward such things if you're indeed a believer. God takes no pleasure in fools or anyone who would shun knowledge.

Anyways, it's a sad truth but this is how most of the world operates. You don't have to apply it. But wouldn't you want to know how to recognize and defend against it if need be?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Nice avi.

thank you

 

[Deleted member 1476]

just get banged up for sexual harassment theorem

 

[MassacredMyBoy]

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Laugh everytime I see this shit

 

[Wavedashmaxxing]

This is cope I'm a 5'9 curry(can't rate looks because straight) and I've had girls at school say that I have nice eyes or face or something
If that is true than racepill is false since the few times I've been approached by girls are more than most guys but I'm still virgin unlike them so the definition doesn't work