I Want To Settle Down With My Oneitis

[PubertyMaxxer]

When she reaches her thirties i may have a greater chance to settle down with her than now

Inb4 you call me cucked

If you ever had a true oneitis - not for attention seeking - you would prefer her over any other girl in the world - even if it means waiting a few years till she matured

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

 

[Deleted member 9048]

 

[Deleted member 2012]

When she reaches her thirties i may have a greater chance to settle down with her than now

Inb4 you call me cucked

If you ever had a true oneitis - not for attention seeking - you would prefer her over any other girl in the world - even if it means waiting a few years till she matured

Just move on man. Seriously. You know this will not end well

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Just move on man. Seriously. You know this will not end well

How?

 

[Deleted member 6723]

sadly I might try the same for Eva

 

[Deleted member 2012]

How?

She will keep living in your head rent free for a very long time and then you will just be rejected again or she will get into a relationship with another guy and you will be always waiting for it to end.

Just let go of her, she is not special. You just think she is because you invested too much time fantasizing about the prospect of dating her and now you thing something of value will be lost if you give up. It won’t.

You have nothing to begin with, only a future of disappointment if you don’t drop it now.

It’s like a gambler who invented too much in a gamble and doesn’t want to accept the loss and just keeps adding more and more money into it until it’s impossible.

Sometimes you just need to set your feelings aside and accept that it’s a lost cause. Cut your losses and get disappointed now. Or keep up with this cope and set yourself up for an even bigger disappointment later after having wasted more time of your prime thinking about something that will never happen.

 

[IWantToMax]

She doesn't know I exist

 

[Deleted member 4209]

i genuinely thought i had a plan to have my oneitis one day

then it came crashing down

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

She will keep living in your head rent free for a very long time and then you will just be rejected again or she will get into a relationship with another guy and you will be always waiting for it to end.

Just let go of her, she is not special. You just think she is because you invested too much time fantasizing about the prospect of dating her and now you thing something of value will be lost if you give up. It won’t.

You have nothing to begin with, only a future of disappointment if you don’t drop it now.

It’s like a gambler who invented too much in a gamble and doesn’t want to accept the loss and just keeps adding more and more money into it until it’s impossible.

Sometimes you just need to set your feelings aside and accept that it’s a lost cause. Cut your losses and get disappointed now. Or keep up with this cope and set yourself up for an even bigger disappointment later after having wasted more time of your prime thinking about something that will never happen.

Wise words

 

[Deleted member 2012]

Wise words

Words from a former oneitiscel who suffered more than any young man should at the hands of his own stupidity and stubbornness.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Bump

 

[Alexanderr]

When she reaches her thirties i may have a greater chance to settle down with her than now

Inb4 you call me cucked

If you ever had a true oneitis - not for attention seeking - you would prefer her over any other girl in the world - even if it means waiting a few years till she matured

Cucked indeed.

 

[Deleted member 8576]

 

[Alexanderr]

sadly I might try the same for Eva

Don’t fool yourself man, you know you don’t have a chance with her even if 50 years passed.

 

[RAITEIII]

How?

Well I'm an oneitis cel so I'm the right person to answer this.

Obsessing over your oneitis means a lot of things. First one that you dont value yourself enough and think she's better (and this could be actually TRUE). Key is increase your value, in all aspects of life (mentally, physically economically...) and at some point you'll realise that you're better. So you won't care.

Issues you might face: you cannot increase your value. So you remain stuck. This would require to follow another path, but I guess it can be done at smaller scale and meet someone new.

 

[Deleted member 2658]

When she reaches her thirties i may have a greater chance to settle down with her than now

Inb4 you call me cucked

If you ever had a true oneitis - not for attention seeking - you would prefer her over any other girl in the world - even if it means waiting a few years till she matured

Reincarnatemaxx you faggot

 

[JustAFewMM]

Words from a former oneitiscel who suffered more than any young man should at the hands of his own stupidity and stubbornness.

Cope i suffer the most brutal from oneitis disease

 

[Deleted member 2748]

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

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Unironically i would ascend to Stacy

 

[Deleted member 5574]

You need self respect bro ,we have all been there.

You crush is getting her face slapped and getting chocked by some low inhib normie ,grow up man ...she's not waiting for you.

You need to be close friends with girls and you will see first hand the stupid amount of options 10's of pic snaps 100's of tinder messages. As a average make up chubby girl.

And you think she cares about you?

Alot of man are cant fathom the options of girls,so they think you are on the same level from the get go .NOOO

All women want you for something unless you are chad ,popular/super NT / rich or top 20% in all then she isn't fucking with you .

Dark traid is the only way to live.