I want to understand why I feel attracted to the things that I do

[Rt-Rust1]

For example. If I had a handicapped girl fetish. Then I would try to understand why is it so. There must be a reason since there's no way feeling this way be natural. What would be natural would be feeling attracted to women with nice bodies. So, there must be an underlying reason to feel this way. A trauma, an unresolved though, a blockage. Something going on in the backgroung of the mind which is probably causing misery.

Anyways, pretty much everything we do is unnatural anyways, wearing clothes, using computers, sitting all day long, looking like shit (like deformed faces and such) so it fetishes are not the only thing that are normalized ​

 

[Deleted member 20631]

If you have handicapped girl fetish maybe you just feel a strong urge to protect a girl and that ends up sexual in your brain IDK

 

[Gonthar]

For example. If I had a handicapped girl fetish. Then I would try to understand why is it so. There must be a reason since there's no way feeling this way be natural. What would be natural would be feeling attracted to women with nice bodies. So, there must be an underlying reason to feel this way. A trauma, an unresolved though, a blockage. Something going on in the backgroung of the mind which is probably causing misery.​

You're probably just sick in the head, you could go to a therapist and go through hundreds of hours of therapy to find out why and how, but in the end the therapist will probably just say: "You're just fucking crazy, man!".

 

[Deleted member 5815]

fear of abandonment, not having enough self confidence so you think these are the only girls that can love you?

 

[Rt-Rust1]

You're probably just sick in the head, you could go to a therapist and go through hundreds of hours of therapy to find out why and how, but in the end the therapist will probably just say: "You're just fucking crazy, man!".

Then what's the point. Your post brings nothing to the table. Besides, most modern terapist may agree with accepting any kind of "kink" which are all, all of them, twisted. And as I said, most things we do in modern life which are considered normal are .

fear of abandonment, not having enough self confidence so you think these are the only girls that can love you?

It is not me the one with this fetish. I just brought it up as an example. Re redad my post.

 

[Gonthar]

Then what's the point. Your post brings nothing to the table.

What do you mean, I just said your head is sick, you could go check it at a doctor, just tell him: "Sir, there's something wrong with my head, I need you to look inside.".

 

[Deleted member 5815]

It is not me the one with this fetish. I just brought it up as an example. Re redad my post.

I know I said what I think the root of such fetish is I think all kinks come from childhood trauma or in some case porn addiction but that's a trauma in itself

 

[Rt-Rust1]

What do you mean, I just said your head is sick, you could go check it at a doctor, just tell him: "Sir, there's something wrong with my head, I need you to look inside.".

Yeah, I underdtand your point. It may work or not (one reason being what I said)